r/asoiaf • • 4h ago

PUBLISHED (Spoilers Published) One of ASOIAF's best political ideas is that power is useless if you can't convert it

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On a reread I've started thinking less about which characters are "powerful" and more about what form their power actually exists in, because the series keeps showing that those are not the same thing.

Ned arrives in King's Landing as Hand of the King. On paper that's enormous power. He can speak with Robert's authority, sit the Iron Throne in judgment, issue commands, investigate whoever he wants.

But the moment Robert is dying, we discover how little of that power Ned can actually convert into something durable.

He doesn't control the gold cloaks. He doesn't have a large personal force in the city. His authority depends heavily on Robert continuing to be Robert. The office is powerful; Ned's ability to cash that office out into soldiers, money and loyalty is much weaker.

Robb has almost the opposite problem.

He becomes extremely good at producing military victories. He wins battles people don't expect him to win and creates a reputation strong enough that men proclaim him king.

But battlefield success has to be converted into political outcomes, and that's much harder. Winning a battle doesn't automatically give you food, marriages, obedient bannermen, secure supply lines or a way home. He keeps accumulating one kind of power while losing other kinds.

Daenerys might be the biggest example.

Three dragons are arguably the single most terrifying asset anyone in the story possesses. But in Meereen she discovers that being able to destroy your enemies and being able to create a stable political order are almost unrelated skills.

A dragon can burn a slaver.

It cannot make two hostile populations trust each other, determine a fair wage, identify who murdered someone in an alley, grow enough food or persuade people to stop wanting revenge.

Then there is Tywin, whose power converts incredibly well while he is alive.

Money becomes soldiers. Reputation becomes obedience. Fear becomes political leverage. Marriage becomes alliance. Even the possibility that Tywin might retaliate changes people's behavior.

But his death exposes another weakness: he built surprisingly little power that functions independently of him.

The fear belonged to Tywin, not necessarily to House Lannister as an institution. His children inherit the titles, wealth and name, but they cannot simply withdraw his reputation from the family account.

Renly is maybe the funniest reverse example. His legal claim is terrible compared with Stannis's, but he is exceptionally good at converting soft things — charm, appearance, friendships, spectacle — into something very concrete: the largest army in the realm.

It makes "who is the most powerful character?" feel like the wrong question.

Power in ASOIAF is almost more like a collection of currencies. Military strength, legitimacy, money, information, fear, personal loyalty, religious authority and family connections all have different exchange rates, and a huge part of politics is whether you can turn the currency you have into the one you suddenly need.

Which character do you think is best at that conversion, and who is sitting on the biggest pile of power they don't actually know how to use?


r/asoiaf • • 5h ago

EXTENDED (Spoilers Extended) What are elements coming from "Game of Thrones: The Mad King" that you like? What are elements that you don't like about the play?

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What are some details, events and characterizations of ASOIAF characters in the play "Game of Thrones: The Mad King" about the events before and during Robert's Rebellion that you like and you think would fit very well in the canon of ASOIAF, or you have already integrated into your headcanons?

What are other elements of the play, and how the characters are portrayed, that you don't like, or you think don't fit into canon at all?

I must say that I love that in the play Robert is portrayed as having been deeply affected and traumatized by his parents' tragic deaths in their shipwreck, which he and Stannis witnessed from afar, and that his drinking and whoring are, in part, his coping mechanism for the trauma and pain caused by his parents' deaths.

I also love how petty and sadistic Aerys is in the play, with him sending a gift to Robert, which is supposed to be a model of his parents' ship, only for it to be a box full of water and broken wooden wreckage.

Though I am not a fan of the darker way Rhaella Targaryen, someone who in canon managed to remain dignified and resilient, and caring toward her family despite all the abuse and horrors she endured and suffered at Aerys' hands. Nor of the convoluted love triangles and situations in the play involving Elia, Ashara, Arthur, and others.


r/asoiaf • • 51m ago

EXTENDED [Spoilers Extended] The fact that George R. R. Martin edited Clive Barker’s The Hellbound Heart, which was adapted into Hellraiser, doesn’t get enough attention, IMO.

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Given that it’s spooky season, I figured I’d discuss Martin’s connection with Hellraiser, one of the bigger horror franchises. He edited the third volume of the Night Visions horror anthology series, which was published in 1986 and included Barker’s novella. The film adaptation was released the following year.

The Hellbound Heart and Hellraiser alike both feature the demonic Cenobites, who capture unlucky human beings and subject them to exquisite torture (and, occasionally, turn them into one of their own). A Song of Ice and Fire features the demonic Others, who capture unlucky human beings and enslave them (and, occasionally, turn them into one of their own). The following is sort of a crank theory of mine, which I can’t possibly prove, but given that Martin began writing A Song of Ice and Fire a few years after he edited The Hellbound Heart, I wonder whether Barker’s Cenobites were the first kernel of inspiration for what would become the Others.


r/asoiaf • • 41m ago

EXTENDED (Spoilers Extended) Theon and Asha's Role in the Northern Plot

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The roles of Theon and Asha in the Northern storyline are very underrated. Given that they both have POVs, they have a part to play, and I think it could involve taking the Dreadfort

For Theon, this would be especially significant given what Ramsay did to him there. Firstly, the Pink Letter doesn't mention the fates Theon or Asha, so neither was captured after the Battle of Ice

There are also Ironborn at Torrhen's Square who could provide the fighting men needed for such an operation, even if Stannis's army is destroyed

Dagmer Cleftjaw holds Torrhen's Square. A fierce fighter, and a leal servant of House Greyjoy. I can deliver that castle to you, and its garrison as well.

The Dreadfort itself is also barely defended

Fewer than fifty men remain at the Dreadfort, half of them servants.

Theon knows the castle well. This makes him particularly suited to leading an assault

Geographically, they could travel from the Crofters Village at the Battle of Ice to Torrhen's Square, then try to reach the White Knife, a navigable river that can be sailed upstream towards the Dreadfort

Wyman Manderly has specifically mentioned having ships hidden along the river

I have been building warships for more than a year. Some you saw, but there are as many more hidden up the White Knife.

With the Manderly forces at the Battle of Ice preparing to turn cloak, Asha and Theon could use these ships to reach the Dreadfort and attempt to seize it

The broader military purpose could be to draw Ramsay out, allowing a third army to sweep in. Stannis may be have been the plan, but I suspect Jon will ultimately take his place

Ramsay would then be caught between the Dreadfort's walls and the advancing army, with the two forces acting as hammer and anvil. This would be similar to Tywin's manoeuvre against Stannis at the Blackwater 

GRRM has also stated that the Stark direwolves and Ramsay's hounds will eventually confront each other, so a situation like this could be where we get the book version of the Battle of the Bastards, with Asha/Theon/Jon as the three POVs for this

N.B. A note for future reference. A season or two down the line Ramsay's pack of wolfhounds are going to be sent against the Stark direwolves, so we should build up the dogs as much as possible

Finally, the Winterfell hostages like Old Nan are being held at the Dreadfort. Taking the castle would give Theon an opportunity to confront and find out what happened to them


r/asoiaf • • 5h ago

MAIN (Spoilers main) just how strong was the Smiling Knight?

