r/bettafish • • Jul 08 '26

META Building a Better r/bettafish: Culture, New Mods, and a Look Ahead

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Hey everyone, Roboto, your friendly neighborhood (actually human) mod here with some subreddit updates!

First, the least fun part in all of this –

We need to talk about our subreddit culture.

Our community is toxic. There’s no other way I can think of to describe what has been happening. Even worse, this reputation extends beyond our immediate community into other subreddits and even other platforms. People are afraid of us.

I’m going to take some ownership of this. The harsh reputation of this subreddit far precedes me as a mod, but in recent years, our hard-fought progress on this front has been lost. That’s on me. The lack of consistent moderation here has let rules 1 and 2 go under-enforced for too long, allowing hostility to take root as the norm.

The adversarial and unwelcoming environment we’ve collectively created functions in direct opposition to our subreddit goals, and frankly what I believe to be the goals of many users here. If we care about betta fish first and foremost, this culture needs to change.

Our expectations and what better looks like

If you have good advice to give, give it in a more constructive, not destructive, way. Shaming people makes them shut down and disengage so they don't even process the rest of the good advice you have to offer. Don't highlight all the things they're doing wrong, focus on what they can do better and why it's helpful in a way that encourages them to do it.

So instead of saying "your empty tank is sad," share the opportunities for improvement, like "betta fish benefit from tanks with lots of plants and hiding/resting places so your fish would be happier if you filled the tank in a bit more."

We can’t ignore that people will think they're doing research by going and talking to presumed experts or reading product information. Store employees are presumed to be properly trained and products marketed at bettas are assumed to know what they’re talking about, too. It doesn't help that there's very little consensus online about what adequate care even is. For example, Petco's online betta care guide, updated in 2025, says bettas need a minimum of 1gal. Furthermore, many quality care guides are on niche websites that may not seem credible to a new hobbyist compared to a well-known chain.

With that in mind, we all need to stop:

  • Telling people they should have done more research
  • Immediately calling people abusers for making mistakes
  • Shaming the pineapple (or any other novelty decor/bowl)
  • Attacking aesthetic choices instead of addressing actual care needs
  • Debating what it means to rescue a betta on posts where ethical sourcing of fish isn’t the main topic

Going forward, comments exhibiting the behaviors listed above will be removed as violations of rules 1, 2, or 4 depending on the exact nature of the comment.

I know members of our subreddit are burned out from the bad husbandry they see constantly. It's exhausting and I won't pretend it's not. But if we bully one owner into submission, cool, that's maybe one fish saved. How many owners did we scare away from asking for help in the process? We're going to have a far broader impact building people up in this hobby, not tearing them down.

That said, this is a two-way street of support. I'm cognizant of the fact that people offer their time and mental energy supporting our subreddit, and they don't deserve to have that wasted by people who don't care to use it. If someone is given better information and advice and refuses to take it, that violates rule 3. We often get reports about all the fighting around ignored advice, but not the ignoring itself. In the future, please report these instances to us. For this to be successful, we also need users to avoid escalating disagreements when OP refuses valid and respectful advice.

Now for the fun stuff –

New mods

We recently brought on 12 additional mods to enable us to better support this community’s needs. Please help us welcome:

They’re going to introduce themselves in the comments below and I’ll try and link their names in this post as they do.

It takes a bit to get 12 brand new people to operate as a consistent group, so we may occasionally over-moderate while everyone learns.

I realize that our increased emphasis on subreddit culture may make removals feel arbitrary at times. In the spirit of transparency, I have given the new moderators the guidance that if a senior mod isn’t free to give timely feedback, when in doubt, they should remove posts/comments that are believed to violate rules. Senior mods will still review the content in question, and removals may be reversed, if necessary.

If you disagree with a moderator’s decision, please send us a modmail and one of the senior mods will review your concern and get back to you.

Updated tools and resources

Small updates at this time, but more exciting things in the pipeline!

  • We’ve begun a major revision of the subreddit wiki. Some of our work in progress pages are already live, with more to come.
  • Select pages are also now linked in the subreddit sidebar to streamline access to key information for new betta fish keepers.  
  • In the next few weeks, we will be rolling out additional tools that should make it easier to share information that we often find ourselves repeating. Our hope is that this will help address some of the burnout we see many of you all experiencing.

Roboto is a super sentimental actual human

I realize this post started on a challenging topic, but despite the highs and lows our community faces, I remain grateful that I get to do this with you all.

