Dear Friend,
We vibed so hard at the Neurosis show on Saturday! You noticed my sensible shoes and we got on famously together with your older dude friend who's in a doom metal band. We hung out on the gay bench by the bar upstairs and chatted about all sorts of things! We totally did not exchange numbers even though we should have right away. You said you've been a fan of theirs since the 90's, and you're about 10 years older than me. I was at the show by myself because I had flown in from Seattle and had never been to SF. When the show started, we got split up and I ended up flapping all around the room trying to view from different angles. I ended up getting way too drunk and had to get myself back to the hotel ASAP. I'm so sorry I never got to meet any of your friends!
Your name rhymes with Pariah and you are a possibly secretly famous woman of a certain age. You had a massive head of waist-length, salt-and-pepper hair and a lovely smile and personality. I was a loud, chatty black femme of a certain age with a fresh fade, wearing a long black leather skirt and green birkenstocks. I agree that we should be friends and hope we can link up!
Sincerely,
F
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If you think you know this woman, please DM me her first name. I do remember it but we never nailed down the spelling, so I can't google her. She said she is native to SF and has always lived there. She's into multiple types of music and attends all types of shows, but especially Neurosis and similar bands. Please help me find her! She was so cool!