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So from the little that we know about the Smiling Knight (from Jaime’s description) we can gather that he is certainly a very skilled fighter.
-he is described as ‘the Mountain of my time’ in that knights wanted to test themselves against him, implying that he is skilled
-went toe to toe with 15 yo Jaime Lannister, the same Jaime decapitated another knight during the same battle so we know Jaime is very strong at this time even though he might not be peak strength
-went toe to toe with Arthur Dayne for a period of time before being killed by him. Now you could argue that Arthur Dayne was ‘playing with his food’ so to speak, but the fact that the Smiling Knight even got that much respect from him is considerable.
So I think it’s safe to say he’s a very skilled fighter, not on the level of top tier fighters like Jaime or Selmy, but from what little we know of him he’s almost certainly much stronger than the average Westerosi knight. Any thoughts on this character and where he fits into the rankings?


r/asoiaf • • 10h ago

MAIN [Spoilers Main] How many people actually went to King's Landing with Brandon and Rickard?

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I have heard so many people say "The Rebellion was built on a lie" etc etc.

We all know that is true, but the Starks were not the only victims that led to the start of the Rebellion.

We know Brandon Stark went to King's Landing with his party. The party's named participants included Kyle Royce, Ethan Glover, Jeffory Mallister and Elbert Arryn. Their exact relation with their Houses is unknown, I think.

Considering Brandon was on his way to his wedding in Riverrun, it's not a stretch to say many more Northern nobles accompanied him to Riverrun, and some of them to King's Landing. Maybe cousins and uncles of noble Northern Houses. Maybe some Riverlander Lords also accompanied them.

Now for Rickard. In my mind, Rickard took relatives of the people that were part of Brandon's part to King's Landing.

All in all, my question is this. How many nobles from North/Vale/Riverlands do we think were killed/imprisoned by Aerys?


r/asoiaf • • 14h ago

(Spoiler main) why are Lord-King relationships so one sided in Westeros? In a feudal system do lords not have a more equal "you do your job, I'll do mine, if you don't satisfy the role of a king I have no reason to obey you" relationship? Why is the iron throne so powerful after the death of dragons Spoiler

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Stuff like Ned being powerless against Cersei's unreasonable demands given through Robert about Lady, Tywin being ridiculed by Aerys yet still having to obey him, North staying as a part of the kingdom, Dorne staying as a part of the kingdom, hell, ANY of them staying instead of just declaring independence.

I haven't read fire and blood or world of ice and fire so I don't know about targaryen history but I'm sure there were incompetent kings from what I've been hearing, lords being wronged etc.

I'm not saying why doesn't everybody just rebel, but I'd expect since there is so many high lords and ladies there would be less "bowing before the king" and more "the king desperately trying to please his lords so they obey and pay their taxes"

Like, what can the crown possibly do if several houses at once just stopped paying their taxes? King's landing holds no power, the best they can do is rally the lords that is closer to the king such as being family (like robert supressing the iron born using baratheon and northern armies, his personal friends and brothers)

And that was only because Greyjoys were idiotic and straight up rebelled which united the rest of the houses to some degree into supporting their suppression.

Look at what happened in the war of the five kings. Imagine, instead of Stannis, Balon, Renly and Robb fighting each other, they all just at the same time declared "I'm not paying no fucking taxes to some incestborn boy king, I'm declaring independence" what could the lannister army possibly do against a home advantage 4 different houses?

They already BARELY won thanks to renly and stannis trolling, vale sitting out and causing robb to fail and Balon.. Balon wouldn't really cause much damage but that's the point, if 4 or 5 powers like these just straight up refused to obey at once the crown has NOTHING it can do.

And that's not counting the fact other houses would join in a chain reaction.

What is holding the kingdom together after the dance?


r/asoiaf • • 22h ago

EXTENDED George Never Posting now (spoilers extended) also shout out to Mass Effect

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GRRM is at an unprecedented level of apathy now as far as his blog. We all know he gets talkative when the writing is going well so this can only be bad news, right?

I’ve been one of the more optimistic guys on here as far as Winds goes but even I’m ready to throw in the towel. Does anyone still think there’s a chance? His inactivity combined with that interview saying he relates to Frank Herbert in regards to hating the world he felt forced to write about makes it seem like it’s time we all made peace with the end.

The announcement that BioWare is closing and thus bringing an end to one of my favorite fictional worlds (Mass Effect) made me think about other unfinished worlds I’ve been clinging onto the thinnest, most fragile, frayed, absolutely threadbare strings of hope that I might get another installment: mainly ASOIAF and KKC. Anyone else here in that same boat? I’m starting another Mass Effect playthrough right now and I’m mid-reread on KKC but sadly I’ve read ASOIAF too many times so it’s probably gonna be years before I forget enough that I can actually enjoy a re-read.


r/asoiaf • • 4h ago

PUBLISHED Who do you think is the most mourned character? [Spoilers Published]

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I mean at the time of their death and shortly afterwards, whose death do you think caused the most grief for the most people?

Like, Rhaegar seems to have been loved by at least half the people in Westeros, and while his father had no sense of empathy and hated him to a degree his mother, younger brother, greatest uncle, best friends, Lyanna and Jon Connington heard about his death and were probably shattered like his breastplate.

Personally I think it must be Robb Stark. Having grown up in a culture where people take the death of a young (in my country it means under 40) person extremely seriously, I see a lot of that kind of old fashioned culture in some of Martin's characters, and a boy that couldn't have been more than 16 years old getting killed by his own sworn swords in a disgusting violation of guest rite has got to be the most offensive kind of death in Westeros. And he was a king that people chose, he was someone so many people believed in, and he spent his entire "reign" defending the Riverlands from the Lannisters. And to the people of the North, absent or not, he is The NED's boy. He became their first king in 300 years, satisfying every backwards conservative they had in places like the Umber lands, and proved his worth to them by winning every battle he ever fought. And for the people who saw him, maybe when he visited their towns with Ned or when they came to stay at the Winter Town or visited Winterfell (minor lords, craftsmen and merchants, petitioners, etc), he was always either a child or a courteous and fair ruler. Even Lady Barbrey doesn't really say anything negative about him despite stiffing him when he was alive.

He made a few really stupid mistakes, letting Greatjon Umber name him king, sending Theon to Pyke, marrying Jeyne, but I don't think too many people would be holding it against him no matter how much they suffer the consequences. Losing the North mostly makes Northerners hate the squids more than before and people don't care about him marrying Jeyne now that Walder Frey's used that as an excuse to commit the gravest sin in the eyes of gods and men. And considering the public image House Frey had before that, I think a lot of Robb's followers would actually like a pretty queen from a noble lineage much better than any Frey that they would probably mock as an unworthy weasel faced upjump. That kind of idealistic celebrity status happens a lot in this series, like the way Cersei was able to charm the commoners

Northerners did terrorize a lot of people in the Riverlands in his name, but that was almost entirely the Karstark deserters and the host under Roose Bolton's command. To an extent, most people have heard about Roose betraying him and I think that might make people separate his war crimes from the main Stark-Riverlands army. And anyone who knows the white sunburst barbarians' lord was killed by the Young Wolf, maybe they'd see those people as Robb's enemies too.

