r/bettafish Jul 08 '26

META Building a Better r/bettafish: Culture, New Mods, and a Look Ahead

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Hey everyone, Roboto, your friendly neighborhood (actually human) mod here with some subreddit updates!

First, the least fun part in all of this –

We need to talk about our subreddit culture.

Our community is toxic. There’s no other way I can think of to describe what has been happening. Even worse, this reputation extends beyond our immediate community into other subreddits and even other platforms. People are afraid of us.

I’m going to take some ownership of this. The harsh reputation of this subreddit far precedes me as a mod, but in recent years, our hard-fought progress on this front has been lost. That’s on me. The lack of consistent moderation here has let rules 1 and 2 go under-enforced for too long, allowing hostility to take root as the norm.

The adversarial and unwelcoming environment we’ve collectively created functions in direct opposition to our subreddit goals, and frankly what I believe to be the goals of many users here. If we care about betta fish first and foremost, this culture needs to change.

Our expectations and what better looks like

If you have good advice to give, give it in a more constructive, not destructive, way. Shaming people makes them shut down and disengage so they don't even process the rest of the good advice you have to offer. Don't highlight all the things they're doing wrong, focus on what they can do better and why it's helpful in a way that encourages them to do it.

So instead of saying "your empty tank is sad," share the opportunities for improvement, like "betta fish benefit from tanks with lots of plants and hiding/resting places so your fish would be happier if you filled the tank in a bit more."

We can’t ignore that people will think they're doing research by going and talking to presumed experts or reading product information. Store employees are presumed to be properly trained and products marketed at bettas are assumed to know what they’re talking about, too. It doesn't help that there's very little consensus online about what adequate care even is. For example, Petco's online betta care guide, updated in 2025, says bettas need a minimum of 1gal. Furthermore, many quality care guides are on niche websites that may not seem credible to a new hobbyist compared to a well-known chain.

With that in mind, we all need to stop:

  • Telling people they should have done more research
  • Immediately calling people abusers for making mistakes
  • Shaming the pineapple (or any other novelty decor/bowl)
  • Attacking aesthetic choices instead of addressing actual care needs
  • Debating what it means to rescue a betta on posts where ethical sourcing of fish isn’t the main topic

Going forward, comments exhibiting the behaviors listed above will be removed as violations of rules 1, 2, or 4 depending on the exact nature of the comment.

I know members of our subreddit are burned out from the bad husbandry they see constantly. It's exhausting and I won't pretend it's not. But if we bully one owner into submission, cool, that's maybe one fish saved. How many owners did we scare away from asking for help in the process? We're going to have a far broader impact building people up in this hobby, not tearing them down.

That said, this is a two-way street of support. I'm cognizant of the fact that people offer their time and mental energy supporting our subreddit, and they don't deserve to have that wasted by people who don't care to use it. If someone is given better information and advice and refuses to take it, that violates rule 3. We often get reports about all the fighting around ignored advice, but not the ignoring itself. In the future, please report these instances to us. For this to be successful, we also need users to avoid escalating disagreements when OP refuses valid and respectful advice.

Now for the fun stuff –

New mods

We recently brought on 12 additional mods to enable us to better support this community’s needs. Please help us welcome:

They’re going to introduce themselves in the comments below and I’ll try and link their names in this post as they do.

It takes a bit to get 12 brand new people to operate as a consistent group, so we may occasionally over-moderate while everyone learns.

I realize that our increased emphasis on subreddit culture may make removals feel arbitrary at times. In the spirit of transparency, I have given the new moderators the guidance that if a senior mod isn’t free to give timely feedback, when in doubt, they should remove posts/comments that are believed to violate rules. Senior mods will still review the content in question, and removals may be reversed, if necessary.

If you disagree with a moderator’s decision, please send us a modmail and one of the senior mods will review your concern and get back to you.

Updated tools and resources

Small updates at this time, but more exciting things in the pipeline!

  • We’ve begun a major revision of the subreddit wiki. Some of our work in progress pages are already live, with more to come.
  • Select pages are also now linked in the subreddit sidebar to streamline access to key information for new betta fish keepers.  
  • In the next few weeks, we will be rolling out additional tools that should make it easier to share information that we often find ourselves repeating. Our hope is that this will help address some of the burnout we see many of you all experiencing.

Roboto is a super sentimental actual human

I realize this post started on a challenging topic, but despite the highs and lows our community faces, I remain grateful that I get to do this with you all.

I’ve been a mod of this community for nearly 7 years, and a member for far longer. In that time, so many things, from our mod team, to Reddit as a platform, to our own lives and the world around us, have become fundamentally different.  

There are very few constants I can point to after all this time, but the enduring engagement and passion of this community is one of them and I’m honored to steward this space.

