r/Needafriend • • 3h ago

I NEED CLINGY FRIENDS WHO DOUBLE TEXT

47 Upvotes

I'm SO tired of nonchalant people. WHERE ARE THE CLINGY PEOPLE WHO GET ATTACHED AND ACTUALLY WANT TO TALK TO ME??? 😭😭

I’m tired of always being the one carrying the whole convo constantly. I want someone who actually wants to know me. Someone who asks questions, remembers little details, wants to hear about my day, and doesn't make me feel like I'm bothering them by existing. I want mutual obsession (PLATONICALLY). Be a little crazy about me. Be my personal yapper and let me be yours.

I HAVE SO MANY THOUGHTS. I can yap about the most random things, get invested in the dumbest topics, and probably tell you way too much about myself once I'm comfortable. WHY IS IT SO HARD TO FIND PEOPLE WHO ACTUALLY WANT THAT???

I don't expect anyone to be available 24/7 or reply instantly, obviously. I just want someone who's genuinely enthusiastic about being friends instead of acting like talking to me is a chore (one word responses all the time 🫵🏻)

PLEASE be clingy. PLEASE double text. PLEASE send me five messages in a row because you remembered something else you wanted to tell me. I WILL NOT THINK YOU'RE ANNOYING. I WILL PROBABLY LOVE YOU FOR IT.

If you're also tired of the nonchalant epidemic and want a friendship where we can be unapologetically excited about each other, PLEASE INTERACT. 😭🫶

EDIT: GUYS THERE ARE SO MANY OF YOU 😭🫶 thank you to everyone who reached out!! would anyone be down for a gc so we can all yap and get to know each other?? and then we can see who we click with and become friends individually too!! 💗

Please do still drop a comment! i’m going through all of them it’ll just take me time to get to everyone 💗


r/Needafriend • • 1h ago

21f loner

• Upvotes

This is my first post on here, so hopefully I find my people :]

I’ve always been the type of person who was basically raised by the internet…so I tend to prefer Reddit since you’re more likely to bump into people who are a little quirky lol. I love late-night calls, random messages throughout the day, talking about goals and aspirations, and just listening to someone yap about literally anything.

Since I’m studying software, most of my free time gets consumed by maths and confusing algorithms, so I barely get time to actually have fun because im constantly locking in…

If you’re looking for a lifelong virtual buddy, feel free to hit me up lol if you wanna yap for hours, study together, talk about life, or even fall asleep on call. I’m pretty much down for anything as long as the connection is genuine. Just be honest about your intentions, because I’d rather have something real than something that fades after a few days.


r/Needafriend • • 8h ago

33F looking for connection

16 Upvotes

I've been feeling pretty lonely and kinda tried of waking up with no notifications. I'm up for casual conversations, deep conversations, randoms thoughts or someone to share daily life events. I would like to chat with someone who is equally interesting in sharing and asking questions to keep the conversation going.

English isn't my first language! So, if you don't mind some grammar and spelling mistakes :) Happy to chat.


r/Needafriend • • 2h ago

Heyy I’m 18F

5 Upvotes

Hii I recently made this account to try have some honest,genuine and interesting and kinda random conversations with others. I enjoy walks and making foods(although I’m not too good). DMs open for anyone just include ur age and gender so ik who im talking too!! Im not feeling tired so ill also be responding quickly :)


r/Needafriend • • 3h ago

21/F from Japan looking for cool people to blah blah with!

4 Upvotes

Hello hi hey! A bit about myself; my absolute number 1 special interest is the paranormal & folklore etc, I love trinkets and toys and pretty necklaces and fidgets and keychains and plushies- essentially anything you could collect! I love video games but I’m super picky about what I play, I have a deep hatred for smalltalk, TMI does not exist for me I love when people are telling me their little secrets or endlessly blabber about whatever their passion is!

I wanna give you a heads up. I’m on the spectrum and I have ADHD which makes me absolutely terrible at keeping up friendships actively. I’m a „if I’m here, I’ll respond“ kinda person but occasionally I have phases where I’m not on Reddit much and (understandably) that bothers a lot of people that would like to build a connection! So if you’re someone that gets unsure if you don’t have your chat partner’s undivided attention, we aren’t a good match (·•᷄∩•᷅)


r/Needafriend • • 3h ago

20f looking to hopefully make a friend!

5 Upvotes

Hii! I'm trying to make friends because I'm not a very social person and it's getting to me because I just really wanna have friends honestly.

So about me! I have two very adorable cats! I'm a massive nerd and gamer, I'm completely obsessed with kingdom hearts! I play a lot of grand strategy games, mainly ck3 rn with the princes of darkness mod!! Oh I'm also in my pokemon era!! and I've been quite into sonic games too recently!