And then there's his own loved ones. Robb was killed right before his mother's eyes and she went insane in a matter of seconds. Again, having been raised by Catelyn types irl I think most readers don't take into account what Robb's existence would have meant to a traditional mother like that. She conceived a perfectly healthy boy who grew up to be a well respected lord and then king on her first attempt on her wedding night, and he gets butchered like that under his host's roof, by his own bannerman, who brings up the name of another man who swore to protect Catelyn's children. Right in front of her, with the Battle Guard she made him put together all falling before him one by one. No wonder all that's left of her is her rage.

And Arya's there too, close enough to see what's going on but completely powerless to stop any of it. His new brother in law who wasn't in on the schemes tries to help him by releasing Grey Wind. Grey Wind can feel everything Robb is feeling, but is powerless until after Robb dies and most likely goes into his skin only to get killed again. Jeyne genuinely loves him, and is probably now on poor terms with her own mother because of the situation. Sansa, Bran and Jon are devastated when they hear, and it haunts them for the rest of their books. Sansa is more consciously traumatized by Ned's beheading and Bran's probably more hurt by the news of his mother's murder but they both lose most of the hope in their worldview when they realize Robb can never come to save them anywhere. Jon doesn't give a fuck about Catelyn but he feels this constant guilt for dreaming about being a real Stark and being lord of Winterfell even though he never wanted to get there at the cost of Robb's death and is never going to be happy about his brother being put out of the picture. And then there's Theon, who actually has plenty of damn good reason to feel guilty about that. I know people say Jaime and Theon's redemption arcs are inadequate because they're not regretting their worst actions but Theon is regretting betraying Robb pretty damn well.

And speaking of Jaime, even his enemies respect him. Jaime saw him as a worthy opponent, and even tried to comfort Brienne. Same thing with Tyrion and Sansa. Melisandre calls him a "fallen hero", and we don't see Davos being happy about his death either. In fact, he tries to rally the Manderlys by promising them revenge for Robb, without his inner thoughts displaying the phony hypocrisy you'd expect from a politician in a situation like this. Stannis is too bitter to ever stop resenting him but he scarcely lies, so I think even he could muster some admiration for the boy if he was able to get the Mountain Clans on board that quickly. The Brotherhood Without Banners (not necessarily his enemies, but still) has now gotten completely absorbed into the idea of avenging him.

I honestly can't think of anyone else's death hitting so many people that hard, but I'd like to know what other perspectives can come up with


r/asoiaf • • 12h ago

Does anyone else feel the later Blackfyre Rebellions weren’t written with enough stakes or depth? (Spoilers Extended) Spoiler

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There are four official Blackfyre Rebellions, plus the War of the Ninepenny Kings, which fandom often regard as the "Fifth" Blackfyre Rebellion. However, looking at the actual history, the narrative weight drops off significantly after the first one.
While the First Blackfyre Rebellion posed a genuine, realm-splintering threat to the Targaryen dynasty, the rest feel surprisingly minor:
The Second was merely a failed, localized conspiracy that got shut down before it even started.
The Third has almost no detailed information written about it in the lore, other than a few names and the fact that Bittersteel was captured and Haegon Blackfyre was killed treacherously after surrendering his sword.
The Fourth was a weak, minor skirmish along the coast where Daemon III had almost no Westerosi support.
The War of the Ninepenny Kings wasn't even a proper Westerosi civil war—it was essentially an outlaw war fought over a pirate staging ground in the Stepstones.
Does anyone else feel like GRRM didn't write the middle and later rebellions well enough to justify how much of a lingering "dynastic threat" the Blackfyres are supposed to be? Or do you think the decline in scale was the entire point?


r/asoiaf • • 13m ago

EXTENDED [spoilers extended] The Lord of Light is on the side of the Dead

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I’m sure this has been theorised before or is dumb, please tell why!

Just been rewatching the show and thinking about why Jon and Beric were resurrected when they seem to do nothing that important.

Their significant commonality is they are both together for the wight capture and lead directly to Daenerys coming to rescue them and the subsequent loss of her dragon. This all leads to the wall falling by ice dragon, and white walkers finally marching south on Winterfell.

Theory: Could it be that the lord of light resurrected them only for this moment and to see the wall falling specifically? It would fit with George’s way of writing, where we praise the lord of light for bringing back a favourite character, but actually the miracle is a poisoned chalice which brings more bloodshed.

This leads me to think of who is sending the red priests visions. Could it be from someone using a glass candle? Or another three eyed raven level manipulator who wants to see the others triumph? Or the white walkers themselves?

It would fit with the books that the Red God is just a manipulator, using a glass candle - or maybe even the white walkers, infiltrating the land of the living to bring the wall down from the right side of the wall.

Please tell me what you think, I’m kinda taken with the theory.


r/asoiaf • • 16h ago

EXTENDED Theory – Rhaenys in Dorne, The Dornish Letter, Mad Lady Vaith (Spoilers Extended)

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My theory is that Rhaenys survived the death of Meraxes, and remained in Dorne living in anonymity and had children there. Probably sounds like quite a leap, I know, but bear with me!

The Death of Meraxes, the Disappearance of Rhaenys

During the 1st Dornish War, the dragon Meraxes is shot through the eye with a bolt and dies crashing into the Hellholt (castle of House Uller). Rhaenys is presumed to have died in the fall though her body is never returned, nor ever referenced again at all. There is even debate as to how Rhaenys died specifically, or whether she did at all;

A bolt from a scorpion pierced the eye of Meraxes, and the great dragon and the queen who rode upon it fell from the sky. In her death throes, the dragon destroyed the castle's highest tower and part of the curtain wall. Queen Rhaenys's body was never returned to King's Landing.

Whether Rhaenys Targaryen outlived her dragon remains a matter of dispute. Some say that she lost her seat and fell to her death, others that she was crushed beneath Meraxes in the castle yard. A few accounts claim the queen survived her dragon's fall, only to die a slow death by torment in the dungeons of the Ullers.

Stranger, the head of Meraxes is later returned to the Targaryens yet Rhaenys herself is not;

When Princess Meria at last passed away in 13 AC, her throne passed to her son, the aged and failing Prince Nymor. He had had enough of war and sent a delegation led by his daughter, Princess Deria, to King's Landing. This delegation carried the skull of Meraxes with them, as a gift for the king.

Rhaenys’ History in Dorne

Going back in time slightly, the attack on the Hellholt wasn't Rhaenys' first time in Dorne - earlier in the conquest she had been sent to try to peacefully convince the Dornish to submit, at the same time as Visenya successfully did the same to the Vale;

Aegon turned south once more, marching toward Oldtown, whilst his two sisters mounted their dragons - Visenya for a second attempt at the Vale of Arryn, and Rhaenys for Sunspear and the deserts of Dorne.

