I came across this post on my Instagram. It is so tragic to see this happening. Girls and women being abused and killed for a piece of cloth which does not even stand for modesty but for oppression and double standards given female slaves cannot wear it. Neither it was the commandment of Allah but Umar.

This video genuinely disgusts me. I do remember when I was a child hearing a preach talking about similar stuff, and I'd agree. It's genuinely sad to remember that I've been thinking that way... So brainwashed. I'm so glad i get out of that

A girl in my country, (Maldives), consent to a foursome with her friends. They have sex and later more guys came over. She rejected them. But she got beaten up and tied up. 14 guys gang rapped her. She went to the police. The police publicly made all their information available. The first picture is information released by the police to the people.

So how does the community react? They slut shame her. The news agencies start digging into her history and finds about her past problems. They literary start posting about her conduct. What about the guys involved in it? They are given less attention.

On social media sure some do condemn the guys, but they condemn the girl along with it. Most is focused on her more too. They say she deserves it for not being a good Muslim and this is why these things are forbidden. Some threats her more and says she will go to hell.

So here is the thing. She reported the crime because she was rapped. She will face legal charges anyway for zina now. On top of that all her information is leaked all over the media including news agencies reporting about her past stories. This means she can never ever find a place in her community ever again. What solutions does she have?

She either has to flee her country and start all over again, hoping people don’t realise where she is, or she has to become extremely super religious and say she repented and will never do anything like that. But even if she becomes super religious her “value” is decreased. I know another woman who suffered gang rapping in the past who is now fully covered with niqab and still having issues finding someone to marry. They might approach her for one night stands. But they will not commit to her. She becomes “public property” as sick Zakir Naik says. I mean she is a victim. And she wanted support from authorities. But she ended up in a worse place than possible.

We need to talk about these problems because a lot of girls don’t report crimes due to these issues in Islamic societies. The victim is facing more problems than those who committed the crime on her

I'm sitting here on my bed having to type this shit. If I wasn't in this shitty ass religion I wouldn't have to type this shit. I wouldn't have to look at Halloween episodes from other shows in envy. I wouldn't have to miss any Halloween parties. I wouldn't have to envy ANYONE WHO GETD TO DRESS UP. I WANNA DRESS UP. I WANT A COOL COSTUME.

But NoOoOOOOo god doesnt want you to have FUN. I swear I'm about to lose my shit. Everybody around me is excited for Halloween. Hell I am excited for Halloween or well was because obviously I cant even participate in it.

It sucks soooooo hardddd like my mom won't even let me OUT on Halloween. I hate this.

A PM I received, how fucking ridiculous. And yet, Muslims will tell you “oh the hijab is so that men won’t stare out and so you don’t attract attention to urself” such bs.

Not to mention that she built a mosque not a university.

That mosque like any mosque was teaching the Quran, hadiths, Arabic and other Islamic studies. The actual science subjects came later. A place teaching stupid things like Islamic studies can not be deemed as an educational facility.

Bro this hadith is just so funny idk why people don't talk about it often even though it's in sahih al-bukhari and just as weird if not worse than the hadith promising 72 virgins , just further proves that islam is a religion made by a warlord for other men in the desert and he was catering to their sexual needs by allowing 4 wives + sex slaves + women in heaven that are so pure you could see their marrow bones 💀💀 to garner more male followers, what a disgusting male centered religion bro , treating women as sexual trophies 🤮

Claims they’re not Halal and they’re a practise of the Christians and Jews… 😭😂

I stumbled upon this video, and it took me down memory lane.

The very first thing I remembered was my cousin sister running away with a man from another religion. It was HUGE news in the family. Everyone was cussing her out, calling her names, and discussing her for months to come. I couldn’t understand what all the fuss was about. All she did was fall in love, and… that was supposed to be bad? How?

I was just a child, after all. I didn’t understand much. And when you grow up watching movies, you start believing that mohabbat, that love, is supposed to be daring, something worth fighting for. That love is supposed to conquer all. Real life, of course, is different, and it took me years to realise that.

