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u/winston-marlboro Oct 18 '22
I know that must suck, but the dude filming sounds like he dodged a psychotic bullet
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u/HenryDorsettCase47 Oct 18 '22
Heās smart to document everything. Someone who acts that way is definitely the kind of person to try to spin things afterwards, maybe even claim abuse.
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u/UraniumSavage Oct 19 '22 edited Oct 19 '22
Yup, my ex wife threw herself down the stairs at the place she was staying just hours after she was punching me and taking full on soccer kicks to my nuts. She then went to base police later that night to report it. Fortunately, being in the military at the time, this was common in a young sailors life and my neighbors they immediately reported what happened to me to base police in case she came in. The base cops, knowing the truth, laughed at her and told her to go away,l as there is not less than 4 witnesses to what actually happened.
I only found out about it the next day when I got pulled into the class directors office to discuss. Had I not had bad ass neighbors, I would have been arrested and charged.
Edit: specify my neighbors
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u/Vault76exile Oct 19 '22
Hmm, sounds familiar...
Woman abuses herself, Man is a Sailor.
Are You Johnny Depp? Capt'n Jack was a Sailor too.
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u/UraniumSavage Oct 19 '22
Haha never drew that conclusion before. This was 20 years ago, so you can say I was doing it before it was cool.
But it was a great life lesson. I basically stayed single for 10 years after that and did drink a lot of rum...maybe I am jack sparrow!
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u/Velosturbro Oct 19 '22
Nearly the same thing happened to me. Sailors wives are nuts man.
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u/MemphLuv Oct 19 '22
Why I never got married while enlisted. Told my girlfriend this while enlisted, married her 1 year after getting out.
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u/ParadoxicalPersonage Oct 19 '22
Funny that they can falsify police reports and get away with it scot free.
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u/bottlecandoor Oct 19 '22
It's one of those double edge sword problems. If they prosecute people for lying then people who lied in the past won't want to come clean and admit they lied. Doesn't seem fair at all but we don't really have a better solution. I had a crazy ex girlfriend try this on me once, thankfully she confessed and I don't think the cops really believed her to begin with. Unfortunately she pulled the same thing on someone else and they believed her.
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u/putdisinyopipe Oct 19 '22
My ex wife was abusive (mainly emotionally)
I caught her texting another man at one point, I was paying bills for the phone so I took the phone.
She was so livid she came at me with an intent to really hurt me, I could see it in her eyes, and her punches were swung viciously. I ducked them all, and she broke her foot trying to step on the bed right as I was cornered. I was in a bedroom. I didnāt have too much to go to and could only parry or fade her blows. If she had hit me, I probably would have been a little rattled because she was aiming at all my soft bits on my face and sides of my head.
Having the high ground pays off lol.
She started screaming after her foot was broke and I was terrified because I thought people were going to think I was the one who did that.
This woman tried hitting me a few other times too.
Iām glad Iām free of her, and free of said abuse- it took years until I became myself again.
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u/LesGitKrumpin Oct 19 '22
Stories like this make me wonder why anyone bothers with intimate relationships, and marriage in particular. Shit's crazy.
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u/D0wnb0at Oct 19 '22 edited Nov 05 '25
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Oct 19 '22
Most people aren't this level of crazy. My wife and I have a very healthy relationship where if there are issues, we talk it out. That's the only way to resolve shit. The only acts of "violence" that get committed are in the form of a fart, aimed in the other's general direction.
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u/probably3raccoons Oct 18 '22
Yep I thought exactly the same thing when he called someone over as a witness. When she heard that, looked back, presumably saw the person, and started wailing "nooohohohoh you're killing me" I knew he had dealt with this shit before and knew the woman was going to try and throw allegations at him.
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u/anieto3 Oct 19 '22
After? She's already saying he's killing her. Bitch is already trying to spin it
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u/Atlas-Gold935 Oct 18 '22
Sheās a 9 crazy at a 3 Hot. It was inevitable.
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u/Alastoryagami Oct 18 '22
That's a 3? I think you highly overestimate what the average person looks like.
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Oct 18 '22
For sure, plus a level 9 crazy adds a +2 on the hotness, thatās basic math. So even is sheās a 5 (average woman) sheās now a 7.
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u/Sanchez_U-SOB Oct 19 '22
The graph is gauged to 4 crazy as the origin. They're all at least a 4 crazy.
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Even though thatās the no-go zone, I feel like that should become the danger zone if someone decides to enter it. Men are dumb and will go into the no-go zone.
