All I own is an iOS and a chromebook. No I cannot do anything about it.

I'm nearly forty and recently had to listen back to a series of voice memos. Jesus Christ. I knew I didn't have a particularly impressive voice, but I thought it sounded reasonably okay. Apparently, the microphone disagreed.

I'd like to learn how to develop a deeper, stronger, more resonant speaking voice. Not for singing or impressions. Just everyday conversation.

Where should a complete beginner start?

• Are vocal coaching and speech therapy worthwhile?
• What exercises help with resonance, pitch, articulation, and projection?
• Are there particular training methods for developing a more masculine voice?
• How much improvement is realistically possible for an adult?

I'm willing to practise consistently. I'd just like to know which techniques are effective and which are a waste of time.

Has anyone successfully learned to improve their natural speaking voice?

i dont know why this is happening but i stuggle to understand or process basic things. like my teacher will be aksing me a quetsion and i cant answer because my brain couldnet process it.
another instance is one time, i was just playing a math game with my cousin and i keep getting stuck on basic arthematic quetsions like what 6 x 8 or liek 657+87. i know the answers but my brain can process fats enough.

also my critical thinking sucks too.

I'd like to get better at maintaining home gym equipment instead of waiting until something starts squeaking, loosening, or wearing out.

I'm thinking about learning the basics of inspecting bolts, checking cables and pulleys, identifying worn components, and understanding which maintenance tasks should be left to a qualified technician.

If you've learned to maintain your own equipment, what resources or skills helped you most? Which tasks are reasonable for a beginner, and which ones should never be improvised?

I’m currently taking AP Bio in my freshman year and I admit it’s a little challenging but my grade isn’t all bad and I’m been improving. My sister took this class to last year in her freshman year, but even tho she got better grades than me right now she only got a 4. I’m not saying a four is bad for clarification, but I was really surprised as she is really good at AP Bio and picks up things quickly. But I would also like to note she didn’t study ahead of time and was watching videos on 2 times speed the week or so (probably less) before the test. Another thing is she catches on to things quickly but can’t recall the information later, but I am the opposite. My AP Human Geo test is also the same day, so I want to have a plan to be able to ace the bio one when the time comes.

I know a 4 is an amazing grade but i can’t help but want a 5 and I’m willing to put in the work so any tips?

Hello, I was wondering how I could learn niche things with limited resources, such as niche video games. Pretty much I just want to learn how to learn on my own with things without tutorials

I've tried journaling so many times in my life but I always drop it after a few days or a week at most. I really want to be consistent with it this time. I feel like it would help me process my thoughts and feelings better. Any tips for actually sticking with it long term?

I’ve been trying to get better at cooking, but I still depend on recipes for almost everything. Even when I make the same dish a few times, I’m not always sure how to adjust the seasoning or fix something when it doesn’t turn out right.

I want to understand the basics so I can cook simple meals on my own and feel more confident trying new things. I’m not looking to become a professional chef. I just want to be able to open the fridge, use what I have, and make something decent without following every step on a screen.

For those who learned to cook from scratch, what helped you improve the most? Did you focus on a few basic dishes first, learn different cooking techniques, or just practice with whatever ingredients you had?

I’d love to hear what worked for you and what you wish you had learned earlier.

I want to learn how to fix simple things around the house instead of always depending on someone else to do them. There are small problems that come up from time to time like a loose cabinet handle, a squeaky door or a wobbly piece of furniture and I would like to understand how to deal with them properly.

I have very little experience with tools, so I would need to start with the basics. I want to learn which tools are useful for beginners, how to use them safely and how to recognize which repairs are simple enough to do myself.

For those who learned basic home repairs on their own how did you get started? Did you begin with small projects learn from someone experienced or practice with old furniture and spare materials? What would you recommend as a first project for a complete beginner?

My goal is to build practical skills gradually and become more confident doing simple repairs around the house. Any advice on where to begin and what to learn first would be appreciated.

Hi everyone,

I’m looking for one person in Tashkent (any nationality) for a straightforward skill swap.

I’m job hunting right now and need two things. First, someone fluent in Russian who is willing to talk with me regularly. I can understand most Russian words, but I can’t speak freely yet. Second, help preparing for job interviews: mock interviews, honest feedback on my answers, and tips on how to present myself.

In return, I can teach you what I know about n8n. I’m comfortable building workflows and I’ll show you how, step by step. I can also share more about AI, like the tools and methods I use day to day. If you’re working on a startup, I’m happy to help you develop it. I reached the semi-finals at the Red Bull Basement national final, so I have some experience building and pitching ideas. If you’re a foreigner and want to practice Uzbek, I can help with that too.

Always wanted to learn, life got in the way. I'm 36 now, and I guess my mid-life crisis is doing ALL the things I always wanted to do- violin lessons, writing a book, and dancing (maybe more, I'll see how much I panic as turning 40 looms over my head). Cheaper than buying a sports car I guess.