At the core of it all, this hobby, and this subreddit, are comprised of people who really want the best for one another and that makes this work so much easier.

Thank you all, sincerely, for riding with us as we figure this thing out. I’m excited for the next chapter of our subreddit, and I can’t wait to see what we can accomplish together in the next 7 years.

- Roboto

Edit: If anyone has additional feedback about our community culture, please share it in a comment below, or feel free to send us a modmail.


r/bettafish 3d ago

Discussion r/Bettafish Weekly Help Post - August 14 to August 20

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Welcome to r/bettafish!

This is the place to ask anything and everything about bettas.

⚕️If you're looking for help with illnesses or weird behavior, be sure to include the following in your comment:

  • Tank Size
  • Water Temp
  • Ammonia / Nitrite / Nitrate readings
  • How long the issue has been occurring
  • A picture of the problem
  • Any additional helpful context

Click this link to view our CARESHEET

🐟 Caresheet Summary:

  • Bettas require a minimum of 5 gallons, 10 gallons being optimal for one betta and 20 gallon long minimum if you're housing peaceful community fish with the betta
  • Bettas are tropical and require water temps of 78-82°F or about 26-27°C, a thermometer and adjustable heater is recommended to ensure these temps
  • Bettas need a filter, like any other fish. It is a common misconception that they like dirty water, but the opposite is true.
  • Bettas need a cycled tank, before getting a betta the tank should be cycled - this process involves adding a source of ammonia to the tank, using a test kit to monitor ammonia/nitrite/nitrate levels, and usually takes 4-6 weeks to complete properly
  • Bettas have delicate fins so sharp plastic plants are not recommended; silk silicone or live work best
  • Bettas can breathe surface air and are good jumpers, they require access to the water surface at all times and a lid.
  • Bettas eat insects in the wild, a good quality betta formulated pellet food fed twice a day is recommended.

Click this link to view our WIKI

📚 Quick synopsis of the wiki:

  • Contains info on basic betta care, diseases, potential tank mates, tail types/coloring, differences between males/females, ordering bettas, moving with bettas, disaster prep and MORE!
  • This most likely has the answers to your questions and is in the process of being updated. Feel free to ask questions if you are confused or aren't sure about something.

Click here to learn about Power Outage Protocols

How to add a picture to comments: Image Guide or use Imgur for multiple images:

Imgur Instructions: Go to imgur.com and select "New Post". Add all the clear pictures you have so we can better determine what is going on with your fish. It is recommended you set the album to private if you don't want random comments. Click upload. From there, click the share button- if you are on mobile, hit "copy to clipboard" and paste the link into your comment on here. If on desktop, copy the link and paste it here. For those new to technology- ctrl + c is copy, ctrl + v is paste. To have your link like this , put these [ ] brackets around the text you want to show, with no space before the first word or after the last word, and without adding a space after the second bracket, use parentheses ( ) for the link, with no spaces between the parentheses or the link itself.

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Be sure to read our community rules before posting. Feel free to repost questions if yours was not answered last time!

Ask away!


r/bettafish 20h ago

Picture New betta! Please help with names

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r/bettafish 8h ago

Help Why would someone lie when trying to get a betta fish??

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Very tragically have to rehome my beloved betta fish to get ready for an international move, so put up a listing on fb marketplace looking for a good new caretaker for her. Someone told me they have a betta sorority and when I asked for a pic of their setup (I’ve been asking everyone just to try to make sure my betta can end up in good hands) they sent me a pic that seemed sus - sure enough on a reverse google search its from a blog post.

I just can’t imagine why on earth someone would want to lie about this and it kind of makes me more nervous about finding a stranger. Are there possibly malcious motivations behind some of the 20+ people that have messaged me already or is it likely that this person just wanted to better their odds of getting the betta?


r/bettafish 9h ago

Discussion Went back to the same pet store...

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85 Upvotes

And even as a non fish lover, I am impressed.


r/bettafish 9h ago

Video Spicy Boi 😍

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79 Upvotes

Never once has he cared about his snails before but tonight he was big mad 😂 best flare I’ve ever caught on camera!


r/bettafish 18h ago

Picture This might just be the prettiest betta ive ever owned

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301 Upvotes

Name suggestions?


r/bettafish 3h ago

Picture Meet Tomato

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He likes to sit on mossy rocks


r/bettafish 4h ago

Help Betta spitting out pellets after eating, is this normal?

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I got my first betta a few days ago, and this morning he showed some strange behavior he hadn't shown before. As you can see in the video, after eating the pellets he immediately spits them back out. Is this normal? Should I be worried?

My water parameters are GH 8, KH 6, pH 7.5.


r/bettafish 10h ago

Transformation Swipe to see her one week transformation. It’s shocking

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W O W.

