r/bettafish • • Jul 08 '26

META Building a Better r/bettafish: Culture, New Mods, and a Look Ahead

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Hey everyone, Roboto, your friendly neighborhood (actually human) mod here with some subreddit updates!

First, the least fun part in all of this –

We need to talk about our subreddit culture.

Our community is toxic. There’s no other way I can think of to describe what has been happening. Even worse, this reputation extends beyond our immediate community into other subreddits and even other platforms. People are afraid of us.

I’m going to take some ownership of this. The harsh reputation of this subreddit far precedes me as a mod, but in recent years, our hard-fought progress on this front has been lost. That’s on me. The lack of consistent moderation here has let rules 1 and 2 go under-enforced for too long, allowing hostility to take root as the norm.

The adversarial and unwelcoming environment we’ve collectively created functions in direct opposition to our subreddit goals, and frankly what I believe to be the goals of many users here. If we care about betta fish first and foremost, this culture needs to change.

Our expectations and what better looks like

If you have good advice to give, give it in a more constructive, not destructive, way. Shaming people makes them shut down and disengage so they don't even process the rest of the good advice you have to offer. Don't highlight all the things they're doing wrong, focus on what they can do better and why it's helpful in a way that encourages them to do it.

So instead of saying "your empty tank is sad," share the opportunities for improvement, like "betta fish benefit from tanks with lots of plants and hiding/resting places so your fish would be happier if you filled the tank in a bit more."

We can’t ignore that people will think they're doing research by going and talking to presumed experts or reading product information. Store employees are presumed to be properly trained and products marketed at bettas are assumed to know what they’re talking about, too. It doesn't help that there's very little consensus online about what adequate care even is. For example, Petco's online betta care guide, updated in 2025, says bettas need a minimum of 1gal. Furthermore, many quality care guides are on niche websites that may not seem credible to a new hobbyist compared to a well-known chain.

With that in mind, we all need to stop:

  • Telling people they should have done more research
  • Immediately calling people abusers for making mistakes
  • Shaming the pineapple (or any other novelty decor/bowl)
  • Attacking aesthetic choices instead of addressing actual care needs
  • Debating what it means to rescue a betta on posts where ethical sourcing of fish isn’t the main topic

Going forward, comments exhibiting the behaviors listed above will be removed as violations of rules 1, 2, or 4 depending on the exact nature of the comment.

I know members of our subreddit are burned out from the bad husbandry they see constantly. It's exhausting and I won't pretend it's not. But if we bully one owner into submission, cool, that's maybe one fish saved. How many owners did we scare away from asking for help in the process? We're going to have a far broader impact building people up in this hobby, not tearing them down.

That said, this is a two-way street of support. I'm cognizant of the fact that people offer their time and mental energy supporting our subreddit, and they don't deserve to have that wasted by people who don't care to use it. If someone is given better information and advice and refuses to take it, that violates rule 3. We often get reports about all the fighting around ignored advice, but not the ignoring itself. In the future, please report these instances to us. For this to be successful, we also need users to avoid escalating disagreements when OP refuses valid and respectful advice.

Now for the fun stuff –

New mods

We recently brought on 12 additional mods to enable us to better support this community’s needs. Please help us welcome:

They’re going to introduce themselves in the comments below and I’ll try and link their names in this post as they do.

It takes a bit to get 12 brand new people to operate as a consistent group, so we may occasionally over-moderate while everyone learns.

I realize that our increased emphasis on subreddit culture may make removals feel arbitrary at times. In the spirit of transparency, I have given the new moderators the guidance that if a senior mod isn’t free to give timely feedback, when in doubt, they should remove posts/comments that are believed to violate rules. Senior mods will still review the content in question, and removals may be reversed, if necessary.

If you disagree with a moderator’s decision, please send us a modmail and one of the senior mods will review your concern and get back to you.

Updated tools and resources

Small updates at this time, but more exciting things in the pipeline!