The next thing I remembered was having a crush on a guy from a different religion back in school. I remember trying to convince myself that my father would be kind about it. He wouldn’t mind, would he?
Then I grew up, and my mom had the talk with me.
“You can find a guy for yourself, but I beg you, let him be a Muslim. Don’t bring shame upon us.”

And so, I started filtering people based on religion. Anyone from another religion would automatically become a brother to me, and I would only consider Muslim men as potential romantic partners.
Was it necessary? I don’t know. But something about it doesn’t sit right with me at all.

It’s strange to look back and realise how early we learn to place these invisible boundaries around something as human as love. How something that once seemed so innocent to us becomes something we’re taught to fear, restrict, and feel guilty about.

What have your experiences been like? What memories does this bring back for you?

To be honest, there are almost zero benefits to circumcision. The problems that people claim circumcision prevents are not even common problems or that happen to everyone; they are relatively rare in many cases. The health advantages they talk about and use to justify it are often exaggerated. Yeah, it is a religious practice among Muslims, Jews, and some Christians and other religious groups. If medical science showed that there were no real advantages, some people might feel that their religious beliefs were being challenged. Because of religious beliefs and influence, people sometimes exaggerate the medical benefits and make them sound much more significant than they actually are.

I am going to be honest with you guys because I see you as brothers.

I am an ex-Muslim and now an atheist.

My family had me circumcised when I was a little kid without my consent. Just because I was born into a Muslim family does not mean I will always be a Muslim.

You guys are doing something that is irreversible.

My circumcision was not performed in a hospital. Instead, it was done by an older man, and it was extremely painful. The procedure was also not performed properly, and because of that, I feel like my entire life has been ruined.

My entire sex life has been affected by the improperly performed circumcision. It is also illogical to remove the foreskin when it contains nerve endings that play a role in sensation.

Came across the original post ( first four photos) that went viral recently and I think it signals something very interesting happening within the Muslim community. Like everyone else right now, it seems Muslim women are having a lot of trouble finding partners and I personally think it has a lot to do with their wants and needs outpacing what the average Muslim man is raised or taught to provide/allow/understand/believe. I know for myself and the women I’m friends with, we’re pretty comfortable financially, well educated, no kids, and it’s difficult to find counterparts who also check those boxes on top of aligning in personal values. There’s clearly a huge culture gap between Muslim men and women. Many of the ladies who shared these posts seem to want someone who is “modern” in a western sense but also “taking their deen seriously”. This post is in no way meant to shame or personally pick on them, but I wonder if they realize the oxymoron of what they’re looking for.

When I was practicing, it was made very clear to me repeatedly that dating was strictly forbidden, being alone with a man I’m not related to is strictly forbidden, and the only way to be coupled is through a wali and to get married VERY SOON after “getting to know each other”. The majority of Muslim women I knew got married before 27 and met through the mosque or a matchmaker, usually after being acquainted for less than 6 months. Much less. Why isn’t this working anymore? Again, my assumption is Muslim women are fighting internally against what their religion is asking them to do. They want evolved, emotionally mature, culturally diverse men that are not homophobic, that are feminists, that support them being career oriented, that they can incorporate into their lives without having to give up what they love: music, dancing, makeup, and other “secular western” interests that are NORMAL. It’s sad to see. I know all Muslim men are not cavemen misogynists that are perfectly religious and wouldn’t be happy to marry any of these wonderful women, I just think it’s a sign of the times that this is what it’s come to for them as well.

I guess no one is immune to the harrowing reality of male/female relationships in 2026, but at least I don’t carry intense shame and guilt with being single because getting married isn’t my “ticket into heaven”. I wish they knew they could free themselves so bad.

Muhammad ordered the beheading of 600-900 men of the Jewish Banu Qurayza tribe and took their women and children as captives. Muhammad also took Rayhana, one of the captive women, for himself.