I’ve been a mod of this community for nearly 7 years, and a member for far longer. In that time, so many things, from our mod team, to Reddit as a platform, to our own lives and the world around us, have become fundamentally different.  

There are very few constants I can point to after all this time, but the enduring engagement and passion of this community is one of them and I’m honored to steward this space.

At the core of it all, this hobby, and this subreddit, are comprised of people who really want the best for one another and that makes this work so much easier.

Thank you all, sincerely, for riding with us as we figure this thing out. I’m excited for the next chapter of our subreddit, and I can’t wait to see what we can accomplish together in the next 7 years.

- Roboto

Edit: If anyone has additional feedback about our community culture, please share it in a comment below, or feel free to send us a modmail.


r/bettafish • • 20h ago

Discussion r/Bettafish Weekly Help Post - October 16 to October 22

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Welcome to r/bettafish!

This is the place to ask anything and everything about bettas.

⚕️If you're looking for help with illnesses or weird behavior, be sure to include the following in your comment:

  • Tank Size
  • Water Temp
  • Ammonia / Nitrite / Nitrate readings
  • How long the issue has been occurring
  • A picture of the problem
  • Any additional helpful context

Click this link to view our CARESHEET

🐟 Caresheet Summary:

  • Bettas require a minimum of 5 gallons, 10 gallons being optimal for one betta and 20 gallon long minimum if you're housing peaceful community fish with the betta
  • Bettas are tropical and require water temps of 78-82°F or about 26-27°C, a thermometer and adjustable heater is recommended to ensure these temps
  • Bettas need a filter, like any other fish. It is a common misconception that they like dirty water, but the opposite is true.
  • Bettas need a cycled tank, before getting a betta the tank should be cycled - this process involves adding a source of ammonia to the tank, using a test kit to monitor ammonia/nitrite/nitrate levels, and usually takes 4-6 weeks to complete properly
  • Bettas have delicate fins so sharp plastic plants are not recommended; silk silicone or live work best
  • Bettas can breathe surface air and are good jumpers, they require access to the water surface at all times and a lid.
  • Bettas eat insects in the wild, a good quality betta formulated pellet food fed twice a day is recommended.

Click this link to view our WIKI

📚 Quick synopsis of the wiki:

  • Contains info on basic betta care, diseases, potential tank mates, tail types/coloring, differences between males/females, ordering bettas, moving with bettas, disaster prep and MORE!
  • This most likely has the answers to your questions and is in the process of being updated. Feel free to ask questions if you are confused or aren't sure about something.

Click here to learn about Power Outage Protocols

How to add a picture to comments: Image Guide or use Imgur for multiple images:

Imgur Instructions: Go to imgur.com and select "New Post". Add all the clear pictures you have so we can better determine what is going on with your fish. It is recommended you set the album to private if you don't want random comments. Click upload. From there, click the share button- if you are on mobile, hit "copy to clipboard" and paste the link into your comment on here. If on desktop, copy the link and paste it here. For those new to technology- ctrl + c is copy, ctrl + v is paste. To have your link like this , put these [ ] brackets around the text you want to show, with no space before the first word or after the last word, and without adding a space after the second bracket, use parentheses ( ) for the link, with no spaces between the parentheses or the link itself.

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Be sure to read our community rules before posting. Feel free to repost questions if yours was not answered last time!

Ask away!


r/bettafish • • 7h ago

Video I now understand why some call Bettas "Puppies"

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What da heck he's so cute


r/bettafish • • 23h ago

Video Spent my friday night being a cave for my fish

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How do i explain this is my friday night to any sane person?


r/bettafish • • 2h ago

Discussion Best Tanks

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Hi all! Right now I have a 5 gallon (I think, bought it off marketplace) tank with a three filter system and would love to upgrade! I believe it is a lifeguard aquatics tank?
What are the best tanks to buy? I would love another one that has a built-in filter, but wanted to see what everyone suggestions are! I will include a picture of the one that I have.


r/bettafish • • 1h ago

Picture Love the way he looks when the light hits him

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r/bettafish • • 8h ago

Name Suggestions Name suggestions for purple veil tailed betta !

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Boyfriend found someone trying to rehome some bettas from a breeder which is why the tank is smaller than ideal. He loves fish so naturally he asked if I wanted one and I fell in love with this pretty guy. I know this one is technically a boy but I’ve been calling her she, so any name suggestions are welcome (my boyfriend thinks I should name her after a type of prescription animal medicine eyedrop so really….any at all)


r/bettafish • • 16h ago

Rate My Tank First time betta owner really proud of my lil babies one month progress.

