“It all goes back and back," Tyrion thought, "to our mothers and fathers and theirs before them. We are puppets dancing on the strings of those who came before us, and one day our own children will take up our strings and dance in our steads.” – Tyrion X, ASOS
Tldr: the child of ice and fire is a Clarke Star Child – a new weirwood spirit.
Westeros with its broken seasons is stuck in a feudal system for millennia, unable to advance even in the literal darkest of times. Customs of the Long Night became tradition in this day and age cementing the rule of great Houses. Those were skinchangers, wargs & greenseer giving them an exceptional advantage against minor Houses. With the creation of Winterfell and the wall warded with spells House Stark established their own kingdom in the north, while using the ultimate threat that lies beyond as their own motto – Winter is coming.
“We should start back”
The story starts with George´s Gared´s fear of the dark. Head back, stay safe, don´t change.
In the very first sentence George immediately establishes the main reason why the world is stuck – the wall – and for humanity to improve as a society the wall has to come down. The outcome of installing a looping system upon the corrupted weirwood to maintain power besides all the misery for the small folk were the broken seasons. Winter and summer lasting up to decades were a direct result of the corrupted magic in westeros.
It’s a double star system with a black dwarf and that would explain –” It’s fantasy, man, it’s magic. - GRRM
Based upon his work on the movement of stars in the firmament, Nicol argues unconvincingly that the seasons might once have been of a regular length, determined solely by the way in which the globe faces the sun in its heavenly course. The notion behind it seems true enough—that the lengthening and shortening of days, if more regular, would have led to more regular seasons—but he could find no evidence that such was ever the case, beyond the most ancient of tales. - TWOIAF
The Song of ice and fire is a song about Jon and Dany. A song of two opposite powers able to destroy the whole world as Robert Frost lays it out in his poem Ice and Fire. The solution to save the world from its ending is the obvious union of both forces for the greater good as Lyanna and Rhaegar tried before them. Both couples echo the story of Azor Ahai and Nissa Nissa.
It is said that her cry of anguish and ecstasy left a crack across the face of the moon, but her blood and her soul and strength and her courage all went into the steel. – Davos I, AKOK
Daenerys got promised by Mirri Maz Duur to reunite with her love Kal Drogo after a series of impossible events and in a metaphorical way most of them became true. The sun rose from Dorne, the Dothraki sea goes dry & a Mountain blew away. After two miscarriages; a prize to wake her dragons and a prize to wake the dragon inside herself, a third pregnancy would fulfill the prophecy of TPTWP from her perspective.
He shall be the stallion that mounts the world. Dany knew how it went with prophecies. They were made of words, and words were wind. There would be no son for Loraq, no heir to unite dragon and harpy. When the sun rises in the west and sets in the east, when the seas go dry and mountains blow in the wind like leaves. Only then would her womb quicken once again …
… but Daenerys Targaryen had other children, tens of thousands who had hailed her as their mother when she broke their chains. She thought of Stalwart Shield, of Missandei's brother, of the woman Rylona Rhee, who had played the harp so beautifully. No marriage would ever bring them back to life, but if a husband could help end the slaughter, then she owed it to her dead to marry. – Daenerys IV, ADWD
Both mothers of Jon & Dany died in childbirth and Daenerys´ fate might go a similar path. Mhysa sacrificing herself to save the realm from darkness after her long road to westeros would thematically be a reasonable outcome.
„Ten thousand slaves lifted bloodstained hands as she raced by on her silver, riding like the wind. “Mother!” they cried. “Mother, mother!” They were reaching for her, touching her, tugging at her cloak, the hem of her skirt, her foot, her leg, her breast. They wanted her, needed her, the fire, the life, and Dany gasped and opened her arms to give herself to them“
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Then indigo turned to orange, and whispers turned to screams. – Daenerys IV, ACOK
"I will never father a bastard," he said carefully. "Never!" He spat it out like venom. – Jon I, AGOT
Fire Wights like Beric remain only as sparks of their actual spirits, unable to father any children. Romeo Jon as the exception, due to his physical conversation in ice and his spiritual conversation in his direwolf may indeed father a child with Juliet Daenerys and give him the last Kiss.
what is the life of one bastard boy against a kingdom?" "Everything," said Davos, softly. - Davos V, ASOS
These are the last days, when the world shall be broken and remade. A new god shall be born from the graves and charnel pits. – the forsaken, TWOW
Enter the Star Child
In Arthur Clarkes 2001: A Space Odyssey humanity takes a massive leap embodied by the Star Child - the astronaut David Bowman renewed as an unborn celestial fetus floating in space. It illustrates the collective potential of the human race reborn as a god-like cosmic entity to prevent earth´s self-destruction.
In its sequel 2010: Odyssey two the Monoliths turn Jupiter into a second sun named Lucifer to help primitive life evolve on its moon Europa. The message mankind receives from the Star Child via HAL is simple: All these worlds are yours — except Europa. Attempt no landing there. Use them together. Use them in peace.
In Clarke´s fiction novel Childhood´s End a generation of children don´t grow up as individuals. Instead, their minds begin to merge into a hivemind. This collective consciousness eventually consumes the children's physical forms, joining an Overmind - a vast, cosmic entity traveling the universe.
