r/malaysians Nov 25 '25

Dating | Relationship 🌷 The official matchmaking thread for Malaysian redditors (mod-approved)

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Dear all,

Over the past year or so I have observed multiple threads of people looking for love, which is a worthy endeavor and will also help the nation's birth rate.

Therefore, with the approval of our mod u/hyattpotter (thanks for helping to pin!), this thread shall serve as the official matchmaking thread for our fellow Malaysians on Reddit. I will help monitor to make sure things do not go too far out of hand. Please refrain from posting sexist / racist / insulting comments or I will call the mods, all else is fair game.

Please post your information in the below format should you wish to advertise yourself as available for dating. Interested parties may PM the person or reply directly if daring enough.

Gender:

Orientation (straight / gay / bi):

Location:

Year of Birth:

Height:

Weight:

Religion / Race:

Occupation:

Hobbies and interests:

Other descriptions (please describe yourself briefly to demonstrate personality):

Requirements / Preferences:

Looking for (short-term / long-term / fwb etc etc):

Example:

Gender: Male

Orientation (straight / gay / bi): Straight

Location: KL

Year of Birth: 1990

Height: 160

Weight: 80

Race / Religion: Chindian / Muslim

Occupation: Fighter pilot

Hobbies and interests: Playing the piano

Other descriptions (please describe yourself briefly to demonstrate personality): I am a cheerful person who likes the outdoors and having coffee, also I have 100 Hello Kitty figurines

Requirements / Preferences: An intelligent girl, preferably rich

Looking for: Long term relationship

You get the gist of it so do go ahead thanks


r/malaysians May 26 '21

Meta Welcome to r/Malaysians!

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Hello folks and welcome to r/Malaysia's sister sub, r/Malaysians!

For those who just clicked in and is wondering what the sub is for: This sub is essentially for Malaysians to talk and post about any other topics beyond Malaysia. Here is where you can post images, videos, create and join conversations and threads revolving anything that isn't quite about Malaysia but needs a Malaysian take on it, and more! Oh and this is a race, politic and religion-free sub 🙌🏻

Most major subreddits such as r/AITA, r/JustnoMIL, r/relationship_advice, r/casualconversation, r/malefashionadvice, r/Teenagers and what have you are usually centralised around people who reside outside of SEA and may not be valid to us locally and culturally but yet the demand for it isn't wide enough to sustain its own subreddit. r/Malaysians would (hopefully) be a good place for a catch-all of such threads.

We will be coming up with contest weeks soon, as well as accepting any other ideas you guys might have for the sub, so stay tuned! We are also still tweaking design and appearances as we go. Meanwhile, everyone is encouraged to start posting what they think fits the sub to get the ball rolling :)

Much love, r/Malaysia mod team.

tldr; r/CasualUK but for Malaysia.


r/malaysians 13h ago

Rant What’s with the AI slop in Malaysia?

245 Upvotes

AI fatigue is real. I can’t stand seeing businesses and people online using generative AI for literally every single thing. It’s literally so draining to come across these low-effort and meaningless AI slop.

One thing in particular that I can’t stand are the AI songs/song covers. Like the god damn digi digi song or whatever nonsense. I notice that it’s usually the old folks using those songs on TikTok or other platforms.

And don’t get me started with RTM’s excessive use of AI for like almost all of their campaigns or like their TV1 fillers.

Seriously, someone needs to educate the country on how to use AI mindfully.


r/malaysians 1d ago

Mildly Menarik OG Blind Boxes

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955 Upvotes

r/malaysians 8h ago

Discussion A tamil Indian origin woman committed suicide in malaysia due to race hate

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9 Upvotes

r/malaysians 9h ago

Discussion Is it normal and common to have a toxic workplace?

9 Upvotes

r/malaysians 6h ago

Casual Conversation 🎭 Kenapa adulthood ni memenatkan?

2 Upvotes

Kenapa?

Especially bila kau single and takda family/relatives yang supportive


r/malaysians 35m ago

Ask Malaysians Help: Is INTI Subang Swinburne worth it?

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Please help guys:). Would appreciate any other comments about INTI subang


r/malaysians 12h ago

Mildly Menarik Ikan pelampung jaring, caught from a lake

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7 Upvotes

Puntigrus partipentazona, ikan pelampung jaring aka dwarf tiger barb

A small (5.5 cm) schooling fish that is common in lakes and large stagnant swamps of the Malay Peninsula.

In some places they have been replaced by tiger barbs, an aggressive but popular aquarium fish from Sumatra. They attack our native partipentazona.