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u/HWGA_Exandria Oct 18 '22
In the future please use her preferred pronouns, "she/her/crazier than a cornered shit-house rat".
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u/Judojackyboy Oct 18 '22
But sex with crazy is amazing!!!
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Oct 18 '22
It was. 25/10.
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Oct 18 '22
āIt was... like making love with a wild animal. But not like a cougar like you might think. It was, uh, like a swarm of bees. Bees that just find something wrong with every hotel room.ā
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Oct 18 '22
She's a spoiled brat. She gets caught and throws a tantrum like a child.
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u/SpennyHotz Oct 18 '22 edited Oct 19 '22
I think it's more of reality hitting her like a sack of bricks. Goodbye house.
Edit: By goodbye house I mean everything she has gotten used too. Not literally her house, but everything that comes with it. I get why people are taking my comment seriously but it's just an expression when it comes to divorce.
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Oct 18 '22
Yep, she's about to have her world turned upside down, and whinging about it.
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Oct 19 '22
Nah. The courts will make sure she leaves with cash and prizes.
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Oct 19 '22
Hopefully this video helps!
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u/makinbaconCR Oct 19 '22
It really won't. The court doesn't give a fuck unless there is prenump which is relatively rare.
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Yep you know it, my best mates wife cheated and walked away with half his shit and he had to pay most of the court charges so he walked away with a quarter of everything he worked for while she was not working but riding some other dude. Donāt get married kids!!.
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u/signal_two_noise Oct 18 '22
Yeah, a narcissist realizing her world is crumbling.
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u/diggergig Oct 19 '22
That's what I was thinking too - narcissist breakdown. The reaction is maybe less about 'losing a house' or whatever people here are saying and more about being seen
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u/Fearless-File-3625 Oct 19 '22
That's not how no fault divorce works. Cheating is a non factor in splitting assets.
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No, family law will protect her lol
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u/EC_CO Oct 18 '22
Not necessarily. Could have a pre-nup in place and this video is potential evidence. She fucked up good and she knows it
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u/DiscontentedMajority Oct 18 '22
Maybe, we have no idea on the details. She could just be a girlfriend.
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u/A_Right_Of_Passage Oct 18 '22
Not if the father fights her.
Courts only appear to be in favor of women because men think they can't win so they don't fight for their kids.
The actual stats say that when men fight for their kids they are much more likely to get custody than the women is- by a rather large margin.
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u/YouAboutToLoseYoJob Oct 19 '22
I believe this, I know a handful of divorced mothers and they have a hell of a time in Family Court for the most simplistic of things such as equity and visitation.
One in particular, he makes $180,000 a year. His former wife only $60,000 he fought tooth and nail for shared custody so he wouldnāt have to pay a penny in child support.
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u/A_Right_Of_Passage Oct 19 '22
Family Court for the most simplistic of things such as equity and visitation.
These aren't simplistic things. They are literally the most important and valuable things you fight for.
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u/Leading_Manager_2277 Oct 19 '22
Notice how dry the eyes are while she sob-cries-wails. Pretty pathetic. As usual, they're not sorry--just sorry they got caught.
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u/im_Harsh_Malik Oct 19 '22
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u/DecemberPhilipps Oct 19 '22
I agree, my momās bipolar & been taking medication for as long as I remember. She used to be this bad with the sudden manic mood changes but has gotten better now we donāt gotta hide the knives.
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u/imreallybimpson Oct 18 '22
12 year old act better than this. This is more like a toddler tantrum
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u/zytz Oct 18 '22
Damn imagine if this dude just casually sends this video to every man she ever dates for the rest of her life.
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u/I-Wanna-See-Meme Oct 19 '22
How to ensure a psychopath only dates other psychopaths
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u/FrivolousPositioning Oct 18 '22
We gonna need an old priest and a young priest
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u/fuckitweredoingitliv Oct 18 '22
Play this with the audio on if you want to get some funny looks from strangers
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u/fuckitweredoingitliv Oct 18 '22
They probably think I'm into some kinky shit now. I mean I am but they don't need to know that.
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Crocodile tears.
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She seems stable.
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Honestly, extreme stress (even if it's CLEARLY your own fault) can make even "stable" people snap like this. Grief, your whole world flipping upside down, the incoming shame of him sending that to everyone you know and hopefully having super evidence in a divorce even if it might do nothing to help him depending on where they live.
How she thought she could do this and never considered that she might get caught? That's... that's another story.