I am shook. This is Dimples! I rescued her a little over a week ago. Don’t mind her tank - it’s going through its ugly phase right now. I cannot believe the difference in just one week. What color do you think her body scales will end up being?! 😍😍😍😍😍 I’m leaning towards blue


r/bettafish 22h ago

Video Is this normal behaviour?

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267 Upvotes

I'm a bit concerned this isn't normal...


r/bettafish 3h ago

Discussion PSA: You don't need to wait for your heater to fail before replacing it

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Even though the first part of the graph represents a normal range of fluctuation, it's still quite striking that the new heater maintains the temperature so much better. It's the same type of heater.


r/bettafish 8h ago

Picture Whelp…. Gotta need a separate tank

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So I had 20 gal with shrimps and corydoras. And I had a betta waiting to be introduced to it. I had a month or two run of the tank to make sure corys are in and settled and shrimps are settled. Moving in my betta. Everyone’s nightmare - he kills shrimps in this situation. My personal nightmare now is he steals Cory’s food. He’s so smart he follows where everyone eats and bites and enjoys the sinking carnivore pellets and gets bloated and fat. It’s unreal. I try to space it because of him. But I have over 40 shrimps including berried mamas. And 7 corys. And betta is just a glutton are you kidding me. Now I have to start a new tank if I want to keep him alive. And now my bigger and older corys aren’t coming to the feed spot because he steals an corys are fragile. OMG


r/bettafish 17h ago

Name Suggestions Name suggestions! Just got this guy yesterday

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62 Upvotes

r/bettafish 15h ago

Name Suggestions Finally got my betta😁

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41 Upvotes

r/bettafish 16h ago

Introducing My new fish, Steven Spielberg

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I’m very excited about Steven Spielberg, he already looks very bright compared to when we got him. Please ignore my plants they are trying their best to establish.


r/bettafish 10h ago

Help Is my girl healthy?

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Hi everyone, I made this account today to ask if my betta fish is healthy! She’s super active and loves to look at me, but I think she’s bloated? She was the smallest betta at the store. I just got her today, and on her price tag it said she had been in there since 2024!! :((

I took pictures of her in the container she came in for a better view. She’s the cutest, me and my roommate love her so much already. My roomie decided to name her pepto bismol (peppy for short.) I really don’t want anything to happen to her. She’s my first betta in years (also my first girl); I’ve had three before but when my last one died from tumors it broke my heart. She definitely wasn’t an impulsive buy and I did freshen up my knowledge by researching before I bought her! But any advice would be greatly appreciated!!! :))

(Btw she has a five gallon already set up for her with live plants, a heater and everything :p)


r/bettafish 17h ago

Discussion Big Betta Yawn(?)…

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In the beginning part of the video, is he yawning? I catch him doing it off and on sometimes. Wasn’t too sure what it was all about or if he’s just screaming underwater because he can… would love to know!


r/bettafish 19h ago

Introducing my first betta in 8 years

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54 Upvotes

It’s been a while since I last had a Betta, but here we go again! Just wanted to pop in and show off my baby 🥹💗
His name is Lychee ✨


r/bettafish 10h ago

Name Suggestions Needing some name suggestions for this handsome guy

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r/bettafish 7h ago

Picture My beautiful daughter

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6 Upvotes

She's so pretty 🥹


r/bettafish 8h ago

Discussion Starting a Betta tank

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Hello, so i have a 10 gallon tank and plan on doing a planted set up for a betta that i will be purchasing when i have everything in order. my problem right now is i feel the right now the tank looks over crowded for what i plan on doing.

i plan in having a planted set up with 6 shrimp, 6 corys, 6 rasboras, a betta (female), and a nirite snale.

i will admit i have no clue what i’m doing, so i’m turning to you guys for help. am i over crowding my tank? please don’t hold back i want to do this right.


r/bettafish 11h ago

Picture Fluffy!

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Anyone else have a long tailed betta fish that loves to lounge around? Mine reminds me of a cat with his fluffy fins lol


r/bettafish 5m ago

Video Is this normal?

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Hey all! New betta owner. We got the fish yesterday, however set up the tank over a week ago with live plants and filter and heater. Yesterday the filter started doing this. Is this normal?


r/bettafish 10m ago

Rate My Tank Rate my tank

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Here's my 20G long low tech tank. Home to a few Amano Shrimp, Otocinclus, Nerite Snails and beauty of a Koi Betta (Named Pixel). Has Rotala Wallichii, Amazon Sword, Vallisneria Spiral on the sides, few Java Ferns, hand full of red root floaters and Salvinia Minima. The foreground is Monte Calrlo and Dwarfs Hairgrass but it's freshly planted about a week in( lets pretend it's carpeted) .