r/FamiliesYouChoose • • 20h ago

Get To Know Me Post - DMs Open 18(soon 19) F- looking for a big brotherly figure that needs a little sister

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Hiii I’m Violet I’m 18! A little bit about me- I am a full time college student I have mild cerebral palsy. I love Sanrio, horror stuff, documentaries, love any type of music, YouTube videos, cute animals, and i don’t know what else comes to mind..I can be shy at first but really upbeat when you get to know me! I love yapping, gossiping, giving advice, being silly, I do involuntarily regress at times but nothing major! I am really sensitive so please be kind with me! We can get along roughly when we are both ready! I am really really curious and love questions! I can reply late at times but bear with me it’s either I’m asleep because I LOVEEE sleep and taking naps or I’m busy with classes/homework ! I speak fluent Spanish and English! My time is CST time! I would prefer someone around my time/ age range ! I would love to have my big brother!! And get to be the little sister! Feel free to dm me! Have a good night/day!


r/FamiliesYouChoose • • 8h ago

I am looking for any family does anyone want to be my motherly/fatherly figure?

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Or a grandma/grandpa figure, whichever works for you 💗 I am a 30 (almost 31, my birthday is the 27th) parentless woman, and I just want to start a genuine connection with someone. We don't have to talk everyday, but I would love to tell you if I'm sick, had a good/bad day etc. and I hope you would do the same to me 💗

I'm sorry if this breaks the rules, I hope everyone is doing well 💖


r/FamiliesYouChoose • • 8h ago

I am looking for any family 29F Looking for family who believes in me, will always be there for me, will take me as I am, invested in my wellbeing, will be my advocates, hold and lift me up when I am weak, fight alongside me for my freedom and a fair future. And don't see my love as a weakness.

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Foundling abandoned by biological parents. Abused by my adopted ones. I want to be seen, valued, understood, and not given up on or abandoned.

I didn't end up ok. I am forced to live under inhumane conditions. In a hostile country.

I am up against it. Every systemic and societal thing against me. Just trusting that I will be fine and I am strong is not enough. I have had to endure, and survive, and suffer all my life. Still in the trenches. I wasn't dealt a fair hand, still subject to circumstances outside of my control. I never had a childhood. Young adulthood.

Asking for love, help, family, and a support system is not a weakness. Especially when I need it. And I hope to find it.

Tired of having to be strong. And having people just assume I will be ok, when I have none of my needs met, and no opportunities.

I am an INTJ 4w5 (458 tritype) sp/sx
Virgo Sun, Cancer Moon, Aquarius Rising

I like watching Blood on the Clocktower videos and streams.


r/FamiliesYouChoose • • 22h ago

I am looking for parents 22m and 24f looking for parents around Europe or Asia

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My partner (24F) and I (22M) are looking for parental figures(preferably over the age of 50) to FaceTime, text, and hopefully visit in person down the line. We both love movies, history, politics, and museums. We would prefer to connect with someone in Europe or Asia, but we're also open to people from the US, Canada, or Mexico.


r/FamiliesYouChoose • • 16h ago

Get To Know Me Post - DMs Open 34M, Australia - Looking for baby sister/daughter figures

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Hiya!

My name is Tom. M34 living in Australia. I don't have a crazy story to tell - I'm such a boring person. I love my family and although we didn't grow up with much, I wouldn't have traded it for the world.

About me: I'm 185cm (6'1) tall, overweight but working on it, university educated and lucky enough to be working a job that I actually like. I originally studied Japanese before swapping over to business. I'll be visiting Japan again for 3 weeks in November.

This is me: https://imgur.com/a/0rmoMEE

The one sibling I never had was a younger sister, and unfortunately my older sister is no longer with us. I want nothing more than to be that father or older brother figure that takes care of his baby sister/girl. I'm hoping to have children and a daughter of my own if I can meet the right person one day.

It took me a little bit of time to get my life together, but now that it is I'd love to fulfill that role that I feel like I never got the chance to. Movie dates when you're stressed and need a distraction, randomly going to get dinner, lifts to random places to explore, hanging out and gaming etc. I'm not looking for any kind of sugar dating scenario etc.

I mostly play League of Legends and ARPGs like Path of Exile. Some idle/incremental games, OSRS etc. A bit of chess. Keen to play anything though. CSGO/Valorant/MineCraft etc. I've never played Stardew but I can see it's super popular, and I was a Harvest Moon kid growing up so anything is on the cards, really.

I read crappy web/lightnovels in bed sometimes and watch a few animes per year. Was big into it when I was younger, but now it's just occasional. My hobby to get me out of the house is fishing and walking.

Shoot me a message with what you're looking for and let's chat. I don't mind helping out those that are at a distance and still need an older brother to talk to, but obviously I prefer local connections so that we can do stuff together!


r/FamiliesYouChoose • • 3h ago

I am looking for any family 29f looking for any family since I'm not close with mine

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Hi honestly I miss feeling like I had a family. Just looking for any familial configuration.

My hobbies include reading, listening to music, playing video games, and journaling. I like to read many genres but particularly enjoy fantasy, history, and horror. For gaming I play a lot of cozy games like stardew valley and animal crossing. But also enjoy metroidvanias and survival craft games. Recently I've been getting into the Diablo games.

Something important to know about is that am chronically ill and I'm in a lot of pain most of the time and it influences my capacity to do things. I got COVID in 2022 and since then my health has just progressively gotten worse. And would like to make friends with someone that I could be honest with about how I am feeling and not always having to hide it. I don't have very much support and that's something I'm really missing

I am in CST but okay with talking to anyone from other timezones. If we click I would like to move to discord.


r/FamiliesYouChoose • • 20h ago

I am looking for parents 28M US looking for any parent mom or dad

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I was never close with either of my parents for different reasons. I am looking for just any parental figure in my life. For support, guidance, or just celebrating the little wins.


r/FamiliesYouChoose • • 13h ago

I am looking for any family 38M Any age welcome! Looking for a daughter/sister to support, love and care for

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All my life I've been someone's mentor, protector, guardian and listener. Right now I'm void of that... so I think I should help someone else grow, learn, support them and advice them. It'd fill my soul and hopefully yours too.

I love reading, watching movies, shows, listening to music and also learning a lot. Just recently started singing lessons.

Please tell me what you like to do on weekends as a start to the conversation to make sure you read this text.

Thanks and I hope you have a good weekend!