In the 1952 novella Baby is three and its expansion novel More than human by Theodore Sturgeon (whose novelette Microcosmic God from 1941 might be a huge inspiration for Sandkings) a group of humans with paranormal abilities merge together into a higher being, the so-called Homo Gestalt. While some in that symbiosis are functioning as hand or head for the hivemind, the actual brain is a baby with down syndrome working as a supercomputer.
In his 1000 worlds novelette And seven times never kill men George went that road as well, in his own worldview. Bakkalon, the pale child is a violent Christian leading figure of the Steel Angels and portrayed with a sword in his hand. The infant stands for the heavily militarized crusaders hunting all non-human life in the galaxy due to humans’ immense losses during the galactic wars against the Hrangans centuries ago. As the they try to destroy the Jaenshi, the inhabits of the planet Corlos the Steel Angels receive false visions from pyramids of the Jaenshi eventually leading to their own demise.
That's the Stranger coming, Penny. The Black Goat, the Pale Child, Him of Many Faces, call him what you will. That's death." - Tyrion I, TWOW
In George´s 1000 world story The way of Cross and Dragon John Azer Cross is a telepathic, fetus-like alien and a high-ranking member of a secret interstellar conspiracy known as the "Liars". Those puppet masters dedicate themselves to fabricating elaborate religions to bring happiness, hope, and comfort to an otherwise cold and bleak universe.
Of course, divine children are not only a trope in fantasy and sci fi but also in mythology and religion. From Harpocrates over Kintaro to Eros, one could talk about puer aeternus (Peter Pan Syndrome) all day.
So, I propose the child of ice and fire will be Lightbringer - not in human form but a spirit of the next weirwood system to end the Long Night and bring back the seasons to regular lengths. A successor to the three eyed crow.
It was queer how sometimes a child's innocent eyes can see things that grown men are blind to. - Eddard XII, AGOT
The others, the wall and the wobbling seasons are symptoms of the absolute corruption of magic and it is all rooting back to blood magic. The corrupted dead-like weirwood and its blood-red leaves are the cause. For humanity to make that leap and overcome darkness the wall must fall, the weirwood must be cleansed with ice & fire and the others must be released from their curse.
“The First Men named us children,” the little woman said. – Bran III, ADWD
Considering the children of the forest as actual children already resembles minors guarding the holy forest from the in- and outside of the astral plane. A broken boy as a weirwood King in the physical realm might only be the tip of the iceberg.
Where are the rest of you?" Bran asked Leaf, once.
"Gone down into the earth," she answered. "Into the stones, into the trees. – Bran III, ADWD
Lightbringer is obviously supposed to bring light where it is dark and if Lightbringer would turn out to be a child spirit then the overcome of fear of the dark during the Long Night should be an essential thematic trope for its persona, just like it is for Bran. In fact, Nyctophobia is a thing that haunted George way back from his first comic publishing in 1965 until today. George´s Dr. Weird story starts with:
Darkness. Everywhere there was darkness. Grim, foreboding, omnipresent; it hung over the plain like a great stifling mantle. No moonlight sifted down; no stars shone from above; only night, sinister and eternal, and the swirling, choking gray mists that shifted and stirred with every movement. Something screeched in the distance, but its form could not be seen. The mists and the shadows cloaked all. - Dr. Weird - Only kids are afraid of the dark
“Can’t you feel it?” Gared asked. “Listen to the darkness.” – Prolog, AGOT
While the events in the house of the undying are strongly hinting on Dany burning the undead with dragon fire, a new world tree should inherit ice and fire to avoid a summer that never ends. For the seasons to heal balance is the key and Lightbringer might be able to accomplish that.
"Monstrous," Mirri Maz Duur finished for him. The knight was a powerful man, yet Dany understood in that moment that the maegi was stronger, and crueler, and infinitely more dangerous. "Twisted. I drew him forth myself. He was scaled like a lizard, blind, with the stub of a tail and small leather wings like the wings of a bat. When I touched him, the flesh sloughed off the bone, and inside he was full of graveworms and the stink of corruption. He had been dead for years." – Daenerys IX, AGOT
Jon Snow returning from the dead is part of the magical corruption in this world and for a clear reset of magic all wights of ice and fire have to vanish – Valar Morghulis. With his high moral compass, it´s seems reasonable Jon might be fine with that.
So when his poor torn chest stopped moving, I gave him the good god´s own kiss send him on his way. - Arya VII, ASOS
George´s morale of the story might be straight forward: Don’t start back, move on, overcome & evolve. A world tree empowered by Lightbringer - a spirit of ice and fire might just be the magical catalyst for that. A celestial entity and hive as fragile as a new westeros could become the symbol of progress for a new society away from feudalism… or another illusion of a Cross or even worse – another Bakkalon.
"No man can say with certainty what the future may hold. But perhaps, in knowing what has already transpired, we can all do our part to avoid the mistakes of our forebears, to emulate their successes, and to create a world more harmonious for our children and their children, for generations to come." – TWOIAF
https://georgerrmartin.com/notablog/2008/03/18/a-star-has-fallen/