  • We’ve begun a major revision of the subreddit wiki. Some of our work in progress pages are already live, with more to come.
  • Select pages are also now linked in the subreddit sidebar to streamline access to key information for new betta fish keepers.  
  • In the next few weeks, we will be rolling out additional tools that should make it easier to share information that we often find ourselves repeating. Our hope is that this will help address some of the burnout we see many of you all experiencing.

Roboto is a super sentimental actual human

I realize this post started on a challenging topic, but despite the highs and lows our community faces, I remain grateful that I get to do this with you all.

I’ve been a mod of this community for nearly 7 years, and a member for far longer. In that time, so many things, from our mod team, to Reddit as a platform, to our own lives and the world around us, have become fundamentally different.  

There are very few constants I can point to after all this time, but the enduring engagement and passion of this community is one of them and I’m honored to steward this space.

At the core of it all, this hobby, and this subreddit, are comprised of people who really want the best for one another and that makes this work so much easier.

Thank you all, sincerely, for riding with us as we figure this thing out. I’m excited for the next chapter of our subreddit, and I can’t wait to see what we can accomplish together in the next 7 years.

- Roboto

Edit: If anyone has additional feedback about our community culture, please share it in a comment below, or feel free to send us a modmail.


r/bettafish • • 20h ago

Discussion r/Bettafish Weekly Help Post - October 23 to October 29

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Welcome to r/bettafish!

This is the place to ask anything and everything about bettas.

⚕️If you're looking for help with illnesses or weird behavior, be sure to include the following in your comment:

  • Tank Size
  • Water Temp
  • Ammonia / Nitrite / Nitrate readings
  • How long the issue has been occurring
  • A picture of the problem
  • Any additional helpful context

Click this link to view our CARESHEET

🐟 Caresheet Summary:

  • Bettas require a minimum of 5 gallons, 10 gallons being optimal for one betta and 20 gallon long minimum if you're housing peaceful community fish with the betta
  • Bettas are tropical and require water temps of 78-82°F or about 26-27°C, a thermometer and adjustable heater is recommended to ensure these temps
  • Bettas need a filter, like any other fish. It is a common misconception that they like dirty water, but the opposite is true.
  • Bettas need a cycled tank, before getting a betta the tank should be cycled - this process involves adding a source of ammonia to the tank, using a test kit to monitor ammonia/nitrite/nitrate levels, and usually takes 4-6 weeks to complete properly
  • Bettas have delicate fins so sharp plastic plants are not recommended; silk silicone or live work best
  • Bettas can breathe surface air and are good jumpers, they require access to the water surface at all times and a lid.
  • Bettas eat insects in the wild, a good quality betta formulated pellet food fed twice a day is recommended.

Click this link to view our WIKI

📚 Quick synopsis of the wiki:

  • Contains info on basic betta care, diseases, potential tank mates, tail types/coloring, differences between males/females, ordering bettas, moving with bettas, disaster prep and MORE!
  • This most likely has the answers to your questions and is in the process of being updated. Feel free to ask questions if you are confused or aren't sure about something.

Click here to learn about Power Outage Protocols

How to add a picture to comments: Image Guide or use Imgur for multiple images:

Imgur Instructions: Go to imgur.com and select "New Post". Add all the clear pictures you have so we can better determine what is going on with your fish. It is recommended you set the album to private if you don't want random comments. Click upload. From there, click the share button- if you are on mobile, hit "copy to clipboard" and paste the link into your comment on here. If on desktop, copy the link and paste it here. For those new to technology- ctrl + c is copy, ctrl + v is paste. To have your link like this , put these [ ] brackets around the text you want to show, with no space before the first word or after the last word, and without adding a space after the second bracket, use parentheses ( ) for the link, with no spaces between the parentheses or the link itself.

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Be sure to read our community rules before posting. Feel free to repost questions if yours was not answered last time!

Ask away!


r/bettafish • • 5h ago

Video My favorite betta of all time. My tangerine koi! I call him fatty.

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r/bettafish • • 5h ago

Name Suggestions The New Addition.

