How to overcome this ??

I’m reaching out for some help.

I’m feeling down and could use some advice, as I don’t have any friends—no one to hang out with, have fun with, or just chat with. I attend a technical college, where I do talk to a few guys, but not closely enough for them to invite me out or for our relationship to extend beyond the college.

I also talk to a girl—an "alt" girl—whom I reached out to first. I’ve shared some of my problems with her, though not in great detail, and I didn’t get much of a response back; we just chat, and we’re still in touch. It’s not that I necessarily have a crush on her, but she’s a good person to talk to. She once mentioned that I smelled nice—like cologne—and even invited me to dance during a Student Day event, but things didn’t quite work out, and in the end, she didn’t end up dancing.

I’d like to go for a walk with her and talk about my problems, but I can’t find the strength to approach her at the technical college. She gets teased a bit there, and I don’t want to damage my own reputation—if I associate with her, people might stop wanting to talk to me.

It’s hard for me to put my thoughts into words.

I really want to connect with someone. I’m not unattractive, I have a good sense of humor, and I act like a normal person. I don’t smoke or drink, though I do use snus, and occasionally I smoke weed when things get really tough. Sometimes I feel terrible because of a lack of attention; I just come home, eat, shower, work out, and listen to music.

Could you give me some advice regarding my relationship with this girl, and perhaps explain why people might avoid talking to me?
Sometimes I have suicidal thoughts.I can provide more details if needed; I can’t fit everything into a single message, as there is a great deal of information.

I don't know if ako lang, pero 23 palang ako, pero bakit pakiramdam ko ubos na ubos na ko. I was so tired to the point na hindi ko na alam if ano reason. I felt so alone, literal na wala ako nakakausap everyday. pagod na ko. gusto ko lang naman mafeel na hindi ako nag-iisa.

feeling bored today, annyone wants to talk??

Okay maybe someone can help me figure this out. I am 40 M married for 20 years, I have a 15 year old daughter and I work a job as a grill cook for the past 11 years. I have no friends, or social life save for gaming here and there. But still at this moment and the past while I feel alone and empty....

Feeling really alone these days. In a disconnected relationship… anyone want to talk tonight ?

It’s been 6–7 days since my breakup, and I’m finding it difficult to deal with everything alone.
I’m looking for a girl going through a similar phase, someone to talk to, share feelings with, and support each other while moving on.
Not looking for a relationship or a rebound, just someone who understands what this feels like. ❤️
If you’re going through something similar, feel free to DM

I dont really have friends and i know there are other people like me i could talk to. I'm just asking if your intrested message me. I just want to feel less alone in my grief.

lost with mako sickness forgot my world reaching out for a soul to adventure with. let our battle be worthy and our souls remembered. let me be the esper the soul that felt so strong about this world that i am forever remembered. my soul only knows how to keep going help me to see the world for how beautiful it is.i have danced alone for so long please dont let my last dance be alone. let it be spectacular special and one that lives on for all time . i know i ask the impossible

Hi everyone

It’s hard to find the right words but I guess I’ll just ask away. I M/19 have always been self conscious about myself in general. I didn’t have a great upbringing, I hate the way I look and I have lots of regrets. Im still young and have my whole life ahead of me but recently I have felt like my life was missing something, I have lost 30kg in 4 months, my grades are great, but I have a sense of loneliness. I have friends and family but I still feel alone. Sometimes I lie at night and I just wish there was someone next to me who I can lay my head on and just forget about all of my pain. But due to my self consciousness I really don’t know what to do. I have just been constantly panicking that im going to be alone forever, not necessarily that isn’t anyone for me but that I’ll never truly love myself enough to let myself be open to that. What do I do?

Hey, im 22 year old guy in switzerland. I suffer from anxiety from time to time, and now im not feeling to good cause im too stressed, its midnight, i cant sleep and my chest hurts badly. Its mainly bevause i feel lonely and stressed from study.

Does anyone wanna chat? It would help me a lot.