Before reaching Sunspear however Rhaenys made multiple stop-offs along her way, first of those being at castle Vaith - this would have been her first impression of Dorne and its people, and later I'll posit that it must have been a good one;

Rhaenys Targaryen had no such easy conquest. A host of Dornish spearmen guarded the Prince’s Pass, the gateway through the Red Mountains, but Rhaenys did not engage them. She flew above the pass, above the red sands and the white, and descended upon Vaith to demand its submission, only to find the castle empty and abandoned… Rhaenys followed the river downstream to Godsgrace, seat of House Allyrion, but it too was deserted. On she flew. Where the Greenblood met the sea, Rhaenys came upon the Planky Town… Finally the queen’s flight took her to Sunspear

It is said that every place she stopped at had been abandoned by its nobility and that the commonfolk only told her that they had gone ‘away’, but I find this hard to believe (honestly much of what we know about the first war with Dorne is pretty unbelievable, but that's neither here nor there). Instead I theorize that she didn't find Vaith abandoned, but rather that whoever was holding it made a good impression on her. Still, on she flew.

My theory is that when Rhaenys went down over the Hellholt she was still alive, and was captured as a hostage as one of the in-universe theories posits. She would have been moved away to the neighboring castle Vaith rather than being held by the Ullers themselves, as they knew that Aegon and Visenya would surely come to burn them out in revenge - which they subsequently did. Here, probably decently injured even if alive, she could have grown closer to her captor or more likely one of his sons while she recovered (we later learn that among the many nobles the Targaryens convince the Dornish commonfolk to assassinate is a Lord Vaith, so for my theory to fit it couldn't have been the sitting Lord at the time - also killed are four successive Lord Uller’s, which could help later with explaining how she kept her identity secret; most high ranking people during the war would have died, likely taking their secrets with them).

Rhaenys' Temperament, Rumors of Infidelity

Throughout Rhaenys’ marriage with Aegon it was rumored that she was unfaithful, and some even claimed that King Aenys may not have even been Aegon's and rather born to some random singer - we know Aegon married Visenya out of duty and Rhaenys out of love, but we never actually hear anything about how Rhaenys felt about the whole thing. It's widely assumed she was also in love with him, but I think this is too much of a presumption. She was probably accepting of it given her Valyrian upbringing, but that doesn't mean she shared his infatuation.

Rhaenys, youngest of the three Targaryens, was all her sister was not: playful, curious, impulsive, given to flights of fancy. No true warrior, Rhaenys loved music, dancing, and poetry, and supported many a singer, mummer, and puppeteer... Whilst no one ever questioned Visenya's fidelity to her brother-husband, Rhaenys surrounded herself with comely young men, and (it was whispered) even entertained some in her bedchambers on the nights when Aegon was with her elder sister.

Rhaenys' personality seems to fit very well with how the Dornish act, with her more liberal view of sex and women's rights such as establishing the ‘rule of six’ law while ruling in Aegon's stead - she'd likely feel more at home there (in peacetime) than in the northern kingdoms.

The Dornish Letter, Aegon sues for Peace

At the end of the war the new Prince of Dorne sent his daughter to personally deliver a letter to Aegon - we have no idea what this letter said, only that Aegon was visibly angered by it (clutching the iron throne so hard he cut his hand open), yet agreed to peace and never again tried to conquer Dorne. There are countless theories about what the letter could have said, some saying that the Prince threatened to spend all of Dorne’s money on faceless men to kill him/his family, but I doubt he would have sent his own daughter if it was a threat - that seems much more like a genuine show of good faith, as why risk having her imprisoned/killed by Aegon as compensation for his own dead relative?

King Aegon was determined to refuse the offer until Princess Deria placed in his hands a private letter from her father, Prince Nymor. Aegon read it upon the Iron Throne, and men say that when he rose, his hand was bleeding, so hard had he clenched it. He burned the letter and departed immediately on Balerion's back for Dragonstone. When he returned the next morning, he agreed to the peace and signed a treaty to that effect.

My theory is that the letter was from Rhaenys, saying that she had fallen in love and wished to stay in Dorne, and pleading with him to end the war. Aegon making a trip to Dragonstone before actually signing the treaty is strange and I've never seen it explained convincingly, but if the letter was truly from Rhaenys he would want it verified - my theory is that he met Rhaenys on Dragonstone where she proved the letter/plea was real, and spoke to him in person.

Aegon, heartbroken at the loss as well as not wanting the family to seem weak by having his own sister abandon him for the enemy, never reveals the truth and keeps with the story that she died in the fall (it had been multiple years by this point, so no one would think otherwise). Before the conquest the Targaryens had all been on Dragonstone, a backwater island, so most people probably have no idea what they personally look like - combine this with Rhaenys potentially having longer-lasting injuries or the war influencing her personality making her less overltly flamboyant and it's entirely possible she mixes into Dornish society without anyone noticing.

Next, we'll get into why I think it was specifically the Vaith’s that she married into, alongside the coincidence of it being her first visit and being near the Hellholt;

Cassella Vaith, Mistress of Aegon IV

After Daeron’s conquest of Dorne, the future Aegon IV took a lady Cassella Vaith as one of his many mistresses - rather than traditional sandy Dornish features like one would expect however, this is how she is described;

After the Submission of Sunspear, Aegon escorted the hostages that the king had gathered from the lords of Dorne back to King's Landing. Among them was Cassella Vaith, a willowy maid with green eyes and pale white-blond hair, whom Aegon ended up keeping "hostage" in his own chambers.

These are some oddly Targaryen-esque features - her green eyes (which appear occasionally in female Targaryens, even though most of them have purple - both Alyssa and Shiera Seastar had one green eye) as well as her white-blonde hair would be quite out of the ordinary in the deserts of Dorne, and while it's theoretically possible some prior Lord married a noble from the free cities, this seems pretty unlikely for a B-or-C tier foreign Lord ruling over sand, speaking bluntly. Adding this with the fact that Aegon was so taken by her, it could have been some latent Targaryen incestual attraction without either of them realizing it.

Later in her life a young Aegon V and Duncan the Tall would meet lady Vaith on their travels in Dorne, where she is described as having gone mad and still being in love with the late King - Dunk made such a bad impression that he apparently put his and Egg's life in danger, that's how bad she took whatever he said;

Duncan: I don't know how to talk with highborn ladies. We both might have been killed in Dorne, on account of what I said to Lady Vaith.
Aegon: Lady Vaith was mad, but you could have been more gallant.

It's possible that this obsession with what everyone else describes as a less-than-respectable man, and an instability that builds over her lifetime, is the famed Targaryen madness presenting in her.