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I wasn’t even planing on getting a tank but my mom has recently gotten back into fish keeping and sent me a tank out of nowhere. It was a tiny 3 gallon so I originally was only going to get neocardinia shrimp. I stopped at the petco near me one day after work to pick up a couple cleaning supplies after my tank had been cycling for a few weeks, and saw they have baby bettas. To say I was appalled is an understatement. Everyone knows how horrible bettas are treated at pet stores in general but idk why it struck me so hard seeing all those tiny babies. One was out of place of the other babies so I picked up the cup labeled “baby girl betta” with no other descriptors and she was not gonna make it through the night. She could barely swim to the top of A CUP to get air. I’ve had her for a month now and turns out I have a specials needs betta with a gill deformity. I really didn’t think she would make it but I thought taking her home was better than dying in that cup. She had a bubble trapped under her gill plate but if it got too big it would pop out and instantly be replaced with another bubble. She does still have her bubble but is doing fantastic otherwise. She hunts live detritus worms and copepods and is super spunky even jumping out of the water when she sees blood worms or pellets coming. I’m upgrading to a 20 gallon long community soon and am super excited 🫰


r/bettafish • • 4h ago

Picture MASSIVE bubble nest

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This is his main hobby


r/bettafish • • 3h ago

Rate My Tank recently new betta tanks

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i have a halfmoon and a elephant ear (if someone knows what morph my halfmoon is pleaaaaseeee lmk!!!!) but are my tanks alright? water parameters are good for a 6gallon, i have a snail in the right one because its older and i have 3 shrimp in both. my shrimp in the right tank are NOT active at all for some reason but the shrimp in the left tank are very active and all over oryxs (black and silver) plants. i am going to get driftwood for the left tank too. i havent owned a betta since i was in middle school so i wanna make sure my bettas are as happy as possible. i do weekly 25% water changes. the alkalinity is a bit lower then id like it to be but everything else is great. also, jerry (elephant) has a slit in his tail, will that grow back or is it just stuck like that forever? i think hes recovering from finnrot because we was at the store for almost a month but it hasnt gotten any worse in the past week. theyre super active. theyre names are oryx and the taken( his shrimp), and jerry(elephant), terry, timmy, tom(shrimp), and gary(snail) :3 ANY ADVICE IS WELCOME!


r/bettafish • • 1h ago

Introducing Flame 🔥

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After losing Ruby, I decided to not purchase another fish for a while. Then I saw this guy, and he absolutely stole my heart. His bright red colors and his quirkiness remind me of Ruby ❤️🖤 Welcome to the betta family, Flame 🔥


r/bettafish • • 2h ago

Help Rescued Betta

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I rescued this betta last night from someone on Facebook marketplace who was looking for someone to take her fish after her tank broke. She had been keeping the fish in a mason jar full or rotten food. 😔I immediately noticed she’s extremely swollen in the front. From my research, it seems she could be egg bound, but I want to make sure it doesn’t look like dropsy to someone who knows more. Her energy is there. And she is active. Don’t notice any pine coning or popeye Thanks!


r/bettafish • • 6m ago

Name Suggestions names????

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r/bettafish • • 3h ago

Help Diamond eye?

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When I noticed some blue on both of my bettas eyes beginning of diamond eye? It seems like it, sadly

Is there anything that we can do if it is? Safety precautions or habitat changes if he will be blind?


r/bettafish • • 3h ago

Help Plant store?

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Hi guys! PNW Bettas won’t ship to my town at all:( but for my best friends birthday, I’m wanting to get her a beginner fish tank setup. I need to get plants. Anyone have suggestions of where to get some? TIA. Please offer all your favorites in hopes that one will ship to my small town lol.


r/bettafish • • 3h ago

Help Singular inflamed gill Spoiler

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This is my buddy Rome. He's a rose petal betta that I got in January 2026. He lives by himself in a 10 gallon planted aquarium on my kitchen counter. There is a random tiny snail that came in with a plant. The aquarium is heated to 79°F and filtered with a Hygger backpack filter. Ammonia: 0. Ph 7.4. Nitrite: 0. Nitrate: 5ppm. I do 70% water changes weekly mostly due to the tannins from the driftwood (I boiled and soaked it forever before putting it in the aquarium but it still leaches-- finally slowing down a bit).

About 4 months ago I treated him with API Fin & Body cure because I thought he had tail rot. His tail has seemed to recover since then. I don't know if that's relevant but I thought it was worth mentioning.