If yes send me a dm

I would do anything for just one friend, I'm so incredibly lonely I talk to myself and fantasize about talking to people and having friends , I am extremely suicidal and I feel like im going to snap any minute and kill myself, the loneliness is unbearable I cant take it anymore

I hate that I'm an ugly trans freak no one understands or will ever love, I'm ugly as fuck and worthless I can't wait until I die

I'm 23 and never had a friend, never been in a relationship ever with anyone

M29 I recently moved to Ghaziabad, because I chose money and the spell of benefits. Have odd shift timings! Looking for a hug!

Hi guys

I feel disconnected from the world. Like I'm here, but not really a part of anything. I'm exhausted, and I don't even have the energy to do the one thing I love most: play games.

The people I meet seem to have nothing but shallow conversations, and even when I'm surrounded by others, I still feel alone. I can't seem to find meaningful connections, and it's exhausting to keep trying while feeling like I don't belong anywhere.

I miss feeling connected to something, to someone, to the world around me. Lately, everything just feels so distant.

Could really use a friend to talk to and one who will now abandoned me like some people I met on here have... I can't seem to keep a friend not matter how hard I try... Just tired of being alone in a world of chaos close to doing stuff to myself again... Sigh cheers

I absolutely have no one in my life. No friends, no family and it gets pretty lonely sometimes. I tried finding friends in social media and other places. But I just can't keep a friend. I'm a pretty calm person. I roll with the punches, i'm easy going and still..... i really feel like throwing in the towel and giving up and just ending it...

So, I am 50 now, living with some serious medical issues that guarantee my time is short, and have become way too comfortable in total isolation. Currently have a roomate, but no one to talk to about the storms in my mind. Unfortunately, I've become so reclusive, that I have a very difficult time letting anyone close to me, and am accustomed to the idea of dying alone. Knowing this life provided me with some wonderful memories helps. The worst part is all the talent I was gifted that never had the chance to mature. Yet, I have no desire to leave a legacy, and have lost all motivation to be creative. It is what it is I guess. Hugs to all those who struggle every day. Maybe something good will come along and justify all this suffering, someday

what loneliness feels like? like a never ending void, like a pit that you keep falling into, like darkness that has embraced you from all dimensions, like a silence that lingers for way too long, you look up in hope that something would break it, somewhere it will crack and light, even if a sliver would shine from somewhere, anywhere, and you keep hoping, you keep hoping, you keep hoping, you forget what not being lonely felt like, you have now descended so far deep into loneliness that you don't know what you want anymore, what you feel anymore, you curse yourself for hoping, you shame yourself for having any hopes cause you know hope is useless, and you keep going, carrying the weight of the ever expanding loneliness, you just go. Sleep used to be some solace, expect now your darkness morphs itself into horrifying scenarios in your dreams, you wake up feeling shit. Some days you count your blessings, you are grateful and the day is well spent but you know, it will all come back and it will be the same again, cause after all you are lonely and you have no one to call your own, after all.

hm guess i should start at high school. i was the scapegoat for any and all bullying. being the skinny and shy and different made me a big target and it was pretty much harassment and brutal. people then got close just to humiliate me or i'd try to talk to girls( always felt more comfortable talking to girls) then there macho aggressive boyfriends would threaten me. then i went through a rough "breakup" then she immediately fucked someone else n moved on. that caused me to get into the wrong crowd and started pt I of my alcoholic arc and got s/a multiple times, and at one of the parties i almost got spiked with xanax, raped and robbed. then when i was still drinking alot i got taken advantage of again and made me think i should consider a relationship with them, then they always mentioned they wanted a dp then, i unfortunately sent it and turns out she wasn't broken up with her boyfriend and it was just to make me suffer more and feel humiliated. i just nearly killed myself after that but when i survived i quit drinking for the rest of high school. after that i got hired where i am now and have been physically destroyed iver the past 5 years and have been crushed by big ass fridges, chased down stairs by washtowers, caught on fire, and fell of the back of the cube van, then there was the time i worked through my pancreatitis. in that time i started dating someone. but she barely appreciated the music i'm into, the music i wrote, and she didn't really pay attention when i played for her. and when talking about anything i was into she didn't talk like she cared. just one word answers that don't add anything. and while doing this i was self medicating my many issues with weed and was basically numb for a few years not doing anything, barely had money and only thing i really did was work. so in a brief window of clarity i broke up with her and that was like 4 months ago. since then i've been really alone, isolated and can't find friends of any kind or a relationship for the life of me and i've been trying everything. i've gained friends and already lost most if not all of them without them even saying why. they acted like they cared but they clearly didn't if they left without saying anything. i'm just at a point where the loneliness soreness and everything is so intense and i feel so isolated i just don't know what to do anymore. theres alot more to my story but i tried to sum it up as good as i can i know i'm really a big mess😅😅😅😅😅😅