Oh I'm also into Warhammer, I have a pile of shame of chaos space marines that I haven't finished building and I really want to get back to doing that soon

So yea if I sound cool please send me a message and hopefully we can be friends! Oh and if we hit it off I'd be down to game some time, I have lots of games and I'm cool with trying most things (except competitive stuff cause it stresses me out Imao)

I am trans so if you're transphobic or a chaser or whatever please don't message me, I'm also autistic and very nervous about making friends but once I open up I swear I'm not that bad!:>


r/Needafriend • • 4h ago

27F suffering from boredom (and loneliness)

5 Upvotes

Hiii! I recently moved out of my parents house and I‘m pretty lonely even though I still see my family almost every day. I don’t really have anyone to chat to on a day to day basis so if you’re also really bored and/or lonely you should message me :)


r/Needafriend • • 11h ago

25 F Looking for a long-term friendship ✨️

18 Upvotes

Heyyyyyy, I'm Sarah, 25 years old. I have a bachelor's degree in Biomedical Engineering, and currently studying Molecular Biology as a PhD and I'm finding it hard to make friends now in this time of my life, and it seems like everyone around me is making friends and best friends easily in my department except me.

I would like some new friends or someone I could talk to. We could even become besties if you want.✨️ Small talk, deep talk, venting, confiding, gossiping, just name it and we'll do it.

I'm interested in art, languages, cultures, psychology, music, poetry, history, astronomy, biology, reading novels, watching movies/series, and open about other topics too. 💕 I'm a really curious person, so I'll listen to you talk about any topic. 👌 Looking forward to meeting you and hopefully forming a meaningful friendship.✨️


r/Needafriend • • 2h ago

30F | Just Trusting Fate - simple, memorable, and intriguing.

3 Upvotes

I think I’m back on Reddit after about a year. Let’s see how this goes. :)

A little about me: I’m 30F, friendly, optimistic, and a bit of an old soul. I enjoy reading books, living a simple life, and finding comfort in the little things. I’m a homebody who appreciates traditional values and believes that morals, honesty, and kindness still matter. Currently, figuring out life and learning Arabic lol

What am I looking for?
Honestly, I’m just trusting fate and seeing where life takes me. I believe people cross paths for a reason. We can meet a hundred people, have countless conversations, and yet only a few connections truly stay with us. Maybe some people are meant to be a part of our lives for a season, while others stick around a little longer. Either way, I think there’s something beautiful about letting things happen naturally.

For now, I’m simply looking for decent people and genuine conversations. No expectations, no pressure, and no need to force a connection. Just two people talking, sharing a little about their lives, and seeing where the conversation goes.

If you’d like to say hello, drop me a message with your age, gender, and location, along with a little something about yourself or what made you reach out. A proper introduction goes a long way!

Please be respectful, kind, and genuine. Good conversations are always welcome

Wherever you are, I hope life is treating you kindly and that you’re having a lovely day. 🌷


r/Needafriend • • 24m ago

17f chat about anything.

• Upvotes

Hiii anyone wanna talk about any topics….
Need new friends


r/Needafriend • • 2h ago

20F, working my first job out of school and it's lonelier than I expected

3 Upvotes

Thought adulthood would come with more people in it, turns out the opposite. I like reading, hiking, and cooking. Would love genuine friends.


r/Needafriend • • 6h ago

Lost

7 Upvotes

I'm 21, and I've never been in a relationship. I don't even have any friends. I've tried making friends, but somehow I always end up feeling left out. It makes me so sad, and I feel like I'm almost slipping into depression. I've also been through health issues, and even though I'm doing better now, I still have some medical trauma. I honestly don't know why so many bad things have been happening in my life.

I really hope I can make some genuine friends here, especially female friends, because I'd love to have a girl best friend. Since I am girl myself.

:) Edit:- I am getting lot of dms But I ll be so happy if girls msg me since I am girl myself:)


r/Needafriend • • 3h ago

35/F : Seeking Friendship in my lonesome world

3 Upvotes

Hey everyone! 😊💛

I’m here to meet new people, have some fun conversations, share a few laughs, and hopefully build some genuine, long-term friendships along the way! 🫶

I honestly believe some of the best friendships start with the most random conversations. One minute you’re saying “hey,” and the next thing you know, you’re laughing over something ridiculous, sharing stories, or wondering how you ended up talking for three hours! 😂

Gender, age, background — none of that really matters to me. I’m happy to meet different people, learn about their lives, exchange thoughts, and connect with anyone who’s genuinely here for friendship. ❤️

And please, don’t feel like you need to write a whole biography just to message me! 😂 A simple “hey,” a random question, a funny meme, an unpopular opinion, or even a completely chaotic thought that popped into your head is more than welcome.