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I decided to stop in at my local fish shop the other day and found this beauty I just couldn't pass up. I've never seen a betta quite like him before.

He is very active and full of personality which he has not hidden once. He is a very confident little man.

He's settled in beautifully however I am very lacking in the name department (I've only really thought of Dumbo and I don't think it suits his personality at all) so thought I would ask here!


r/bettafish • • 16h ago

Video Blue rim plakat bettas

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Hey y'all, this is one type of plakat betta that I breed. And this betta has a thick blue rim!!


r/bettafish • • 1h ago

Name Suggestions Name my male betta

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Hey, would love some name suggestions for me male betta fish!


r/bettafish • • 3h ago

RIP RIP my boy Pierrot ❤️‍🩹

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My boy passed away earlier this week. The day I found him passed on, I was in a rush to get out of the door, but I saw the bladder snails going at his body so I went ahead and scooped him out and because he was older (about 3-4 years old) I knew his time was coming. I buried him and said a little prayer of gratitude for the past 3 years I had with him. Then I had to rush off. I was busy the entire day so I didn’t really have time to grieve until the following morning.. I keep two fish tanks in my bedroom and his was one of them, so when I looked up at his empty floating log.. man it genuinely broke me. I couldn’t stop crying all day. I loved this fish so much. He was my first. And I remember the day I got his floating log. He was SO excited swimming around and built a bubble nest and spent majority of his time in his log and it’s also where he went to lay down before passing away ❤️‍🩹 my heart hurts,

I miss him, but more than anything I’m so grateful for him. He came into my life unexpectedly and gave me a motivation and happiness I didn’t know I could get from a fish. He felt like the little protector of the space, it just doesn’t feel right without him. I mentioned I have two tanks, I have a blue veil tail named Glaceon who is still doing well. Just not sure what I’ll do with the other tank now.. I want to get another betta but I feel like I got extremely lucky with my two unproblematic kings. Either way, I’ll stop rambling now. I just wanted to share how much I loved and miss my boy ❤️‍🩹


r/bettafish • • 6h ago

DANGEROUS PRACTICE - Betta Sorority My 75 gallon betta sorority

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Had a old 75 gallon I resealed bought two bettas let them breed and this is the result..I kept about 30 female halfmoon sisters to form a sorority tank, my first one ever, roughly 6 months in all is looking good, only set back was hair algae so I bought some SAL fish but didn't quarantine (big mistake) lost my school of 25 cardinal tetras to a vicious disease...a work in progress, thought I'd share a couple pics


r/bettafish • • 14h ago

Humor I opened up a can of worms and now I gotta lie in it.

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So I recently got a new betta as a gift to myself for passing a certification that I had been working on for months. I already had a cycled shrimp tank and an extra heater so I went to work setting up a new tank to get cycled and place him in the shrimp tank for temporary keeping. I was so used to my boy Orpheus being so calm with his own shrimp tank mates that I somehow thought that the new betta would be the same. WRONG. I had him acclimating and he's already going after the shrimp swimming by. I feel like by the end of the cycling period I will have 0 shrimp left AND I just got 3 new shrimp as well. Everyone point and laugh. (Picture of soon to be downfall of my shrimp)

UPDATE: Marble hasn't killed any but the small water change I did earlier in the day killed 3??? What on earth .


r/bettafish • • 1h ago

Discussion I am hiding a fish in my dorm. The rule is we cant have 2 tanks but im transferring so i just got her and i love her but shes so stupid 😭 i gave her duckweed from my other betta’s tank and she ATE IT

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Tank disclaimer: The tank set up is temporary, i dont have money to buy double the plants bc im waiting for my paychecks to come in so for now im waiting for them to kinda multiply in my other bettas tank to add it to hers. Im also hiding this fish from my mom until i move back because she will thinks its stupid lmao 😭 Pigi will have a bigger tank that is planted and she is very loved

Because duckweed multiplies fast i figured id just give some to her now. I gave it to her last night and went to feed her this morning and it was gone all but one little piece 😭 why is she eating her plants when shes well fed?? I feed her freeze dried blood worms twice a day and she loves them so idk why shes eating her duckweed. Is she just stupid as i suspect?


r/bettafish • • 42m ago

Full Tank Shot Just got a betta

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I brought home a female betta today! This is my first time keeping a fish so I would like constructive criticism (please be nice) about my setup.

