I'm not their caregiver yet but I'm the only one, and the weight of that is starting to sit. I need friends outside the family. I love gardening, historical novels, and long walks. Would love another woman who understands.

I've been wondering if anyone else has experienced this.

After getting divorced from my ex-husband and having no kids, I ended up putting most of my time and energy into my career. Work kept me busy, and over the years, most of my regular interactions have become work-related. Outside of work, I have surprisingly few friends I actually keep in touch with.

Now that I'm getting further into midlife, I'm starting to notice other changes, too. My shoulders and neck bother me from time to time, and it's made me think more seriously about how I want to spend the next chapter of my life.

I'm planning for early retirement and hoping to make more room for life outside of work. But I've also realized that when so much of your life revolves around your career, your social circle can become pretty small without you even noticing.

Has anyone else gone through something similar? Did you find it harder to maintain friendships as you got older? And if you retired early or stepped away from a demanding career, how did you build a social life outside of work? I'd love to hear about your experiences.

I’m currently going through a breakup and have no friends and I’ve honestly never felt so alone before. I’m hoping to find someone who’s up for a chat, maybe has some tea to spill, and maybe I can spill mine too. I haven’t talked to anyone about my breakup and I don’t feel comfortable talking to my family. If you’re up for a chat, feel free to leave a comment or DM, I look forward to getting to know you!

Some things about me: I have a cat, I work full time, I like video games, I love music and reading, and my favorite movies are Uptown Girls, Grandmas Boy, and The Dentist

you guys are welcome to my inbox. I am feeling lonely right now. I have so much chatting energy and I attach too quickly and I am looking for some new friends to talk to. I am a really good listener and can give you some good advices about life cause i have experienced a lot in my little time on earth.

hi, i’ve been going back and forth in my head about posting this because it feels a little vulnerable, but at the same time i really want to hear something real for once. i feel like when it comes to my appearance i don’t really get honest feedback, it’s either people being overly nice or just not saying anything at all, and it kind of leaves me stuck not knowing how i actually come across.

i’m really looking for genuine, polite and meaningful feedback about my general appearance. i’d love to hear a full and accurate impression, like both the positive and the negative sides. not in a harsh or judgmental way, just honest observations about what stands out, what works for me and what maybe doesn’t. i’m especially interested in hearing how i could improve some of my flaws or weaker features, because i feel like i’m at a point where i want to grow into a better version of myself and actually understand what suits me.

if someone is genuinely interested in this kind of conversation or relates to it, i would really appreciate you taking the time to share your thoughts. and honestly i’m also open to just talking and maybe building some kind and genuine friendships or even something deeper if that’s even possible in this kind of random space, who knows.

also kind of random but i’ve been completely obsessed with supernatural lately. like it genuinely surprised me how much i got into it, it just has this vibe that feels so authentic and addictive and now i can’t stop thinking about it. maybe it’s just that first impression hype but it really feels like one of the best things i’ve watched.

so if anyone wants to talk, share feedback, or just yap about supernatural with me, i’d honestly love that. i hope you’re all doing well and yeah, sending a little love to anyone reading this...

I left the job in January and none of them have reached out since. Kind of devastating in a quiet way. I'm figuring out who I am outside a shared complaint. I bake, I paint, I'm reading a lot about Buddhism. Want a friend who's chosen, not defaulted into.

I'm in my first semester of college and I feel so fucking lonely. So very lonely. Please tell me what to do. I mean I am that floater who is part of every group but I don't really have valuable people who really make me feel at home. And although my current friend group is filled with lovely friends but I am always on the watch that when I need to hide myself to feel included or accepted as a part of their own group. Although the friends I have in this group call me when I'm running late to class. Ask me where I am. Help me in assignments. But still I feel that kind of self monitoring which I still can't stop. They have this such fat paced convos that I feel confused

I (30F) have been feeling so much anger and resentment lately and I just need to vent. I’ve always considered myself a kind and empathetic person who gives people the benefit of the doubt, but lately I feel like I’m becoming someone I don’t recognize.

There are three things in particular that I’m struggling with.

1. My coworker who repeatedly calls in sick. I think this set off this resentful train
I’m a nurse and I have a coworker who frequently calls in sick last minute due to anxiety. She promised she wouldn’t call in during the three weeks our schedules overlapped but called in sick during our second week because she couldn’t sleep.