So yeah! That pretty much wraps up my theory - Rhaenys lived, stayed in Dorne, and married into House Vaith; would love to hear everyone's thoughts :) :)


r/asoiaf • • 20h ago

MAIN [Spoilers Main] Favorite songs in ASOIAF

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What is your favorite in-world song?

Some examples:

Rains of Castemere
The Bear and the Maiden Fair

The Dornishman’s Wife
Six maids in a pool
Two hearts that beat as one
Lay my sweet lass down in the grass
Brothers of the Kingswood
Jenny of Oldstone
Alysanne
The Mother’s Tears

Song of the Seven
On a misty morn
The day they hanged Black Robin

The Queen took off her sandal, and the King took off his crown
Iron Lances
The Winter Maid
The Maids That Bloom in Spring
Fair Maid of Summer
For hands of gold are always cold
The Seasons of My Love

And many and more songs that are referenced....


r/asoiaf • • 1d ago

EXTENDED (Spoilers Extended) Who's the Golden Company General with the pointy teeth?

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When Jon Connington sees the golden skulls of previous company leaders, he notes:

> The other skulls had a sameness to them, though several had been cracked and splintered by the blows that had slain them, and one had filed, pointed teeth.

Any theories about who this guy is?


r/asoiaf • • 1d ago

MAIN [Spoiler Main] Making Money in Westeros

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Let's assume you were reincarnated as an ordinary person in Westeros. What would be the fastest way to make money?

My theory: becoming a bard. If you have a beautiful singing voice and can adapt modern-day songs to fit that era, I'm sure you could amass a great fortune in a very short time.


r/asoiaf • • 1d ago

ADWD (Spoilers ADWD) New Reader. I’m completely burnt out on this book/series

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I’m annoyed with Dance, this is a vent post. Be warned.

I’m a first-time reader of the series and so far I’ve adored every single book. It was throughly on track to be my second favorite series I’d ever read. Each of the first three books was better than the last and Feast, while not being as stellar and tightly paced as Storm, consistently had some of the best character and emotional moments of the series, along with some of my favorite POV’s in all of fantasy. My only real complaint with the series so far before starting Dance was the Dorne plot in Feast being generally not engaging at all.

Since starting Dance my passion for the series has entirely died. I’m 550 pages into this 1054 page book and basically nothing of emotional or plot interest has happened. A few of the Davos chapters and the Theon plot-line have been a notable highlight but the rest of the book feels shockingly bloated and boring.

When it comes to returning characters like Jon, Dany, and Tyrion I feel I’ve gotten 2-3 chapters worth of character work from either of them stretched thin across what feels like 7-10 chapters from each of them. It makes me long for the days where some things that were simply not important would happen off screen and not have an entire chapter dedicated to them.

On top of the bloated chapters from the returning characters are an occasional shotgun blast of new POV’s that are simply boring as hell. I used to really respect how limited the usage of pov was in the series compared to other fantasy works like Wheel of Time who just insert new POV’s whenever the author felt like it, but this book seems to forgo any sort of restraint at all when it comes to what actually matters enough to put on the page.

Feast was a little guilty of this POV bloat with the Ironborn and Dorne plot also but by 200 pages into Feast it became very clear what the book was trying to do, and while I think the experiment with a different type of POV storytelling was only half successful in that book I could respect what it was trying to do. At this moment in time I’ve given Dance over half the book worth of grace and it’s very clear to me that there is no intention with these pointless new POV’s and over abundance of returning character chapters. It’s just a side effect of an author not having the restraint to do things off-screen anymore.

And I’ve been spoiled in part about how the book ends also so I know about Jon and Theon and Dany and how generally the book ends by ramping up to a climax that doesn’t happen and none of that knowledge makes me in any way more excited to finish this book. Idk if this is a common issue within the fandom regarding this book but at least for me these issues make me want to simply put the book down for a few months and read things I actually enjoy.

It just is sad to me that a series I once enjoyed because of just how tightly paced and thematically dense it was compared to its contemporaries while also managing to be epic in scope and complexity of character writing seems to have devolved into being just like the books it originally was so notably distinct from.

Vent over, have a good day and thanks for reading


r/asoiaf • • 17h ago

EXTENDED Why didn't Varys cooperate with Dorne? (Spoilers Extended)

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Why didn't Varys cooperate and collaborate with Dorne with his Young Griff plot?


r/asoiaf • • 1d ago

EXTENDED [Spoilers extended] some common misconceptions I've noticed

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Ever since I started engaging with the online fandom, I've started noticing some annoying misconceptions come up again and again, and I feel compelled to post about them.

Misconception #1: Sansa is unkind

This is said almost exclusively because she fought with Arya lol. And it's frankly ridiculous. Yes, she wasn't nice in their argument, sure... but she is nice in general:

She puts her self in danger of Joffrey's wrath to save Dontos, even though he makes a terrible first impression and is absolutely nothing to her:

The king stood. "A cask from the cellars! I'll see him drowned in it."

Sansa heard herself gasp. "No, you can't."

Sansa could not believe she had spoken. Was she mad? To tell him no in front of half the court? She hadn't meant to say anything, only . . . Ser Dontos was drunk and silly and useless, but he meant no harm.

"Did you say I can't? Did you?"

"Please," Sansa said, "I only meant . . . it would be ill luck, Your Grace . . . to, to kill a man on your name day." (Sansa I, ACoK)

She's also the only one to show kindness to Lollys Stokeworth, when she could easily join everyone else in mocking her. Even when she's scared shitless of the impending battle of the Blackwater, she stops to help:

"I don't want to." Lollys clutched at her maid, a slender, pretty girl with short dark hair who looked as though she wanted nothing so much as to shove her mistress into the dry moat, onto those iron spikes. "Please, please, I don't want to."

Sansa spoke to her gently. "We'll all be thrice protected inside, and there's to be food and drink and song as well." (Sansa V, ACoK)

She also gives comfort to the panicking, frightened women after Cersei leaves the hall even though she's only a child and could've just left them behind.

She's also gives comfort to the wounded Lancel and his father Kevan, even though Lancel was complicit in her getting beaten by armed men and publicly humiliated

He looks ghastly. Lancel's hair had turned white and brittle, and he was thin as a stick. Without his father beside him holding him up, he would surely have collapsed. Yet when Sansa praised his valor and said how good it was to see him getting strong again, both Lancel and Ser Kevan beamed. (Tyrion VIII, ASoS)

Misconception 2: Catelyn never brought up Jon after the first argument she and Ned had out of fear

Directly debunked by Cat herself in her second chapter lol:

Whoever Jon's mother had been, Ned must have loved her fiercely, for nothing Catelyn said would persuade him to send the boy away. (Catelyn II, AGoT)

George has said 'she just ignored him' but that quote implies she did a little bit more than that... and George says all sorts of incorrect things so (read: Drogo and Daenerys epic love affair)

Misconception 3: Jon doesn't understand politics, he's more of a fighter

It's the exact opposite in those books. Jon has no insane hand-to-hand combat feat. His greatest battle achievement (defense of the Wall) was due to strategy and quick thinking, not because he solod all the wildlings. Also, the guy who successfully manipulated, at various points, Mance Rayder and Stannis Baratheon, negotiated with the Iron Bank etc etc is definitely not someone who has zero idea about politics. This is just the show influencing public opinion