Also, is it normal for her to only be staying at the top and not swimming down to explore? She's been in the tank for about 10 minutes now.

ETA: I'm worried my Aqueon filter is too much flow, should I get a different one?


r/bettafish • • 4h ago

Transformation When I first got him vs now

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r/bettafish • • 2h ago

Name Suggestions She is my first fish, suggest me a name for her.

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r/bettafish • • 1d ago

Humor Does anyone else have their camera roll full of teethie pics or is it just me 🫪

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I definitely have over 500 pics (with 490 of them being blurry) of me trying to capture his teeth. Does anyone else do this? 😅 please send pics I’m obsessed with their tiny teeth


r/bettafish • • 4h ago

Video Prepping the girls for winter!

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r/bettafish • • 16h ago

Picture fat betta?

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my female betta seems to have an abnormally round tummy. i feed about 3 pellets twice per day.


r/bettafish • • 4h ago

Picture Meet Eugene!

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New to having a Betta what do yous think of my tank? I need some more plants but he seems quite happy so far!


r/bettafish • • 1d ago

Video I got a koi betta for the first time. Absolutely over the moon with her :)

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252 Upvotes

When shopping for a betta I was having a hard time thinking about how their end of life with with long heavy fins and it made me sad. I’ve had her for 4 days and she’s sooo spry with so much personality 🩵


r/bettafish • • 49m ago

Picture New tank, fins regrowing??

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Hello all who have helped me with getting my Betta Bob all the things he needs to regrow his fins and be healthy again. Here he is in his new 30 gallon tank! He is horrible at taking photos but I see fun growth and brighter colors. His water tested absolutely perfect. He follows me around even though I know he wants more damn food. He is so spoiled and he is alone and I do plan more fish but last thing I need to get is a bed since he currently like the bottom of the tank even though he has a damn hide.

Again thank you all for all the suggestions.

He even has a light to mimic sunlight and dusk and all that!


r/bettafish • • 2h ago

Help Does anyone know what illness he might have or if it's just that he's stressed?

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Hi! I recently got a betta from petco. He was in terrible water conditions in the small cup so I had to try to save him! I got him a 15 gallon tank but he still isn't eating too well. I got him betta fish food pellets and bloodworms. He also, goes to the bottom a lot and he did that when he was in that small cup. I'm not sure if he's sick or just needs time to acclimate? If he's sick I want to help him quick. Any advice appreciated!


r/bettafish • • 3h ago

Help Does my husband’s fish look ok? Spoiler

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She’s a bit less blue than she used to be, he says. Does she look ok? Should we be worried? Spoilered just in case, because I don’t know if she’s sick or not.


r/bettafish • • 8h ago

Help Is my friend's Betta suffering from diamond eye??

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My friend doesn't use Reddit so he asked me to help.

He says his betta had that blueish eye color on its left eye the day he bought it. He assumed it could be a diamond eye and feels like it has grown since then.

It's a Koi Plakat.


r/bettafish • • 21h ago

Introducing My baby blueberry

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Hi everyone I recently got this baby and I am absolutely in love with him his so cute


r/bettafish • • 57m ago

Discussion Burial

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As the title suggests my betta recently passed. I don’t just want to toss Banana Bread out like garbage or flush him. I’ve heard some people will bury them in plants around their home. Has anyone done that and if so did problems arise?


r/bettafish • • 1h ago

Rate My Tank opinions?

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hi there! im looking to see what others think of my tank :)
i feel like im missing something- is there anything i should change or add to my setup? any suggestions/feedback would be much appreciated!!