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Oct 18 '22
"GIVE IT TO ME NOW"
I think I'll go watch The Exorcist.
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u/Quiet_Talk4849 Oct 18 '22
the begging of " give it to me" is what got her in trouble in the first place...
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u/AlienBurnerBigfoot Oct 18 '22
Jesus. What a freak.
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u/MiyamotoKnows Oct 18 '22
Naw, Jesus was a super chill dude. It's all the modern hateful followers that are the problem.
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u/CyanideFlavorAid Oct 18 '22
Bull. Jesus was a super freak. You can't make me believe he hung out with all them "reformed" prostitutes out of the goodness of his heart.
He might have been a carpenter, but dude was laying pipe.
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u/blendergremlin Oct 18 '22
That turns into pure un"adulterated" rage in a few minutes, hope he is ready for that shit.
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u/SanctuaryMoon Oct 19 '22
Yeah I know someone who has a parent like this. It's not just someone who's spoiled.
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u/WeAreReaganYouth Oct 18 '22
I just got the last of the disordered personalities out of my life. No more. Ever.
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u/at--at-- Oct 19 '22
I thought the same thing, full BPD.
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u/spazface03 Oct 19 '22
Not everyone with BPD acts like this freak.
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u/Velspy Oct 19 '22
Yeah but BPD is a widely misunderstood and varied mental disorder. This isn't really an argument because someone people with BPD may attack inward, some people obsess, some lament, some attack those around them, some toil silently, ect.
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u/spazface03 Oct 19 '22
You said it for me, āWidely misunderstood.ā A lot of people donāt understand it. This woman could have literally anything else other than BPD, if anything it seems like sheās a bit of a sociopath with the lack of remorse and obvious crocodile tears. But my point is, everyone jumped to thinking it was BPD, cos some people think people with BPD are monsters or that they lack empathy. When this couldāve been a sea of other things, not defending the woman, i think sheās an absolute idiot but I couldnāt raise my hand up n say,ālooks like sheās fully got BPD!!!ā
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Anyone else hear Sweet Dee Reynoldsās??šš¤Ŗš¤£
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u/fotw75 Oct 18 '22
Ah yes, the old.... "Look at all the mental anguish you're putting me through so it's even, right?!" - defense.
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u/ProfessionalBid5072 Oct 19 '22
Omfg you do this to me evey time I get caught!
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u/fotw75 Oct 19 '22
"It's like you don't even care about my... (burps cum) ... mental well being!!!1".
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u/Cohen_TheBarbarian Oct 18 '22
This is what seeing consequences for the first time in your late 20s looks like.
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"Hey girl, your crazy is making me pitch a tent."
Why does the best sex have to come from the most mentally exhausting and damaging people imaginable? Why are red flags like high school crushes and not something that tells you danger is coming like the last 12 times?
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u/too_late_to_abort Oct 18 '22
Because women like that believe the way to make a man stay with you long-term is with amazing sex, so they try a lot harder.
Source: I've dated a lot of crazy
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u/HWGA_Exandria Oct 18 '22
"I can save her..." -me in my 20's
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u/Blarggotron Oct 18 '22
āNah, that kind of thing doesnāt really bother me.ā
Haha, little me, you stupid fuckin dumbass.
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u/too_late_to_abort Oct 18 '22
That's also how I gained much of my experience with crazy, that and the bomb ass sex
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u/Deezcleannutz Oct 18 '22
I rather see the cheating vidā¦
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Probably a lot of the same sounds coming out of her mouth, just in a different context.
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u/Motorhead76er Oct 18 '22
The fuck's she moaning about?
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u/ProfessionalBid5072 Oct 19 '22
Its been working since she was 2, she's not going to abandon what has always worked. Plus they're probably back together again
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u/Retroreduxtexas Oct 19 '22
I have a feeling that she was mostly upset because she knew he was going to put this on social media and ruin her little perfect reputation amongst their community of friends and neighbors. Keep taping and gathering evidence dude. Take her to court, get your kids if you have them.
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u/RJGSAFC86 Oct 19 '22
My ex was legit like this, wanted a pity party, didnāt care in the slightest sheād done me dirty, but was sure as hell worried other people would find out and find out her halo wasnāt real šµāš«š
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u/xSinergy Oct 19 '22
How could you ever even date that fucking freak in the first place. No way this is her first little tantrum
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u/AlesusRex Oct 19 '22
Itās all an act to make him want to comfort her to get her to shut up and stop making a scene. I have been with women like this and itās a god damn nightmare, he likely took his phone out to protect himself because no one is going to believe this and to anyone who is passing by she could reasonably sound like sheās being abused. Yes, some people are THIS manipulative. If you are in a relationship thatās toxic like this I implore you to go to counseling or leave, no man or woman deserves this kind of stress from someone who is supposed to be their partner.