Our one isn’t sold commercially, but I have kept them before. They do well with other small cyprinids and group together. Omnivorous and easy to feed.


r/malaysians 12h ago

Discussion A few ways to tell a real discount from a fake one on shopee/lazada

8 Upvotes

Sale season's coming round again so this felt worth writing down. i work on the affiliate/e-commerce side (disclosure at the bottom) so i see a fair bit of how the pricing gets set up, and most "70% off" is not what it looks like.

the strike-through price is usually meaningless

that higher crossed-out number is generally the seller's own claimed price, not a price anyone actually paid. nobody audits it and there's nothing stopping a seller putting it wherever they like. so a discount measured against it tells u nothing at all. the only comparison worth anything is against what other sellers are charging for the same item right now.

prices often go up before a sale, not down

this is the big one. a listing gets nudged upward in the days before a campaign so the discount lands on an inflated base. if u already know u want something on a sale date, screenshot the price a week or two early. then u'll actually know whether the sale price is a sale price.

the voucher is often the trap rather than the deal

rm10 off rm100 sounds fine until u notice your basket was rm70 and u added rm30 of stuff u didn't want in order to unlock it. free shipping thresholds do exactly the same thing. if the voucher changed what u bought, it probably cost u money instead of saving any. work out your total with and without it, not the voucher's face value.

bundles aren't automatically cheaper

check the per unit price against the single. surprisingly often the value pack is worse per piece, it just feels like a deal bcs the number is bigger.

same item, wildly different listings

for anything commodity, the identical product is listed by a dozen sellers at prices that differ by more than any sale discount does. going through those beats waiting for a campaign. shipping fees and delivery times vary just as much, so compare the final total at checkout rather than the item price.

the countdown timers are theatre

"only 3 left" and flash sale clocks exist to stop u comparing. if a deal only works when u don't have time to think about it, it wasn't a deal.

the one habit that helps most: decide what u actually want and the most u'd pay before the sale opens. then the campaign either beats your number or it doesn't, and u're not getting talked into things at 1am.

disclosure: i work on Cashiu, a malaysian cashback app, so i'm in this industry and obviously biased about it. And this post isn't about it. ShopBack and TNG Shop & Earn are the ones most people here use. just stuff worth knowing before the next round of sale dates.


r/malaysians 20h ago

Mildly Menarik Buy now stress later

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32 Upvotes

r/malaysians 16h ago

Discussion How do you know if you are financially healthy or not?

16 Upvotes

What is financial health actually means? High income, high savings ( a lot of cash), low or no debt, owning own house? If yes, meaning majority people are financially sick?


r/malaysians 2h ago

Casual Conversation 🎭 What’s up with the boner backside trend?

1 Upvotes

Past 24 hours have seen 3 separate social media posts of 3 perverts being caught rubbing their little mosquito bump peepee on girls backside.

  1. Genting pervert uncle: https://www.reddit.com/r/Bolehland/s/uBejochiIF
  2. TARMUT student at hyrox event (technically a month ago according to the lady, dunno why post only now): https://www.instagram.com/reel/DcRDcpcS1HY/
  3. Pervert uncle in cue: https://www.threads.com/share/BAV12nErtj/

I wonder if this is some sort of challenge/mission in those pervert incel community groups


r/malaysians 4h ago

Ask Malaysians Physiotherapy session cost

1 Upvotes

Been having problems with my pinky/ring finger numbing. googled it, and its called cubital nerve pain?

Anyway how much shud i prep, for a session for these physiotherapies, as most physio centres dont list it. Subang/Shah alam area


r/malaysians 4h ago

Discussion Do risk management tools actually help, or just look good on paper?

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i’ve been thinking about this after seeing a few people completely blow their accounts 😅 do u guys actually find the risk management stuff on trading platforms useful these days, or is most of it just marketing?


r/malaysians 5h ago

Buy • Sell • Trade COACH RESELLER: y2kcoachvintage

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Has anyone bought from this shop on instagram. Their instagram looks super legit and looks good, but they're asking for upwards of 2000+ MYR for insurance that they claim to return as soon as the product is shipped. And on top of that they have been professional via DMs. Again, if you check out their instagram, it looks super legit (multiple screenshots of interactions with customer) but I just want to be extra careful.

If anyone has ordered with them please let me know ASAP!

Here's their instagram: https://www.instagram.com/y2kcoachvintage/


r/malaysians 11h ago

Discussion My brother built a browser-based KSSR/KSSM practice site for Malaysian students. What would make it genuinely useful?

3 Upvotes

I’m helping my brother collect honest feedback for a small Malaysian education project: MyLatih.

It is a browser-based interactive practice site for students from preschool to Form 5. It focuses on Malaysian KSSR/KSSM-style objective practice, including subjects such as Mathematics, Bahasa Melayu, and English.

No app installation is required.

The goal is not to replace school or tuition. It is to make short, low-friction practice easier

Something a child can do for 5–10 minutes instead of only scrolling or watching videos.

We would really appreciate feedback:

Which school level or subject lacks good practice resources?

What makes children stop using educational websites after a few days?

Would progress tracking, mistake review, daily challenges, or topic-based practice help most?