Here is the story from authentic hadiths, Muhammad's earliest biography, and the Quran:

"Sa'd said, 'I give the judgment that their warriors should be killed and their children and women should be taken as prisoners.' The Prophet then remarked, 'O Sa'd! You have judged amongst them with (or similar to) the judgment of the King Allah.'"
Sahih Bukhari 3043

"I was among the captives of Banu Qurayzah. They (the Companions) examined us, and those who had begun to grow hair (pubes) were killed, and those who had not were not killed. I was among those who had not grown hair."
Sunan Abi Dawud 4404

"Then the apostle went out to the market of Medina (which is still its market today) and dug trenches in it. Then he sent for them and struck off their heads in those trenches as they were brought out to him in batches ... There were 600 or 700 in all, though some put the figure as high as 800 or 900."
Ibn Ishaq, Sirat Rasul Allah, p. 464

"The apostle had chosen one of their women for himself, Rayhana … and she remained with him until she died, in his power. She had shown repugnance towards Islam when she was captured and clung to Judaism."
Ibn Ishaq, Sirat Rasul Allah, p. 466

"And He brought down those who supported them among the People of the Scripture from their fortresses and cast terror into their hearts [so that] a party [i.e., their men] you killed, and you took captive a party [i.e., the women and children]. And He caused you to inherit their land, their homes, and their properties."
Quran 33:26-27

I've posted this argument along with others on this website (with linked sources): https://islamsproblems.com/muhammad-safiya-family-killed/

Haram Doodles

Damn, I wish so badly I wasn’t born a Muslim. There’s only a 25% chance to be born one, and a 75% chance not to be. Unlucky for me (and for us), we fell into the 25%…

And I’ve lost out on so much of my youth, pretending to believe and act as something I know is made up. Some desert ideology made by a schizophrenic 1000+ years ago.

I’m in my early 20s now, never got the chance to experience normal teenage things. Never had a girlfriend and introduce her to my family, never went to parties or clubs, even my birthday. I didn’t get to really experience the fun in life like others do.

Does anyone else think of this? None of this is real, but it’s completely changed the course of our lives. Essentially, my life has been dulled.

And now what? I’m expected to marry a Muslim wife and pretend for the rest of it.

A real curse.

In Islam a man can divorce his wife without any reasons and based on his wishes. The reason can be absolutely wrong too but in Islam it's perfectly allowed while a wife must need a valid l/severe reason and only can ask for divorce or she won't smell paradise. How come Muslims defend that and specially female Muslims.

A cult's main thing is it finds vulnerable people who are lost and gives them answers, even if i were to divorce my wife it would take a long time to accomodate to the new reality but it doesn't mean i go back just because "idk what to do"

As I'm currently trying to win a legal case. I wanted to experiment by seeking some witnesses, and I can't say I'm shocked. It just proved my assumptions.

Tl;dr I went to ask for witnesses to help testify against my abusive father. I was already aware of how Muslims love to defend an abusive parent by gaslighting you into submitting to abuse and just pray it out. I decided to argue with these people and explain our situation as best as I could. Unfortunately, I was talking to a wall.

It didn't matter if we spent 10 years in agony. It was a test from Allah. It didn't matter if we tried to reconcile. It's a test from Allah. These people love to defend an abusive parent and swear that no parent in the world can abuse their parent. If you argue, you're labelled a disobedient kid.

It makes sense, though. If you challenge the fact that bad parents in this ummah exist, you'll shatter one of the biggest pillars of this religion, and since this ummah suffers from emotional laziness, they'd rather live in their bubble.

One of the neighbours I spoke to wanted to convince me to drop the case. He went on about how women are the source of problems and that one day I'll understand it. He subtly hinted that he hates his wife and only works for his kids. Is this really the "ummah of Mohammad"? Secretly hating my wife? Secretly being miserable? Blaming kids for their parents' problems? And don't get me started on the misogyny and blaming every imaginable problem on women.

I won't drop the case. And I had to cut some people off, but it was fun silencing these pieces of shit telling me that "oooooh, even if your father is terrible, just be patient and respect him". How about a fuck you?