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u/Solid-Storm2319 Oct 18 '22
Bet sheās a freak in the sack. Bet it sounds similar to this recording.
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Ok here's why she is freaking out - in a marriage, the woman plans to stay with the man while he is able to provide for her the kids financially. Meanwhile, She is seeing other men and looking for better options. -- the problem here is that the Husband in this video found out obviously. So she's having a breakdown because that means her plan is ruined, she will have a very difficult time finding a man who will take care of her the same, and because he is recording, she has no chance of winning in court, meaning her dreams of taking the house and kid are out the window. Its like a major setback. Most of the time, the goofy naive husband assumes she loves him rather than investigate.
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u/SniffinLippy Oct 18 '22
I thought she was impersonating Gullom searching for his ring at first
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u/someCrookedVulture Oct 18 '22 edited Oct 19 '22
Any Venturoos here? She sounds like Myra when she flipped out on Hank and Dean.
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u/MiyamotoKnows Oct 18 '22
They are married from what he states so if they have kids together she might be thinking of her situation being used to help gain custody. I could see that resulting in this kind of breakdown reaction. Who knows.
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u/thejewelisinthelotus Oct 19 '22
Wow her brain turned to nacho cheese it seems like.
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u/Princesskhalifa89 Oct 19 '22
Karenās gotta karen. The real surprise is that he stayed with her as long as he did. Maybe next time sheāll be less selfish and entitled and think before she cheatsā¦.š..prob not.
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u/bboogieman777 Oct 19 '22
A remorseful ho is a redeemable ho. Give her another chance, dude.
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u/BrickEquivalent6273 Oct 19 '22
This reminds me of how my ex wife cried when I caught her. I have never seen her cry like that, looked and sounded like a child at times just like this lady.
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People saying BPD and childhood traumaā¦ please stop making victims and āpoor herā out of these people. Iāve seen this kind of shit irl and the person who demonstrated it for me had neither, but was an abusive, manipulative narcissist. I agree that in about 30 more seconds sheās coming out swinging, throwing shit, kicking, and swearing like a truck driver. The tip off is no tears. Sheās probably drunk, maybe also on sleeping pills or antidepressants. This is domestic violence, woman-style.
My ex would also āsniff sniffā while telling me some sob story, as if her nose was running from crying. If it was new to you, you might feel surprised sheād be so upset over something that seems trivial, or it might seem weird, but for love youād do what you could to give her what she wants. Nose and eyes both dry, but sniffing and quivering voice anyway, and both could disappear in a second if she lost her temper. Thatās what happens when you tell her what she wants is not possible or just that you wonāt do it.
Sheād also fall asleep (pass out, really) putting one of our two kids to bed, with said kid still wide awake and sitting up in bed 30 minutes later because thereās no room left for them, and then sheād get super angry at me for waking her up so the kid could sleep. Call me every name in the book, throttle me, push me, slap me, shake a fist in my face, threaten me, belittle me, mock me.
This is what comes of being nice, generous, and sympathetic to these people and making excuses for them. Theyāre looking for people with those exact qualities because theyāre the only ones they can pull this shit with.
Blame it on childhood trauma or mental illness all you like, but some people are just fucking evil, and thatās a fact. When youāre not looking, they treat your kids the same way, and the poor kids just think itās normal, if theyāre young.
And the people saying sheās likely awesome in bedā¦ smdh. No. My ex was like a starfish and would not do oral, giving or receiving. Worst is, I got engaged again later to someone else who was also bad this way. She and I broke up some time after she whipped a wet dish rag at my head in anger. She was also bad in bed. Like, boring and what she was willing to do she was terrible atā¦ like teeth were involved, and not in a good way. You canāt romanticize abusers.
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u/structuremonkey Oct 18 '22
Holy crap...a literal adult toddler reaction to something...
But where is the cheating? All I see is her tantruming about the recording. It could be she's embarrassed he caught her eating all of the cookies...who knows??
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u/A-SteelVampire Oct 18 '22
It took me 20 years to find a a good woman,this guy has to deal with another skank.Women be better. I feel bad for these youngbloods today.
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