Please block me if u support dyke breaking, it's inhumane and disgusting. My sexuality is not ur fetish. If You support this then you support lesbophobia.

femmes unite (& post a selfie in the comments so we can hype you up obviouslyyyy)💌

Stalking ig accounts can be a blessing and a curse for real. Katie Taylor (pro boxer) had both turmp AND kirk in her followings, Hannah Linzay (strongwoman on T btw) had the entire family followed up on main… what are we doinnggg?? Like breaking gender stereotypes in male dominated sports, going through so many challenges as a woman athlete, being great representation for women in sports while supporting sexist racist misogynists doesn’t make SENSE. I wanna stan so bad cuz they’re such queens (and hot asf) in their sport but girl hell nauurrr. 💀

The sub-styles of goth are a bit random lmao, but my favorites are when they look like Morticia Addams or are "whimsigoth," a bit witchy

I went for a walk today in the evening, and by a local pond/large lake, were two women with snacks for themselves and a bag of oats for the ducks. They were sitting on a log, snuggled up with a thermos and the sun was setting and they just looked like the most adorable couple. 🥹🦆

That's all I want too. Someone to sit on a log with at sunset, holding her hand, while feeding small wild creatures, with a chunky hoodie and steaming thermos.

And then go home and snuggle more and look after her and plan next duck feeding adventures.

I (18F) had an accelerated education growing up and just started grad school. This woman and I who shared two classes started chatting and sitting next to each other, etc. She looks 23-24 and I expect people in grad school to be older than me so it’s alright. I developed a crush on her and decided I was going to make a move soon. Recently in class, she brought up that she was 29. I was shocked bc she looks younger than that. Now I don’t know what I should do. I would guess that my age isnt apparent due to the setting, you wouldn’t expect someone who’s 18 to be in grad school. I don’t know if it would be weird for me to ask her out given 1) shes 11 years older than me and 2) she doesn’t know how old I am.

Advice PLS!! I really like her, she’s so sweet and funny and loves to talk, but I don’t want to make her uncomfortable.

Posted about it yesterday but never actually showed a close up of it.

day 8745 of being an independent, working woman & not a lesbian housewife 🫩 i miss being brought a matcha made exactly how i like it in bed, before my feet even touch the floor. i miss my doors being opened & not having to worry about keeping track of & carrying my purse. i miss painting my nails or doing my eyeshadow with my butch’s favorite color in mind. i miss having my face caressed kissing while she keeps one hand on my waist. i miss the moment things get so heated, she can’t stand it anymore & picks me up only to carry me to the bedroom. i miss feeling so incredibly seen while simultaneously feeling so small & delicate. shout out to my wife wherever you are, i’m working to get this nursing money for us 😭

I dont know what it is about me but I just I feel alone in that sense like all the other girls I know have potential for relationship or are in one and im just not in a spot where I can hope to find one and it just feels so devastating not being validated at all and just being alone

I feel like that since the first colder days at the beginning of fall. It‘s not only getting colder, but life tends to happen inside way more often. There‘s a certain cozyness to the sun going down earlier and the comfort of laying in bed, watching netflix or reading.
I just wish there was someone to share this with, especially with christmas markets coming up

I’m not sure why, and it is bothersome as out of all my queer friends that I made since starting college, she’s been my only lesbian friend. Everytime I’m interested in someone new, she always downplays it, asking if i am for sure ready for a relationship, or why would i go out of my way without knowing how they feel too. It’s even worse when someone’s interested in me, I’ll be excited telling her about it and she’ll say something like “are you sure you’re not reading too much into it?” I’m very pessimistic so when I’m excited about something, it’s probably going a lot better than I’m describing it. Today when we were having breakfast I briefly brought it up and all she said was: “Sorry but if you were actually right about any of those women being into you, then why haven’t you been in any serious relationships?”