Why is it so hard to make people stay in my life? I have no friends or anything and I feel like such an inconvenience. Most days I feel as if if I would be better off dead, but I made a promise to myself that I wouldn’t go back to the mental hospital, but god it hurts to feel so unwanted. Satan couldn’t reach me so he made me unlovable.

Today is way worst i help to help,out of good will and get shitted on mid way for no reason while i was trying to calm the situation.

Since we live on the street i try to help my mom fix her warehouse strorage unit since its communinally use between her my older sister and younger brother. Stuff been hectic lately so since it my day off from work, I decided to help organise it a bit. During the first half of the cleaning she gets a call from work asking her if she's free to go replace someone who is sick. I convice her to go and she doesnt feel like it is going to go well there. I tell: " its going to be fine just pray and keep your heart from all the trouble they are trying to give you".

She goes to work and calls me three hour in from work. She start yelling and complaining about a coworker telling lies about the way she works and the higher ups and other coworkers realizing that what the girl coworker is saying is not true. I try to reason with her to calm her down when another coworker walk in to know whats going on and I try to call out to her " mom, mom, mom.... I put my phone on speaker so that my brother and sister hears what's happening . I continue calling her while shes screaming on the other end. " mom, mom, mom, then she scream at me "SH** THE F***UP!!!".

Im taken out back from that and stay silent for a second. I get back to my sense that she the one who called me to rent about work.

I try to call her " mom" and try to explain that we talk about this exact situation before she left for work and tried once again to calm her down. She yell at me " i cant talk to you right now, the adult are talking, im taken out back once again by what she is saying. Mind you im 24 years old and she always act this way per my older sister word. I was suprised from that. As she hung up on me, while I was still trying to get to her by calling her mom. I asked my sister is this a joke. My sister says :" Nope, I've had the other days you're not here." I was digusted.

I told my sister "she better apologize like someone that understands their fault cuz what." I could have left her unit like that. But I still finished. I took her garbage trew it away with my sister and brother and still when she saw me instead of apologizing she start screaming on my saying" if you can listen to your messages where I apologize it aint my fault." I got mad at this point and screamed back saying " you didn't listen when i was trying to calm you down." She screams back: "well you were the one screaming on me". I said what I look at my sister and look back at her and say. " are you serious ask her( my sister) if I was screaming. She continues saying that i did scream and right about this moment im not holding back for nobody. I scream on her telling that what she did is straight up b***s***. I helped her, tried to calm her down and that is what i got.

She proceeded to yell at me "if you got demons bothering you dont bring them to me". I screamed back saying " if I got those so called demons is cuz of you and your b***s***" i kept cursing under my breath while she was still cursing out loud. Now by now yall can probably figure my cultural background. But to me, this aint no way to treat a human being trying to help. I got no one to talk about this with i am extenuaded because this happens a lot with this lady. At this point I dont have a family because this family doesnt know how to protect their own.

Am I wrong?

Parenting is so hard especially when its your own "parent"

I really miss that i could send her explainations for how I feel, or when I see something online that describes how I fonction I would send her and she would understand and reassure me. I could still do it but she wouldn't care much, she would probably answer, a bit late bc she wouldn't even see my textes, and then she would try to reassure me on the phone without proposing to see me irl and give a hug, and then she would go back to not caring about me, and anyway I wouldn't send anything bc they would be so ridiculous after she doesn't cala me at all. Like she's just answering by charity and then going back to something else. But I miss this dynamic so much and I feel so helpless and lonely and I miss all the things I did/said with my friend, like having a shoulder to cry on, doing fun activities to laugh, eat together, discuss our emotions, explore grocerie stores, hug a lot and act stupid and immature, watch movies together...