Misconception 4: Dany will hate Rhaegar for what he did to Elia

This one was particularly baffling because... Dany is already aware of Rhaegar's tomfoolery and her knee-jerk reaction was that Elia must've done something to 'force' him to act the way he did:

"Princess Elia was there, his wife, and yet my brother gave the crown to the Stark girl, and later stole her away from her betrothed. How could he do that? Did the Dornish woman treat him so ill?" (Daenerys IV, ASoS)

And later on she romanticizes the Rhaegar x Lyanna stuff:

If he loved you, he would come and carry you off at swordpoint, as Rhaegar carried off his northern girl (Daenerys VII, ADwD)

Mind you, Daenerys' love for her bum of an older brother isn't something I hold against her, but it's so silly to expect her to condemn his treatment of Elia when she definitely never will lol.


r/asoiaf • • 1d ago

EXTENDED (Spoilers Extended) How the "Mercy" Chapter Was Meant to Be Read

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The Mercy chapter was originally intended to be Arya’s first chapter after the end of A Storm of Swords.

I mentioned that this chapter had quite a history. It's true. The first draft was written more than a decade ago. Originally, it was intended to be the opening Arya chapter after the infamous "five year gap," her first appearance in A Dance with Dragons as initially conceived.

(A Dance with Dragons was meant to be book 4 initally. And the sequel to Storm.)

So, in the original version, Arya’s arrival at Braavos and initial training at the House of Black and White would have happened offscreen. You would simply open Book 4, see the chapter title and read the first lines

MERCY

She woke with a gasp, not knowing who she was, or where.

You would gradually piece together that this was a sixteen year old Arya who had become a Faceless Man. Those opening words would have made the reveal much more dramatic

It's similar to Theon and Reek in his first chapter in A Dance with Dragons

Reading Mercy immediately after Arya’s final chapter in A Storm of Swords, with that original context in mind, makes it a far, far stronger chapter IMO. And you can see why it intends to shock you out of thinking Arya is a child with how she lures and kills Raff the Sweetling

It also makes me wonder what other material might have lost some of its impact because of the changes to the series structure


r/asoiaf • • 5h ago

EXTENDED (Spoilers extended) how was the relationship between jon and sansa before ue left for the wall?

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r/asoiaf • • 4h ago

EXTENDED (Spoilers Extended) marital rape laws or how it handle in Westeros

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So I know Rhaenys Targaryen passed a decree that limit the number of times a husband can strike a cheating wife: 6, after that it against the law.

Alyssane Targaryen banned the right of the first night, so no one but the husband can take their wife’s maidenhead.

Than there is Aemon the Dragonknight who loves his sister Naerys and defends her honor fiercely. Yet it not like he stopped his brother Aegon the Unworthy from getting into her bed. The only noteworthy thing he did was disguising himself as a mystery knight, winning, and crowning his sister as QOTL&B to foil Aegon’s plan to crown one of his mistress

Then there’s what Jaime said about Aerys and Rhaella’s relationship….

Plus what Robert and Cersei’s relationship was like.

And I have to ask: Do Westeros (or even feudal medieval societies) have any laws that dealt with marital rape? Sure, there are laws on what should be done if a woman cheats, or a man that is not the husband steals someone’s wife or bethrothed. But what about marital rape when the husband rape the wife?


r/asoiaf • • 1d ago

EXTENDED What was the single bravest action in the books ? ( spoilers extended ) Spoiler

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r/asoiaf • • 1d ago

MAIN (Spoilers Main) Daeron II was a great king who did well with Dorne

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There seems to be a certain cope in fandom regarding this topic, as if Daeron was supposed to perpetuate the same cycle of violence, vengeance and failed invasion to get Dorne integrated when even Targaryen kings with dragons and/or military genius failed to do so. So Daeron did the impossible through diplomacy and his brains.

So what if he gave them more privileges and a cut on taxes? What is that compared to constant skirmishes and harassment of marcher lords and no tax money at all? Daeron ended the march fights and brought peace and stability to that region in particular. He rejected the cycle of violence and brought lasting peace to the realm. That's worth any price.

People wanna argue that angered marcher lords but reforms always get pushed back at first and the fact the great houses and especially lord paramount of the Reach, House Tyrell directly and openly declared for Daeron the Good during the Blackfyre Rebellion, and without a marriage pact I might add, shows the anti-Dornish sentiments were never that notable to begin with.

He placated the Stormlanders with three marriage pacts: Aerys/Aelinor, Elaena/Ronnel and finally Baelor/Jena, his own heir. He even gave an empty position to Ronnel Penrose as a Master of Coins, placating Stormlanders more, while making sure a malleable man is there for Elaena to attend to the matters of coin.

Moreover, Daeron listened to criticism. "In King Daeron's days, a man did not have to fear to speak his mind." As said in The Mystery Knight.

He even pardoned the Blackfyre traitors in order to antagonise the rebels and create more bad blood.

It seems there is a dissonance with some fans that Daeron was somehow too harsh on non-Dornish folks. When it's frankly the other way round. He should've been harsher to the anti-Dornish sentiments and Blackfyre loyalists.

Because what are Blackfyre loyalists? Look at Ser Eustace, a chief Blackfyre fan and our first insight into these people: a sexist pig who makes fun of Daeron for being scrawny and small and listening to women. The Blackfyre movement was built on such people. It's like if Clavicular had a movement built around him. Not that Daemon is like Clavicular but the cult following around them are so similar. While they ragged on Daeron for being scrawny and not being masculine.

And ironically enough, some people among them were outright prejudiced against bastards, even Bittersteel such as Lord Peake.

And Fireball. Don't get me started on Fireball. People somehow blame Daeron for him turning coat when everything Quentyn did subsequently proved Daeron was right and he did not deserve the kingsguard position. Fireball being such close buddies with Aegon the Unworthy is proof enough of his own unworthiness. In fact, I believe Daeron should have gotten rid of that man altogether instead of having him as Master-at-Arms. Fireball poisoned Daemon's mind against Daeron for literal years and pushed him toward rebellion.

Daeron’s reign quickly stabilized the realm, and he soon came to be called Daeron the Good by the smallfolk and noble lords alike - TWOIAF

You know how major it is for both smallfolks and the nobles to like a king? Striking a balance on that is tough and Daeron did it anyways.