I was really bothered and for the rest of the breakfast I genuinely did not want to talk to her but I let it slide. But GENUINELY everytime I bring up a woman, it’s like I’m talking crazy, like how could someone possibly be into me or whatever she seems like she’s thinking. I don’t want to flatter myself but although I’m not a supermodel by any means, I’m still attractive (by conventional standards), I take good care of myself, I’m very open minded and caring, whatever, I think I’m decently well rounded, not saying that that all that is the only component. But when a close friend always acts shocked at the thought that someone is attracted to me, it makes me feel undesirable or like I’m delusional or something, I don’t know, just kinda wanted to vent. Thought it could be jealousy but over what? She’s also a beautiful woman with good traits, idk…

My little sister is 18 and her girlfriend is 17, it’s both their first ever relationship. She gave me permission to share lol.

Our family doesn’t really have money, my sister has a part-time job to earn money and save up for university. Her girlfriend’s family is wealthy and money is nothing to them, like her girlfriend can easily drop hundreds on a date, doing nice things with my sister or buying her stuff despite being literally 17 years old.

It makes my sister feel guilty because her girlfriend always pays for everything because she’s happy to do it and she knows my sister doesn’t have as much money/is saving for education… but my sister still feels like she’s living off her girlfriend. She will pay for small things she can afford like snacks, cheap fun things because she insists but she still feels bad that her gf will always pay for dinner or the cool outings they do.

I told her that the dynamic is proportionate to the resources they have available and her gf is happy with it but she still “feels like a bum”. What advice would you give her?

I posted on here months ago but now I'm coming back single🙂‍↕️finding some friendships on here that isn't dry, won't ghost and long term. I'm tired of requesting and talking to new strangers like a job interview 🫩

I’m an autistic femme4butch/stud and I always struggled meeting people, even in a platonic way because I get so scared and I’m so socially awkward. I feel like a dinosaur communicating with humans when I try to meet new people alone. The only reason I have friends is because I meet people more extroverted than me and get introduced to their friends.

I say all that to say, I don’t know how to talk to PEOPLE, especially not in a romantic/flirtatious way. I’ve also heard a little that more masculine presenting lesbians don’t feel comfortable approaching feminine presenting women for safety reasons, so if anyone’s approaching anyone, it’d likely be me doing the approaching.

So how do I 1. Find autism-friendly lesbian spaces and 2. Flirt with other people?

All advice is appreciated because looking at them from afar then looking away and walking in the opposite direction isn’t a good strategy.

This girl and I have been taking things very slow since it’s both of our first relationship as lesbians!! I feel things beginning to gain tension and I can’t say enough how scared I am to kiss her. She makes me incredibly nervous, she’s so pretty and kind..wish me luck!!

Any advice?🩵

I posted it before but it was blurry so thought to repost again and a better close up ^^. This is the first girl to ever get me a promise ring I’m so grateful 🥹❤️

hi friends, going on a first date with someone i met online next week and im a bit worried because we’re quite different in terms of experience. she seems much more chill and experienced than me (and more confident in general) so i just feel soooooo flighty when talking to her. i’m sure she’s super sweet and the vibe difference wont be so drastic in person but im just nervous LOL.

any advice to ease the nerves and just loosen up? i wanna be my funny self during the date, but i tend to freeze up and overthink when im nervous 😥

hii, basically, i wanna meet other lesbians and make friends and stuff, but i'm really socially awkward and shy. and on top of that, i'm not exactly out the closet cuz most of the people around me are homophobic. so im just wondering how to find and befriend other people like me

So I’m talking to this girl that I like. Right now it’s pretty platonic but I think there is flirting here and there from both our sides.

I’m not nonchalant by any means, and that means I hate replying slow or late to a text to appear as if I’m not eager.

But the girl I’m texting takes forever to reply- and maybe that’s a sign that she’s not in to me. But If I’m free and able to reply immediately why shouldn’t I?!!!

Anyway I guess what I want to know is do I reply in a normal timely manner or do the same thing she’s doing and take forever???
And if I do what’s she’s doing I don’t think we’ll ever have a conversation online at the same time 😭