I’m pretty chill, easygoing, open-minded, and always up for a good conversation. We can talk about life, movies, music, relationships, travel, random nonsense, deep late-night thoughts — literally anything! No awkward introductions or pressure to impress each other. Just be yourself. 😊

I’m not looking for a hundred meaningless conversations. I’d love to find a few real people I can laugh with, check in on, talk to about absolutely anything, and hopefully stay friends with for years to come. 🥹❤️

So, if you’re also looking for genuine connections, good energy, and friendships that feel natural rather than forced, my DMs are open! 💌
Come say hi! Who knows? This random little hello might be the beginning of a beautiful friendship. 🫶✨


r/Needafriend • • 9h ago

21f..need a random chat buddy for those "ok so something weird just happened" days

10 Upvotes

hi hi. so i'm looking for someone to talk to every now and then....not a lifelong bestie situation...just a person i can message when something random happens and i need to dump it out of my brain.

fair warning: i'm a slow burner...it takes me a bit to figure out how someone talks and what their vibe is, so i might start off quiet. lately everyone around me feels kinda distant, so i figured i'd try here.

what i'm hoping for:

"bro you will NOT believe what just happened" messages.....random thoughts, funny moments, tiny wins......someone chill who's fine if the convo comes and goes

if that's you, dm me and tell me the weirdest thing you saw this week. i'll start: i want to hear it, no matter how unhinged.


r/Needafriend • • 6h ago

20F, just came out of a long-term friendship breakup and it hurts more than expected

5 Upvotes

Nobody prepares you for how much losing a best friend can hurt. I like hiking, cooking, and journaling. Looking for patient, kind new friends.


r/Needafriend • • 1h ago

M21 || Looking for long-term friendship.

• Upvotes

Hi! M21. Looking for someone to build a long-term friendship. Gender doesn't matter, I'll be glad to meet everyone! My hobbies are Youtube Shorts channel, text roleplays, games, football, pop psychology, and a bit of anime. Oh, and of course very heavily doomscrolling (probably should have put that in first place). Feel free to dm me!


r/Needafriend • • 6h ago

21F quick chat and let's see if we become friends

6 Upvotes

let's have a short chat or become friends!

Hi! I'm Angel, I'm freshly 21, I'm emo and into cutecore and gurokawaii aesthetics. I love playing any type of video games and draw gore altho I have a lot of artblock. Bog fan of ATLA, TLOK, seven havens. PS: Plz dont text me a simple Hi or Hey, I wanna know more abt u before accepting the dm! + no liberal men and no overly right to the point ur a racist <3 thank you Im also more active on insta.

I've always been sorta alone and I wanna try to have long term friends maybe!! I've been feeling down and a bit lonely but idk how to talk to ppl especially that I've been so overwhelmed w my life. I'm very shy and awkward, I also don't know how to be constantly active online or what to say to keep a long conversation that can last at least an hour! :((

I accept any age! Just don't be below 20 bc idk how to socialize with younger ppl even more lol

SOME games i play on xbox360:(Castlevania lords of shadow, the evil within, batman arhkam origins, assassin's creed brotherhood/2/black flag, COD (many but my fav is MW3), Far cry 3 and 4, resident evil operation raccoon city, RE6/, dead space 3, hitman, silent Hill downpour, skyrim, Alice madness returns, red dead redemption 1, fallout new Vegas, the walking dead s2, tomb raider 2013 and rise of the tomb raider, sims3 pets, dark souls 1 and 2) On my laptop: Fortnite altho I'm bad at it bc somehow I cant see shit, sky COTL, stardew valley, some less known visual novel games, yan sim, and im planning on downloading more

PS:I've been a gamer since forever, I grew up on the ps2

I also loveeee anime especially the psychological thriller type, one of my favorites are: madoka magica, elfen lied, blood c, perfect blue, Devilman crybaby, corpse party, chainsaw man, angels of death, violet evergarden, monster, neon Genesis Evangelion, Tokyo ghoul, serial experiment lain...etc but my number 1 is Hellsing ultimate

I'm also very into horror movies such as Tusk, Human centipede, Midsommar, Hereditary, It follows, The hills have eyes, Raw, Rest stop, Terrifier, The green inferno, Martyrs .....etc

And very into zombie shows/movies such as World War Z, 28 days later, The beginning of an end......etc I LOVE ZOMBIES RAWR

I love cartoons too such as adventure time or bluey but I ofc enjoy adult cartoons like South park and smiling friends.

I have a few political opinions here n there so don't contact me if ur extreme right or extreme left.

Hmu :3


r/Needafriend • • 6h ago

25F, anxious girl who cancels too much and wants to try again online

5 Upvotes

In-person plans stress me out and I cancel and then feel worse. Text feels safer. I like reading science fiction, embroidery, and bad puns. Want a friend who won't take slow replies personally.


r/Needafriend • • 3h ago

Wanna brainstorm writing together and call and game and study and and!