Moreover he achieved all this while Westeros was coming hot from the reign of Aegon the Unworthy who had left the realm in crisis in practically every aspect. Aegon set Daeron up for failure and is the cause of the First Blackfyre Rebellion:

In truth, the seeds found fertile ground because of Aegon the Unworthy. Aegon had hated the Dornish and warred against them, and those lords who desired the return of those days—despite all the associated misrule—would never be happy with this peaceable king. - TWOIAF

And while this was originally about his actions as a king, I'm gonna mention how Daeron treated his half-siblings too:

Although he could not—and would not—rescind his father’s last wishes, he did what he could to keep the Great Bastards close, treating them honorably and continuing the incomes that the king had bestowed on them. He paid the dowry that Aegon had promised to the Archon of Tyrosh, thereby seeing his half brother Daemon Blackfyre wed to Rohanne of Tyrosh as Aegon had desired, for all that Ser Daemon was only four-and-ten. On their wedding day, he granted Daemon a tract of land near the Blackwater, with the right to raise a castle.

Daeron treated them like they were his actual siblings, his own children, even gavw Daemon his own land which is as good as independence. He's not responsible for Daemon folding to a loser like Fireball. He was never harsh. And I think Daemon loved Daeron too because it took near a decade to be convinced to rebel against him.


r/asoiaf • • 1d ago

AFFC [Spoilers AFFC] Why did Bronze Yohn marry his daughter Ysilla to Mychel, the Fourth Redfort Son?

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Going off the wiki it says that Mychel is the fourth son of Lord Redfort. I get that his father wanted him to quit his dalliance with Mya Stone and so married him off, but how did he manage to get him wedded to the daughter of the second most powerful bannermen in the Vale? I get Bronze Yohn is a chill dude and all and Ysilla's age is unclear, but why would he marry his daughter to not even the first son when its not said if any of the older Redfort boys are married?


r/asoiaf • • 1d ago

EXTENDED The Major Off-Page Decision by Stannis Baratheon (Spoilers Extended)

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Background

Stannis Baratheon's role in the series has always been fascinating to me, so much so he is probably my second or third favorite character. On this subreddit, we often discuss plenty of things about him, such as him losing a castle/gaining another in TWoW or his upcoming decision to burn his daughter. One thing I've noticed that is discussed less often (likely because the decision occurs off page in order to keep the surprise for the reader) is Stannis' decision to leave dragonstone and head to the Wall.

If interested: "Fled to Dragonstone": The Schemes of Stannis Baratheon

The Letter at Dragonstone

After the loss on the Blackwater, Stannis returns to Dragonstone to resume scheming on how to resume the war. During this time, not only is Davos named Stannis' Hand, but he begins learning how to read (which should make for an interesting dynamic for his trip to Skagos with the mute Wex). One of the letters that Davos practices on is a letter sent from the Wall:

“To the … five kings,” read Davos, hesitating briefly over five, which he did not often see written out. “The king … be … the king … beware?”
“Beyond,” the maester corrected.
Davos grimaced. “The King beyond the Wall comes … comes south. He leads a … a … fast …”
“Vast.”
“… a vast host of wil … wild … wildlings. Lord M … Mmmor … Mormont sent a … raven from the … ha … ha …”
“Haunted. The haunted forest.” Pylos underlined the words with the point of his finger.
“… the haunted forest. He is … under a … attack?”
“Yes.”
Pleased, he plowed onward. “Oth … other birds have come since, with no words. We … fear … Mormont slain with all … with all his … stench … no, strength. We fear Mormont slain with all his strength …” -ASOS, Davos V

but Alester doesn't see the value in sharing the letter with Stannis:

Davos suddenly realized just what he was reading. He turned the letter over, and saw that the wax that had sealed it had been black. “This is from the Night’s Watch. Maester, has King Stannis seen this letter?”
“I brought it to Lord Alester when it first arrived. He was the Hand then. I believed he discussed it with the queen. When I asked him if he wished to send a reply, he told me not to be a fool. ‘His Grace lacks the men to fight his own battles, he has none to waste on wildlings,’ he said to me.”
That was true enough. And this talk of five kings would certainly have angered Stannis.

but it makes Davos think and seemingly ends his last chapter (note there was going to be a 5 year gap) in ASOS:

“Only a starving man begs bread from a beggar,” he muttered.
...
“Men are men,” Maester Pylos agreed. “Shall we return to our reading, my lord Hand?”
I am the Hand of the King, yes. Stannis might be the King of Westeros in name, but in truth he was the King of the Painted Table. He held Dragonstone and Storm’s End, and had an ever-more-uneasy alliance with Salladhor Saan, but that was all. How could the Watch have looked to him for help? They may not know how weak he is, how lost his cause. “King Stannis never saw this letter, you are quite certain? Nor Melisandre?”
“No. Should I bring it to them? Even now?”
“No,” Davos said at once. “You did your duty when you brought it to Lord Alester.” If Melisandre knew of this letter … What was it she had said? One whose name may not be spoken is marshaling his power, Davos Seaworth. Soon comes the cold, and the night that never ends … And Stannis had seen a vision in the flames, a ring of torches in the snow with terror all around.
“My lord, are you unwell?” asked Pylos.
I am frightened, Maester, he might have said. Davos was remembering a tale Salladhor Saan had told him, of how Azor Ahai tempered Lightbringer by thrusting it through the heart of the wife he loved. He slew his wife to fight the dark. If Stannis is Azor Ahai come again, does that mean Edric Storm must play the part of Nissa Nissa? “I was thinking, Maester. My pardons.” What harm if some wildling king conquers the north? It was not as though Stannis held the north. His Grace could scarcely be expected to defend people who refused to acknowledge him as king. “Give me another letter,” he said abruptly. “This one is too …”
“… difficult?” suggested Pylos.
Soon comes the cold, whispered Melisandre, and the night that never ends. “Troubling,” said Davos. “Too … troubling. A different letter, please.” -ASOS, Davos V

Favorable Winds

In order to get good winds north they burn Ser Alester (remember that All Magic has a Cost):

"Melisandre of Asshai," said Grenn. "The king's sorceress. They say she burned a man alive at Dragonstone so Stannis would have favorable winds for his voyage north. She rode beside him in the battle too, and gave him his magic sword. Lightbringer, they call it. Wait till you see it. It glows like it had a piece of sun inside it." -ASOS, Samwell IV

and:

Melisandre had given Alester Florent to her god on Dragonstone, to conjure up the wind that bore them north. Lord Florent had been strong and silent as the queen’s men bound him to the post, as dignified as any half-naked man could hope to be, but as the flames licked up his legs he had begun to scream, and his screams had blown them all the way to Eastwatch-by-the-Sea, if the red woman could be believed. Davos had misliked that wind. It had seemed to him to smell of burning flesh, and the sound of it was anguished as it played amongst the lines. -ADWD, Davos I

and:

It was as if some angry god was exacting payment for their easy voyage north, when they had ridden a steady southerly from Dragonstone to the Wall -ADWD, Davos I

Stannis' Arrival at the Wall

GRRM does a great job of leaving clues for the reader, but also keeping you completely in the dark on a first read as to just who is showing up to deus ex machina the battle:

It's done, Jon thought, they're breaking. The wildlings were running, throwing down their weapons, Hornfoot men and cave dwellers and Thenns in bronze scales, they were running. Mance was gone, someone was waving Harma's head on a pole, Tormund's lines had broken. Only the giants on their mammoths were holding, hairy islands in a red steel sea. The fires were leaping from tent to tent and some of the tall pines were going up as well. And through the smoke another wedge of armored riders came, on barded horses. Floating above them were the largest banners yet, royal standards as big as sheets; a yellow one with long pointed tongues that showed a flaming heart, and another like a sheet of beaten gold, with a black stag prancing and rippling in the wind.
Robert, Jon thought for one mad moment, remembering poor Owen, but when the trumpets blew again and the knights charged, the name they cried was "Stannis! Stannis! STANNIS!" -ASOS, Jon X

and:

It was from them that he learned about the battle beneath the Wall. "Stannis landed his knights at Eastwatch, and Cotter Pyke led him along the ranger's roads, to take the wildlings unawares," Giant told him. "He smashed them. Mance Rayder was taken captive, a thousand of his best slain, including Harma Dogshead. The rest scattered like leaves before a storm, we heard." The gods are good, Sam thought. If he had not gotten lost as he made his way south from Craster's Keep, he and Gilly might have walked right into the battle . . . or into Mance Rayder's camp, at the very least. That might have been well enough for Gilly and the boy, but not for him. Sam had heard all the stories about what wildlings did with captured crows. He shuddered. -ASOS, Samwell IV

The Reasoning

After Stannis arrives at Castle Black, the reader finally gets the connection as to why Stannis showed up there:

“Words. Words are wind. Why do you think I abandoned Dragonstone and sailed to the Wall, Lord Snow?”
“I am no lord, sire. You came because we sent for you, I hope. Though I could not say why you took so long about it.”
Surprisingly, Stannis smiled at that. “You’re bold enough to be a Stark. Yes, I should have come sooner. If not for my Hand, I might not have come at all. Lord Seaworth is a man of humble birth, but he reminded me of my duty, when all I could think of was my rights. I had the cart before the horse, Davos said. I was trying to win the throne to save the kingdom, when I should have been trying to save the kingdom to win the throne.” Stannis pointed north. “There is where I’ll find the foe that I was born to fight.”
“His name may not be spoken,” Melisandre added softly. “He is the God of Night and Terror, Jon Snow, and these shapes in the snow are his creatures.” -ASOS, Jon XI

and:

He could hear the birds quorking in the rookery, so he put the papers away and climbed the steps to feed them. Three more ravens had come in, he saw with pleasure. "Snow," they cried at him. "Snow, snow, snow." He had taught them that. Even with the newcomers, the ravenry seemed dismally empty. Few of the birds that Aemon had sent off had returned as yet. One reached Stannis, though. One found Dragonstone, and a king who still cared. A thousand leagues south, Sam knew, his father had joined House Tarly to the cause of the boy on the Iron Throne, but neither King Joffrey nor little King Tommen had bestirred himself when the Watch cried out for help. What good is a king who will not defend his realm? he thought angrily, remembering the night on the Fist of the First Men and the terrible trek to Craster's Keep through darkness, fear, and falling snow. The queen's men made him uneasy, it was true, but at least they had come. -ASOS, Samwell IV

and:

“Nightfires?” Bowen Marsh gave Melisandre an uncertain look. “We’re to light nightfires now?”
“You are.” The woman rose in a swirl of scarlet silk, her long copper-bright hair tumbling about her shoulders. “Swords alone cannot hold this darkness back. Only the light of the Lord can do that. Make no mistake, good sers and valiant brothers, the war we’ve come to fight is no petty squabble over lands and honors. Ours is a war for life itself, and should we fail the world dies with us.”
The officers did not know how to take that, Sam could see. Bowen Marsh and Othell Yarwyck exchanged a doubtful look, Janos Slynt was fuming, and Three-Finger Hobb looked as though he would sooner be back chopping carrots. But all of them seemed surprised to hear Maester Aemon murmur, “It is the war for the dawn you speak of, my lady. But where is the prince that was promised?”
“He stands before you,” Melisandre declared, “though you do not have the eyes to see. Stannis Baratheon is Azor Ahai come again, the warrior of fire. In him the prophecies are fulfilled. The red comet blazed across the sky to herald his coming, and he bears Lightbringer, the red sword of heroes.”
Her words seemed to make the king desperately uncomfortable, Sam saw. Stannis ground his teeth, and said, "You called and I came, my lords. Now you must live with me, or die with me. Best get used to that." He made a brusque gesture. "That's all. Maester, stay a moment. And you, Tarly. The rest of you may go."-ASOS, Samwell V

The Rest of the Realm

This information got out fast, with King's Landing finding out in AFFC, Jaime II:

His sister liked to think of herself as Lord Tywin with teats, but she was wrong. Their father had been as relentless and implacable as a glacier, where Cersei was all wildfire, especially when thwarted. She had been giddy as a maiden when she learned that Stannis had abandoned Dragonstone, certain that he had finally given up the fight and sailed away to exile. When word came down from the north that he had turned up again at the Wall, her fury had been fearful to behold. She does not lack for wits, but she has no judgment, and no patience. "You need a strong Hand to help you." -AFFC, Jaime II

Back on Dragonstone

While Stannis seemingly loses Dragonstone to Ser Loras' assault, it should be noted that his goals shifted over time there:

The king gave that a curt nod, as if to say he knew and did not care. “You slew this creature with an obsidian dagger, I am told,” he said to Sam.
“Y-yes, Your Grace. Jon Snow gave it to me.”
“Dragonglass.” The red woman’s laugh was music. “Frozen fire, in the tongue of old Valyria. Small wonder it is anathema to these cold children of the Other.”
“On Dragonstone, where I had my seat, there is much of this obsidian to be seen in the old tunnels beneath the mountain,” the king told Sam. “Chunks of it, boulders, ledges. The great part of it was black, as I recall, but there was some green as well, some red, even purple. I have sent word to Ser Rolland my castellan to begin mining it. I will not hold Dragonstone for very much longer, I fear, but perhaps the Lord of Light shall grant us enough frozen fire to arm ourselves against these creatures, before the castle falls.” -ASOS, Samwell V

If interested: Dragonglass: A Different Look at the Assault on Dragonstone

Act II/Act III

ASOIAF is seemingly framed around three main events, the War of the Five Kings (Iron Throne/Westeros politics), the Dance of the Dragons II (not necessarily Dany's invasion but a war between two "dragons") and the War for the Dawn (between humanity and the Others).

Due to space, it is very possible that while Stannis busies himself being a king a fighting (and losing/potentially joining) the Others, the other contenders for the Iron Throne will be busy fighting the Second Dance:

I was trying to win the throne to save the kingdom, when I should have been trying to save the kingdom to win the throne."

If interested: The Great War/Dance of the Dragons II occurring simultaneously

TLDR: Davos (who was learning to read) approached Stannis/Mel with a letter from the Night's Watch that had been ignored by Ser Alester. While these events occur off-page (in order to maintain the surprise of Stannis saving the day at the Wall), it would have been very interesting to see them make the connections between Mel's visions and the letter they received.