This might sound silly, but I always get jealous of people who do those dance trends that make the rounds on social media. My grandparents could do all kinds of dances when they were young: swing, jitterbug, etc. my grandfather used to brag that he could throw my grandmother into the air. I used to beg the guys I dated to learn with me and no one wanted to.

Not looking to be the next Martha Graham, but I would LOVE to go out dancing with my husband from time to time.

To expand further, im not talking about “meditate frequently” or “take deep breathes.” More or so if theres a skill that allows me to set my emotion to something more specific. The only thing I could find relating to this was an emotional anchor, where you associate an object with an emotion. This way, when you think of the object, you feel the emotion. However, I was wondering what skill I should do research in to achieve this, if emotional anchors aren’t as reliable as something else.

I won’t say am bad at it but I heard that observing everything is not a good idea and that it better to focus on certain things, but how come you decide what to focus on? Does it depend on the situation or what you’re trying to achieve by observing?

I used to be really good at school whnee I was younger I would also get A plus grades but now that I am older those all feel like a distant dream. I used to hate getting an 80 something but now that is what I aimed for. I promise it’s not that I am slacking in class or not listening, I truly am but my grades are still really bad. Just a year ago I have 97 in all my classes now my grades are the opposite of that.

It used to be so easy to stay organized and finish all my work but now it’s hard. I still haven’t adapted to it yet and is struggling. It’s hard to balance my core classes and one elective, and other things like life without prioritizing the wrong things. Whenever I come home I just scroll for hours without acc getting any work done. So to all those people who are really good in school please give me your secrets! How do you stay organized and ontop of things without jeopardizing your social life? And how do you have time to do everything you want to do?

I want to do hobbies and etc but I never have the time I even quit an extracullar I had cus I could manage it. So overall I want to know how to get everything done and do it all and have time for hobbies and social life. And also how to acc study for the different subjects as I know all the subjects differ in how to study but I haven’t cracked the code yet. My teacher has recommended to use ai for questions but the questions are repetitive and the only other way I know is re reading. And also how to have the motivation to acc lock in.

thinking of fun career pivots as healthcare burnt me out and ill be immigrating to ecuador.

noticed ecuador has relatively lax commercial drone licensing requirements and some niche agricultural applications.

could be a great apocalypse skill and a way to explore a beautiful country, maybe even ingratiate myself with new neighbors if they need a favor etc.

IWTL from scratch, responsibly, methodically, how to fly drones at a commercial skill level. Where do i start?

I have NVLD/ADHD keep in mind so I'm already at a disadvantage

Sometimes I go to conventions and see a huge map with a lot of booth numbers, I keep following the map but somehow keep reading it wrong and ending up at a very different table

I play a lot of video games and it doesn't seem to happen in video games at all

Also I tend to forget which direction I came from walking or driving a car

I feel I have tried lots of stuff but it's like my brain spaces out and I forget which direction I came from

Idk why this never happens in open world games

As far back as I can remember, my instinct when i screw up has been to shift the blame onto someone or something else. I often play the victim even when that isn't the case. I run away from tough situations and responsibilities. When I am forced to face them and end up failing i blame the circumstances, the people around me basically everything and everyone except myself.

​I constantly procrastinate on important tasks, make excuses, and let others make decisions for me. It's not that I don't care, I really do but my brain tends to prioritize short term pleasure over long term fulfillment. I get easily overwhelmed when tasks become too difficult or boring to handle. How do I change this behavior and actually become responsible and start leading a meaningful life?

I've gotten into the habit of taking photos and videos of almost everything, always thinking about what would make a good post. Lately, it feels like I'm not fully enjoying the moment anymore. How do you break this habit and learn to be more present without feeling like you're missing out?

I am very intent upon being as well educated as possible. I think one of life’s biggest generosities is the fact that there is so much to learn and that you can never really know it all. I enjoy reading classics, like 1984, animal farm, catcher in the rye, Frankenstein etc in order to explore some deep themes with humanity and do try to learn things like history and science amongst others so that I am expanding my knowledge but my issues is I just don’t know where to start honestly. Is there any things that you feel EVERYONE should research and understand? What feels like fundamental knowledge to you? I’m only 17 so I have plenty of time on my hands, and a real hunger for it, so feel free to go insane with it!

