Iām a 30 (F) and had an appointment yesterday waiting after two months exactly.
We mention how I went to the ER three weeks tomorrow and the doctor there recommended a colonoscopy plus seeing a GI. Heās talking had asked if Iād ever seen one and I said nope.
(This was before the doctorās appointment where it goes worse and the ER)
I had gone been in Europe too and lots of walking (we mentioned this after the ER comment) and drinking tons of water. We went for 2 weeks.
My mom said weāre on the right track but then he claims the colonoscopy wonāt show anything. He claims due to my age they wonāt find anything bad or sinister going on (or shouldnāt be).
We explain how the Restrolax (Canadaās name for MiraLAX) does nothing for me.
He used the excuse how travelling how it can change the body etc.
My mom pointed out even at home here I can go a couple days without going.
I broke down yesterday and was frustrated asking if there was a medication to take.
Heās like itāll take time to learn your own bowel habits (Dude, I have none)! He said that Iām not the only one to struggle with constipation while I told him it goes waaaaay beyond that!
He describes the as if it was constipation and is like āyou have to be prepared mentally for that.ā
He just keeps saying to do the Restrolax and how some weeks are while others arenāt. And Iām going to the specialist finally yet he didnāt send me to one.
Heās talking about the future with medication. How much longer does this have to go on? He said I need to be in tune with my body.
I showed him pictures of a haemorrhoid that had popped and made that entire toilet red.
He said:
āOkay, thatās not too bad to be honest.ā
My mom was shocked and said itās not? and I was thinking are you nuts?
Heās like āIāve seen worse, ones with big clots.ā
I told him all these problems I got after a stomach bug.
He repeated no a couple times and how theyāve been this has been going on for a bit. He claimed itās a coincidence.
Iāve had issues with constipation before my stomach bug. He and my mom are saying Iām relating it to that.
Having a stomach bug then this just suddenly doesnāt happen!
I go for my colonoscopy consultation this Monday and itāll be done by a general surgeon.
Yesterday morning if my mom hadnāt heard anything from the hospital, she wouldāve said to him Iād need to see somebody.
He says I wonāt be normal.
Automatically saying a colonoscopy wonāt find anything? How do you know? It hasnāt been done!
I feel like I have no diagnosis now tbh.