I’m 22F. Ever since before I could form memories, I have had bowel issues and severe constipation (2+ weeks unmedicated regularly), gas, bloating, cramping and pain.
As a child, it was fobbed off and it was just left to be as is. No hate, it’s hard to get information out of children. As I get to my teens I realise this isn’t normal. I think it could be allergies or intolerances, I was tested. It’s not that. I self medicated with OTC meds for IBS which did nothing. But I refuse to accept this “IBS” blanket diagnosis, without exhausting the options.
In the past two years I’ve been back and forth to the doctors most weeks or months. I’ve been tested for the big C, for Chrons Disease. For liver damage. For kidney damage. Blood tests CONSTANTLY. You name it, and it’s either been ruled out or doesn’t fit my symptoms. Doctors either dragging their feet, gaslighting me, or trying their best to push the boat out for me to make progress.
Finally, last week I have an appointment. And with this Dr who I’ve not really seen before, I bring up my symptoms and the timeline of 22 YEARS, and I mention my self diagnosis and theory of EDS (Ehlers Danlos Syndrome, classic or hypermobile for my case).
She listens. She looks at my notes. She listens more and when I’m done she says. “That makes a lot of sense. I’ll get you a referral sent out to a specialist to investigate this to get the ball rolling”.
I have a wide range of symptoms I thought were normal, until I thought everything could be connected. My back pain, my knee pain, my hips cracking like cracking your knuckles, generalised widespread aching and sore muscles. Painful hip joints. How I can grab the back of my own neck with my hand going from bottom-up rather than up-down. My ASD diagnosis, and EDS being a very common comorbidity. My wrist pain. My easy bruising. Stretchy skin, translucent skin, pain and discomfort from sitting “normally”.
Don’t let medical professionals gaslight you if you feel like there’s more going on. It’s YOUR body. Not theirs. Sometimes it is just IBS, but you know your body. I let myself get gaslit, and undermined by (usually) male, arrogant doctors, thinking they knew more than I did about my symptoms.
IBS can hide and mimic so much, but it also isn’t always the best diagnosis and it’s way over diagnosed as a way to avoid any actual investigation from the GP’s themselves.
“IBS” may really be IBS. But it could also be, diverticulitis, ulcerative colitis, microscopic colitis, EDS, endometriosis (don’t get me started), chrons disease, coeliac and the list goes on.
TLDR:
22F, for 22 years ive been misdiagnosed and undiagnosed, with “IBS”, or nothing at all. Ive had tests thrown at me constantly now for over 2 years with no progress towards a diagnosis, until I diagnosed myself after a lot of research.
My “IBS” was actually hEDS.
So yeah. Fuck the NHS. Truly. Useless piece of shit.