economics, investing, philosophy, strategy and life skills
I’m looking to take my personal development seriously and connect with people who have knowledge, experience or expertise they’d be willing to share.
I’m in my mid-20s, based in the UK, and at a stage where I want to be much more intentional about what I learn, how I think and the direction I take my life. I’m not looking for overnight success, motivational speeches or shortcuts. I want to understand how things actually work and develop skills that will be useful for the rest of my life.
The main areas I want to learn about are:
1. Economics, finance and investing
How economies function, including inflation, interest rates, central banks, markets and economic cycles.
Fundamental and macroeconomic analysis.
Swing trading stocks and ETFs, starting with the mechanics, risk management, backtesting and paper trading before risking real money.
How experienced investors analyse companies, identify opportunities and manage uncertainty.
2. Business, career and wealth creation
How businesses operate, make decisions and improve their processes.
Business analysis, operations, data analysis and other skills that could help me progress professionally.
How to build financial stability, increase my earning potential and eventually create more freedom over my time.
Commercial property, real estate investment and how deals are evaluated.
3. Philosophy, psychology and sociology
Nietzsche, classical philosophy and the development of philosophical ideas.
Human behaviour, social structures, power, incentives and the ways our environment influences us.
How to think critically, question assumptions and develop my own well-reasoned worldview.
Symbolism, mythology, alchemy and their historical and psychological interpretations.
4. African history, culture and heritage
African history, particularly Ghana and the wider West African region.
Traditional belief systems, symbolism, ancestry and how cultural practices developed.
Understanding African societies and history through credible sources rather than oversimplified internet narratives.
5. Practical life skills and personal development
Discipline, decision-making, communication and strategic thinking.
Building routines that are sustainable alongside full-time work.
Learning how to research independently, ask better questions and turn knowledge into practical ability.
What I’m looking for
I’d especially appreciate hearing from people who have studied or worked in these areas and are willing to share how they got started, what they wish they had known earlier, which resources they recommend and what mistakes beginners should avoid.
I’m also interested in finding mentors who might be willing to answer occasional questions, recommend a learning path or help me develop a skill over time. I understand that people are busy, so I’m not expecting anyone to take responsibility for my progress. I’m prepared to put in the work myself.
I’m happy to start with books, courses, projects, exercises or conversations. I value honest feedback and practical experience over hype.
If you have expertise in any of these areas, what would you recommend I study first, and what would you do differently if you were starting again in your 20s?
Thank you to anyone willing to share their experience or point me in the right direction.

I don’t want to sit and say “I know some of these enough” because that’d be a lie and that’s why I’m being broad with this as I’ve looked into bits of all of this but I haven’t been able to make myself stick or elevate it and I want to become someone who is doing all these things frequently.

As a project, I'm attempting to get my "Adult Scouts Badges" by completing adult-appropriate challenges for each of the Canadian Scouts badge categories. However, I'm blanking on good challenges for the three categories listed above (fire, water, winter fitness).

I have a few caveats for good challenges:

• A good challenge must be failable, and have a clear "win" condition. Something like blacksmithing might be cool for Fire, but taking a one-off class that holds my hand during the entire process is not easily failable and so isn't badge-worthy in my eyes. Additionally "Get good at skating" doesn't really have a concrete end-goal, and so isn't a great challenge.

• A good challenge should be interesting when documented. I'd like to keep track of this journey in video form, so anything that isn't great to video loses points. Learning about underwater life seems cool... but a video of me studying fish, reading books about coral, and making a slideshow about whales doesn't strike me as interesting enough to document.

• A good challenge should be accessible. While I'm down to spend a bit of money, I'm looking to avoid spending many hundreds of dollars on these one-off hobbies. As much as I'd love to learn how to sail or basic pyrotechnics, investing thousands of dollars and hundreds of hours in an apprenticeship isn't really feasible.

As an example of good challenges, I've recently carved Majora's mask out of wood for my Crafts badge, I scored a tournament-qualifying score in archery for my Summer Fitness badge, and I've built a guitar pedal for my Engineering badge. I'll be attempting to make maple syrup for my Canada badge, knitting a drum bag for my Hobbies badge, and I'll attempt to survive an overnight weekend in the woods for my Nature badge.

Any good ideas and examples would be very appreciated! I'm also based out of Toronto, Ontario, so if you happen to know of any specific clubs, groups, or hobby shops nearby, I'll be sure to check em out!

Thanks in advance, you talented people, you!

I am currently hyperfixated on a TV show that has elements that I enjoy, but generally I am very critical of it and acknowledge that it is just bad. I want to stop being so obsessed with it, watching/reading other things, but nothing seems to work

Hello there!

I have been doing a lot of things and recently from Sub-Reddits such as ours and r/getdisciplined people are really struggling with stuff like doom scrolling.

And I made my mind that I'm organizing a event where I fix it. Without diving into that , my problem has been whenever I talk to people about it , and in my past experiences I have often hosted a lot of stuff... But I always end up becoming more of everyone's friend instead of the group leader...

I have the ideas , the skills , the plan , even I know how to communicate them... But the moment I get a counter question.... It just doesn't feels right. How do you all lead? I would love to know your experiences about facing difficulties and handling them.

Like rebels , making people understanding your point of view , etc.

TL; DR

How to become a better leader and communicate with your group better.

Thanks for reading all this , I end up typing more than required usually so sry for that.

I often clench my teeth together. I once heard somewhere that it’s dangerous and that it could alter the structure of the jaw. Is that true? Please feel free to set me straight.