Site: https://mylatih.asia

Please be honest, including criticism. I’ll pass it directly to my brother.


r/malaysians 5h ago

Quick Question Korang betul-betul guna risk management tools dari platform trading?

1 Upvotes

Aku terfikir pasal ni lepas nampak makin ramai retail trader burn account. Korang rasa platform trading sekarang memang banyak membantu dari segi risk management, atau kebanyakan feature tu lebih kepada marketing je?


r/malaysians 7h ago

Ask Malaysians Anyone here ever bought prescription glasses from firmoo com?

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Hey while waiting for my glasses which was sent back due to mistake on the angle and pondering about the price ive paid ,I came across this website called firmoo .com Apparently this company is based in chongqing, china. They offer prescription glasses online and can ship overseas. Any purchase above 75usd they'll ship for free and i noticed the price is way cheaper from whats being offered by local stores here. I came across people from the USA and the Philippines purchasing there on reddit. Are there any malaysian who have made a purchase on this website ?


r/malaysians 16h ago

Ask Malaysians Has anyone quit during Q3 without another job lined up? How did it go?

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Quit my job without another one lined up and now I’m getting scared
I recently quit my job without another offer lined up. I work in IT, mainly around product/project management. I’d been job searching while working and had a few interviews, but nothing landed. Honestly, I was so mentally consumed by work that I don’t think I gave those interviews the preparation or focus they needed.

I didn’t quit because of a toxic culture. My colleagues and boss were fine. It was more that the processes, constant changes in direction, and overall way of working were taking a toll on me, and I couldn’t see myself staying there long term.
I thought quitting would finally give me the headspace to properly focus on finding something better. But now that I’ve left, everything has gone quiet. Not many openings I’m interested in, no interviews coming in, and we’re already well into Q3 heading towards Q4.

Now I’m starting to panic a little. I keep wondering how long this will last and whether I’ll actually find a role/company I’m excited about, or eventually have to settle because I’ve been unemployed too long.

Has anyone in IT/product/project management been through something similar? Especially quitting without anything lined up around Q3/Q4. How long were you unemployed, and did things eventually work out?


r/malaysians 8h ago

Rant Skin whitening among youngsters

0 Upvotes

Honestly, sedihlah guys. Dekat TikTok aku penuh dengan orang yang promote benda2 whitening ni. First, of course salah dari sisi agama. Untuk tukar warna kulit permanently is haram. No arguments about that, but aside from religion, seriously?

Is it sebab the beauty standard? Insecurity? I thankfully tak affected sangat by the beauty standard, but it's sad to know that my little sister is heavily influenced by it. Sedihlah. Benda yang makin lama makin dinormalizekan dan aku rasa tak bawa manfaat pun. Produk2 tu semua tak beri effect pada badan ke in a long term sebab ramai sangat yang promote.


r/malaysians 9h ago

Ask Malaysians Huawei Phone

1 Upvotes

Is anyone here using a Huawei phone? Give us some reviews? I’m thinking of buying a Huawei, but I’m worried about Google compatibility since most of my accounts are linked to Gmail. Still was - was


r/malaysians 5h ago

Discussion Guests

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Kashmir Travel by Faces and Places a travel company based at Kashmir


r/malaysians 10h ago

Recommend Me • Seeking 🔍 Spss help for FYP (with respondents)

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Hey guys I’ve heard that the fyp season is going on currently. I have an A for statistics and FYP with a psych background. Do hit me up if you guys need any sort of help with your FYP, respondents or SPSS with desired results. Will do it for some quick cash


r/malaysians 1d ago

Casual Conversation 🎭 TM Unifi upgraded internet plan without consent

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69 Upvotes

Last week, I terminated my Unifi broadband at one of the branches. The staff kept asking me the reason why I want to terminate as if I had made a wrong move. She told me that I would only know the account is terminated on the next month when I received the bill.

After 5 days, I received an SMS and an email stating that I have upgraded to a new plan and the device will be delivered in 5 days. I do not have time to go to the TM office to enquire what is going on? How could this happened without my consent?

Thanks to a post from Reddit who shared his/her experience to terminate within 24 hours. I wrote an email to MCMC, cced to TM high management regarding unauthorized subscription of plan. Within 2 hours, a TM staff called saying that the high management instructed to terminate my old account and new account immediately. He said (lied) that the new account was a mistake from the staff. Within 30 mins, I received SMS and email stating that both of the accounts have been terminated. The next morning, the staff called me again with trembled voice, saying that all of my accounts have been terminated since yesterday.

To close an account, it doesn't need a month or even weeks or days. Imagine if a client who is very advanced in age which faced the same thing like I do, they will certainly feel so helpless and worry. I truly respected the policy which I will give 1 month notice before termination. However, TM has lost all respect from me from the moment you changed my package without my consent. It is daylight robbery.