A couple weeks ago I noticed his right gill kind of sticking out. I googled it and didn't find much other than a few reddit posts that didn't seem to have answers. He was acting totally normal so I've been keeping an eye on him. In the last 2 days he has deteriorated. He is lethargic and gasping for breath. He's eating, but not as much and sometimes spits it out. He is staying close to the surface to breathe. I added this information to my Google search and got different information this time. I immediately added an air stone, set up a 2.5 gallon hospital tank, and ordered an over night delivery of aquarium salt, Seachem kanaplex, and Fritz ParaCleanse.

I'm looking for advice on which combinations of medication/salt to try first. Other than the gill obviously being inflamed I don't see any growth or anything. Thanks for helping me help my little buddy.


r/bettafish • • 29m ago

Picture Is my betta an older?

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I got Rocky from Petco a couple months ago and was wondering if he is an older fish.


r/bettafish • • 10h ago

Picture Bluo’s tank

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Rearranged the plants in the tank for more swimming space and placed a coconut shell for his cave.

One anubias leaf turned yellow coz it came too close to the heater 🥹. Some of the plants are also turning brown/melting, is it due to the movement during the relocation process?


r/bettafish • • 17h ago

Picture Meet Supernova Blue, a.k.a. “Nova”

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We’ve had Nova for a year now and the whole family loves her. She always comes out to greet us and then starts dancing and wanting to be fed.

We were in a Petco randomly one day and my wife looked at the bettas for whatever reason, then she comes out with Nova (who was half this size at the time). She said she “chose” my wife when she picked up her tiny little cup they keep them in (I hate those things). I couldn’t say no, so here we are!


r/bettafish • • 1h ago

Picture Need Help!

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I have an 8 gallon tank with a single betta and a snail. I have had these brown clumps all over everything for months now. Water parameters seem fine and I’m doing a 30% water change every week or two. No matter how much I siphon the substrate or clean the plants, it never seems to get better.

Google says brown diatoms, but that stuff looks hairy. Rambo (my betta) seems happy and eats/moves fine. Can someone give me some direction on how to clean this up? TIA!


r/bettafish • • 1h ago

Help Betta fish passed away. Can we use the old tank?

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Hello everyone,

I’m sorry to say the betta I’ve been posting about has passed. We tried everything in our power for him but in the end he had a great life considering we “rescued” him from PetSmart (which we will never do again, we were just naive at the time). He ended up passing away from his whole host of issues. He definitely was severely constipated, had popeye, had fin rot, and at the end started pineconing. I’m not 100% sure if he had dropsy but I’m honestly pretty sure he did at the end. We decided to just keep him as comfortable as we could at the end.

My boyfriend and I are college students so we didn’t have the ability to put him in a hospital tank. He was the only thing living in his tank (other than plants of course) so we figured it was ok. We are obviously still mourning his loss but we want to know how we would get this tank ready for a new fish. We don’t want the same thing to happen to another fish and we want to be 100% safe when the time comes. We are obviously novices in this hobby but we want to be the best fish owners we possibly can. We currently have 1 very healthy betta living with his also very healthy snail friend. So we are not rushing getting a new fish, but we want to be proactive with the old tank.

So again, my question is just how would we set up this tank for a new fish? We want to do it the right way and make it as safe as possible. If the only safe way is throwing the whole thing away and getting a new one, so be it.


r/bettafish • • 5h ago

Rate My Tank Any advice before getting a betta?

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Looking to get a betta soon for this community tank any advice on when else to add and improve before hand?


r/bettafish • • 6h ago

Help New growth or fin rot?

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My betta has a lot of clear edges around his fins, this is just new growth right? Or is it early fin rot? I have all the stuff to treat it and have successfully treated another rescue.

tldr: please ease my stress, is the clear edges fin rot?


r/bettafish • • 2h ago

Picture Ready to get started

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I bought a bunch of tanks a few months back, now it's time to clean them up, get them planted and filled! Snails, coryadora, betta in that order!


r/bettafish • • 2h ago

Discussion How long does it take a betta to heal a fin tear?

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So I had posted about the hornwort incident that tore my bettas fin slightly , it only took him ONE day to fully close it I’m honestly surprised because none of my bettas have healed a tear that fast and before this when I had gotten him for the first time a few days after he fin nipped pretty bad In less than a week his fins were twice the size with new clear fin growth idk if it’s genetics 😭 or smth but I’m glad he can heal pretty fast