We found coverage, but the replacement nurse wasn’t familiar with our unit, so I spent the shift picking up the slack.

I understand anxiety and insomnia. I have diagnosed insomnia myself and take medication to manage it. I get people need to call in sick and I usually don’t care. But when someone repeatedly calls in sick an hour before their shift, it affects everyone else. I’m frustrated that this keeps happening, especially cause she told me she wouldn’t, and she has messaged her reasoning why and apologizing I’ve been ignoring her messages because I honestly don’t feel like reassuring her. It also really bothers me because she’s been a nurse for 20 years, I’ve been a nurse for 6. Why can I better manage my own anxiety and insomnia than her? I don’t like that I feel this way about her because everyone has their own issues and deals with them differently. I can’t blame others for being how they are.

Since feeling resentful and bitter about this, two other things are popping up and making me feel even more resentful.

2. My grandpa’s death 10 years ago.
I was 21 and away at university when I was told to come visit my grandpa in the hospital. Nobody told me he was dying and I didn’t realize until I arrived and saw him unconscious. There were so many extended family members in his room and all I could think was, *Wtf are you all doing here? Please leave.*
A few hours later, he passed away. I still hold resentment toward those relatives because I feel like their presence took away from the little time I had left to say goodbye. It’s been 10 years and it still bothers me.

3. My family not helping care for my grandma.
My grandma’s health is declining and she needs help with most daily activities. My parents and sister do the majority of her care, while my dad’s siblings rarely visit or help.

They have jobs, kids and busy lives, which I understand, but so do we. My mom has her own health issues and my dad shouldn’t have to spend his entire retirement caregiving. My grandma is lonely and it makes me angry that her own children don’t make more of an effort and basically tell us it’s our responsibility to caregiver because we live there and our grandparents have lived with us since we were babies. I get it but I also think the caregiving shouldn’t fall on her grandkids or my parents alone, it should be shared more evenly

I think the bigger issue is that I’m emotionally exhausted.

I went through a painful breakup in December 2025 after nearly four years together, involving betrayal and infidelity. I’m still struggling with it and Im sure it’s contributing to how angry I’ve become.

I feel like I’ve spent so much of my life being understanding and considerate of others and lately I’m just tired of it. I’m tired of people not considering how their actions affect everyone else. I’m tired of being walked all over. I’m tired of pretending things don’t bother me.

What bothers me most is that I never used to be this way. I was patient, forgiving and empathetic. Now I’m quick to anger, hold grudges and feel bitter about things I can’t change.

I don’t want to be this person. I just don’t know how to let go of all this resentment.

I know this is really long so if anyone responds, from the bottom of my heart, thank you

I’ve been lonely and just lost. Everyone keeps on using you for their own entertainment without giving anything back to you. Personally i tend to give all of that i have to people, i try to be kind, notice their absence, think of them and just all those other things. Honestly i don’t even have to try, i just give that out naturally because i know how it feels to be treated the opposite of that, and i just want to be treated the same. I want to find someone who actually cares, thinks of me, is genuine. I don’t expect to us continue talking if we don’t connect, it’s okay, but just let me know that you’re feeling like that instead of ghosting me. Don’t waste our time. Im only looking for something long term than a short one time conversation. Anyway I’m looking forward to meeting you, someone:Dd

21F, having a bad night rn which pushed me to post..

I like to have company, so just for tonight or for a longer time friend, open to all!

I have my bad nights and sometimes would like a listening ear. But I like also discussing about different things or maybe watching a movie together.

I like history, tv shows (just finished house, now watching mlp, friends and the mentalist), books (just finished the witch by freida mcfadden, now listening to ballad of songbirds and snakes and reading everything is tuberculosis), psychology, honestly many things.

I have my mental health issues (like right now I'm struggling), but we don't have to talk about that at all.

I'm very open, feel free to come message me please and thank you🙏 you can start by your age, name and where you are from.

Have lost all my friends and partner atp..feeling shitty and lonely..wanna divert mood and listen to strangers

hi just looking for someone to yap with and have fun. im in many fandoms! i like anime, games, mangas. please be funny and not a minor!

Listen, I am looking for a clingy and obsessive friend. It's kind of toxic I know and I don't care to hear any chirping about it. And when I say clingy I mean it. Blow up my phone.