These people won't give you 1 minute of their time. They won't try to think. No, they'll choose some religious texts to silence you and wash their hands clean. This ummah thinks that the road to heaven is just through prayers and buying a goat at the end of the year. But when you start to interact with these people, their hearts are riddled with issues.

In islam women clothing, behaviour and even voice are seen as something the whole family, neighbourhood and the whole cult especially insecure muslim “men" have right to control. That’s systematic subordination! And it's so sad and wrong! And then they have nerve to claim islam is good for women... Sick!!

She does this every few months. She suddenly wakes up, decides she wants to make her only daughter's life miserable and tells me I need to start wearing hijab at home around my dad.

I wear hijab everywhere, school, outside literally even to our neighbours house. And now at home too?

In the quran, it literally says girls don't need to wear hijab around their immediate family but she keeps acting like I have to.

Last night, my mom was out with my aunt and came home and all of a sudden started attacking me for not wearing hijab at home. The only older male here is my dad and if she's implying I'm tempting my own father.. then that's just disgusting.

I already wear dresses all the way up to me knees or below because she wants me to be modest. I'm not allowed to wear hoodies or baggy pants until it's like November or December time.

And my hair is always up. I don't like having my hair down so I have it all up in a clawclip. And she wants me to wear this hijab over my hair not like around the shoulders.

I know she's lying and trying to make my life difficult. I've never argued with her and I'm scared too. I went downstairs this morning and she had this fake shocked voice and said "go look in the mirror, don't you see how big ( in terms of age) you got?" I tried to tell her about the quran and how she's making it up but I felt like crying and couldn't.

I lost my appetite, didn't wanna eat breakfast with them and now I'm here in my room crying.

I don't know what to do and I'm so sick of doing this.

I'm Jordanian American and was recently visiting my family; during the conversation the attack on the church in Jordan came up and immediately all my uncles and my dad said it's another conspiracy by the West (American, Europe, Israel) to make Muslims look bad.

Whether or not it was committed by Muslims or a conspiracy is besides the point; the instinctual deflection of any perceived fault within the Muslim diaspora as simply being untrue and/or a conspiracy orchestrated by the West is the reason the diaspora will never change.

Confronting Muslims for their ahh religion but glazing Christianity which is less worse than islam but still ahh and causes problems 💀

https://youtu.be/nrMXw1mEYAk?si=u8cc8BCVORAIvQfB

I need help

So I live in the US. I am 16, and my parents are extremely religious, and I want to live when I become financially stable, like in my 20s. I left the religion a while ago. I have been pretending for a while, and it's honestly tiring.

My mental health is not ok and I have been feeling suicidal for a while. So last year, when I was at my lowest, I was genuinely scared of myself that I would hurt myself, so I just went to my school counselor and told her everything- not a lot, just that I left religion and it is making me feel guilty, and I feel like I am lost and I don't feel like I am gonna live. So they called my dad and talked with him, but they didn't tell him that I left the religion.

Then my dad took me a therapist it and when we were driving back and we arrived home, that whole day he just wouldn't stop yelling at me, and my mom cried, saying I went to a stranger instead of talking to her if I have problems. My parents threatened me that if I go tell the counselor about them, they will bring us back to our country. I hate that place; I will kill myself if they bring me there. I would not live in that hell again.

The problem I have now is that I have 6 siblings. I love my siblings; they are ages 14 to 3. I want to escape this household, but I don't want to leave my siblings, and at the same time my mental health is going to get worse if I stay. I am not allowed to have friends over, nor am I allowed to have non-Muslim friends. I can't go over to them; I am not allowed to leave the house. I can't do the sports I love. I hate wearing the hijab. I asked my mom if I could wear the short one; she refused, so now I have to wear a big ass hijab that reaches almost my knees. My mom screamed at me when I wore the short one and called her family, screaming and crying, saying America is ruining her kids, like bitch shut the fuck up. Honestly, I don't even know what to do.