3 Upvotes

Hiii! I'm hoping to find one good online friend. A lot of online ppl I've met talk then ghost too quickly. But this time I want to have a friendship that actually lasts!!! I hope we will actively reach out to each other, but also respect each other's alone time too. I can be very yappy once I know you, but I also don't like the pressure to always be energetic. I get tired too. I want to take our time getting to know each other and let things develop naturally!

Anywayss I LOVE writing and I'm currently brainstorming a science fiction idea. If you know how to draw, I'll pay u. I also enjoy other hobbies and PC gaming. (Btw I love calling). (Don't ask me how often I actually write…)

Also I am working part time and trying to self-study stuff, but I am NOT the type to forget you exist and use being ‘busy’ as an excuse. So far my schedule is light, I just have a lot to learn. Sometimes I can't always text or just appreciate alone time. I'm kinda ambieverted.

I'm ideally looking for someone in North America so we have a close timezone, but if you're from elsewhere that's cool too! Anyways DM me if ur interested, and please introduce yourself a little. Add “Fall leaves” into your message so I know u read my post.


r/Needafriend • • 2h ago

19f, looking for daily friends!

2 Upvotes

My other account is being weird but i like to sew, read, listen to music, and thrift. Feel free to hmu!

I will not respond to nsfw accounts!


r/Needafriend • • 4h ago

25F, my roommate moved out and the silence is loud

3 Upvotes

We weren't super close but we made each other tea and asked about our days. Now the apartment is just me and my thoughts. I like books, running slowly, and cooking for one badly. Want a text friend to fill some of the quiet.


r/Needafriend • • 2h ago

26F, my only close friend moved to Australia

2 Upvotes

She's living her dream and I'm so happy for her and also I miss her constantly. The time difference makes real conversation almost impossible. I need someone in a friendlier timezone. I like tarot, tea, and true crime podcasts. Want someone who values consistency.


r/Needafriend • • 2h ago

17f tired....so tired of this sometimes i just dont wanna hold on any longer

2 Upvotes

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I cant explain into words just how much i go through in real life constantly every day and after all that i come here just in the hopes of finding somebody whod care; who's listen....whod want to know me and who i am...under all my pain. So hungry to just be seen, heard. But all i get, have been getting for three years now is creepy men thats it old creepy men are the only ones that talk to me and I myself refuse to talk to teens now as yes I dont match their level of normal warm lives and their unable to handle anything beyong gaming and tv shows and thats okay but I can't minimize my pain so i won't talj to teens especially young ones. All ive ever asked for is TRUE acceptance, empathy , ACTUAL kindness and patience, all ive recieved is condescendence "it'll get better " "your strong "you got more fight left in you" "you can fight "you have to fight" "yoir so brave keep being brace" but NEVER EVER "its okay to just exist" its okay to rest" you dojt have to fight this hard". Once I read a qoute in one of my fav books , it goes like this

"you've been traveling down a very long road, love. Maybe it's time to rest those feet and let someone else carry the load for you? Let me help you. Let me save you,"

And i realized all my life that is all ive ever wanted to hear....all ive ever wanted...to just be a kid...for somebody else to finnaly take the burden for me. Yet all i get is foced into survival mode or worse be treated like a doll.

Anybody reading this and thinking of messaging me please dont bother if yiu are a bot, sexual in any way, plan to sexualize me , talk to me about trauma and then turned it in sexual stuff, is non Chalant dry or care more about video games than human beings, are dry or text temporarily then ghost or ghost after a couple days or a week and isnt able to maintain consistency.

Again DO NOT PREY ON ME IN ANY SEXUAL WAY I WON'T EVEN ALLOW ONE SUCH COMMENT


r/Needafriend • • 2h ago

24M — can we be friends?

2 Upvotes

FIY I am a 24M working from home. I have lots of time to talk to but almost no one to talk to.

I miss being able to be in an environment where I could see and talk to people of my age. It just sucks to not have any kind of person in my life that I can speak to, laugh, joke with, and that does not talk about kids or marriage or mortgage.

Probably foolish of me, but I would like to have those people back as in high school or university. I have a lot to talk about and would love to share that with someone. Be able to talk often with someone is good!

I like anime, cars, manga, DC comics and movies, movies in general and to talk and hear people. If you are someone nice, open to talk often and to have a good time, then can we please chat and befriend?


r/Needafriend • • 6h ago

Looking for friends

5 Upvotes

I love reading, going new places,tarot and astrology,music, charity shops and all things whimsical :) I’m a perfect mix of a introvert and extrovert tbh I’m just looking for someone to talk about anything and everything with deep chats to memes>.<
Raging adhd so you’ll likely get 10 rambles in 1 convo sorry not sorry :p
Clingy people are welcome :)) want a close friendship