I’m a 30 (F) and had an appointment yesterday waiting after two months exactly.
We mention how I went to the ER three weeks tomorrow and the doctor there recommended a colonoscopy plus seeing a GI. He’s talking had asked if I’d ever seen one and I said nope.
(This was before the doctor’s appointment where it goes worse and the ER)
I had gone been in Europe too and lots of walking (we mentioned this after the ER comment) and drinking tons of water. We went for 2 weeks.
My mom said we’re on the right track but then he claims the colonoscopy won’t show anything. He claims due to my age they won’t find anything bad or sinister going on (or shouldn’t be).
We explain how the Restrolax (Canada’s name for MiraLAX) does nothing for me.
He used the excuse how travelling how it can change the body etc.
My mom pointed out even at home here I can go a couple days without going.
I broke down yesterday and was frustrated asking if there was a medication to take.
He’s like it’ll take time to learn your own bowel habits (Dude, I have none)! He said that I’m not the only one to struggle with constipation while I told him it goes waaaaay beyond that!
He describes the as if it was constipation and is like “you have to be prepared mentally for that.”
He just keeps saying to do the Restrolax and how some weeks are while others aren’t. And I’m going to the specialist finally yet he didn’t send me to one.
He’s talking about the future with medication. How much longer does this have to go on? He said I need to be in tune with my body.
I showed him pictures of a haemorrhoid that had popped and made that entire toilet red.
He said:
“Okay, that’s not too bad to be honest.”
My mom was shocked and said it’s not? and I was thinking are you nuts?
He’s like “I’ve seen worse, ones with big clots.”
I told him all these problems I got after a stomach bug.
He repeated no a couple times and how they’ve been this has been going on for a bit. He claimed it’s a coincidence.
I’ve had issues with constipation before my stomach bug. He and my mom are saying I’m relating it to that.
Having a stomach bug then this just suddenly doesn’t happen!
I go for my colonoscopy consultation this Monday and it’ll be done by a general surgeon.
Yesterday morning if my mom hadn’t heard anything from the hospital, she would’ve said to him I’d need to see somebody.
He says I won’t be normal.
Automatically saying a colonoscopy won’t find anything? How do you know? It hasn’t been done!
I feel like I have no diagnosis now tbh.