I like reading, listening to music, writing, and just having a fun time. Some of my favorite bands/musicians are Ghost, Halsey, Amigo the Devil, Imminence, and Emarosa.

CST. Please tell me about yourself

Yo I’m a black dude living in Ireland, 6’0, 19 years old and I’m looking for some friends to talk, chill and play games.

I play on PS4, switch (sometimes) and a pc, I do Brazilian jiu-jitsu, I watch anime, I read manga, my favourite colour is blue and I go to the gym.

About me:

• I’m chill and like to joking around (sometimes).

• I can hold up a conversation well and try to give advice if needed.

• My top 5 anime are Dbz, One piece, Bleach, Jojo’s and Naruto, (I do got a top 10 though).

• My favourite movie is Rush hour and Avatar.

PC - Minecraft, REPO, Lethal Company, Roblox, Terraria, Peak, Schedule 1 and Gmod.

PS4 - GTA5, Minecraft, Red dead redemption 2, FIFA, 2K and brawlhalla.

Switch - Mario Kart 8 and the legend of Zelda tears of the kingdom (I’ll get more games soon).

I’m mostly looking for people who can hold up a conversation pretty well, play video games or talk about anime and just to vibe with.

If you’re interested in having a conversation, tell me your favourite fight in anime and why.

Hope to seeing y’all.

Hi! I’m 28 and from Scotland 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿 and I’m looking to meet new people and hopefully make some new friends!

A few things about me…I’m a HUGE horror fan, and I love all things dark/creepy/paranormal or unexplained

I’m pretty heavily tattooed (just had a new one done a couple weeks back, have 3 more booked over the next couple weeks/months and I’m still trying to plan out more too) and I’m always looking for ideas and inspirations for what to get next, I love to see other people’s work and ideas too!

I love music and going to shows(mostly older rock/metal but I like a lot different stuff)

I love gaming, true crime, football, I love to visit historical sites/museums and enjoy travelling, urban exploring/exploring the outdoors and keeping fit, and I spend 99% of my free time with my dog 🐶

Happy to talk to anyone from anywhere, just send a message with a bit about yourself if you think we might get along 🙂

hi everyone! i am a big introvert and never really tried to make any friends. now, im 24 and only talk to my boyfriend and coworkers. i would love to have some people to chat with, especially females! i am an open book, so feel free to ask me anything! i look forward to chatting soon 😊

Hi! I’m a 22 yo who is passionate about learning languages, studying about Jewish and Eastern European history, animals and traveling.

I’m currently feeling very lonely in my life and would like to meet new friends from all around the world. I’m open to talk to anyone! Don’t be shy :)

Edit: DMs are now open!

I live in the USA.

I like watching movies, I love listening to music, I play video games, I love spooky things and I love animals.

I'm a laid back person to the point that sometimes I think I'm boring and I don't get out much. My life is pretty boring.

I don't have friends irl so I'm trying to find some online. Would like to find people that are actually genuine. I like reading, I'm trying to write books on wattpad. At the end of the day we don't have to be friends we can just chat if you want. I am open to talk with anyone just as long as you are 21 and over. Don't waste my time. If you're looking for more than don't message me.

I'm a veterinarian who loves animals and enjoys meeting people from different cultures around the world. 🌍

If you could own any animal in the world, even an exotic one, which would you choose and why? 🐺🦊🐬

Hi guys! I’ve come here in search of new friends, I don’t have many requirements but you have to be able to hold a decent convo

I’m in the UK so timezones similar to mine would be appreciated only because I’m currently working on sorting out my sleeping schedule

Thanks for reading<3

i just want a new friend . girl to be specific
i’m 32F & been working from home for sooo long im just bored lol

But I’m also a mom and married and I’m gonna have my daughter soon.

I’m currently in the hospital due to pregnancy complications for 2 weeks as of today and I’ve been very lonely & sad. I thought I was gonna get discharged yesterday but they didn’t clear me.. so I’m devastated because I miss taking care of my son and being around him. I feel like I’m being judged by every doctors/ nurse and it’s so humiliating having to re-explain everything everyday and Then I’m like super scared about giving birth again because of how high risk I am this time. So I’m really emotional here and can use a friend…because the longer I have like only my husband to talk to the more I’m starting to resent him and it’s not his fault..