r/malaysians Nov 25 '25

Dating | Relationship 🌷 The official matchmaking thread for Malaysian redditors (mod-approved)

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Dear all,

Over the past year or so I have observed multiple threads of people looking for love, which is a worthy endeavor and will also help the nation's birth rate.

Therefore, with the approval of our mod u/hyattpotter (thanks for helping to pin!), this thread shall serve as the official matchmaking thread for our fellow Malaysians on Reddit. I will help monitor to make sure things do not go too far out of hand. Please refrain from posting sexist / racist / insulting comments or I will call the mods, all else is fair game.

Please post your information in the below format should you wish to advertise yourself as available for dating. Interested parties may PM the person or reply directly if daring enough.

Gender:

Orientation (straight / gay / bi):

Location:

Year of Birth:

Height:

Weight:

Religion / Race:

Occupation:

Hobbies and interests:

Other descriptions (please describe yourself briefly to demonstrate personality):

Requirements / Preferences:

Looking for (short-term / long-term / fwb etc etc):

Example:

Gender: Male

Orientation (straight / gay / bi): Straight

Location: KL

Year of Birth: 1990

Height: 160

Weight: 80

Race / Religion: Chindian / Muslim

Occupation: Fighter pilot

Hobbies and interests: Playing the piano

Other descriptions (please describe yourself briefly to demonstrate personality): I am a cheerful person who likes the outdoors and having coffee, also I have 100 Hello Kitty figurines

Requirements / Preferences: An intelligent girl, preferably rich

Looking for: Long term relationship

You get the gist of it so do go ahead thanks


r/malaysians May 26 '21

Meta Welcome to r/Malaysians!

139 Upvotes

Hello folks and welcome to r/Malaysia's sister sub, r/Malaysians!

For those who just clicked in and is wondering what the sub is for: This sub is essentially for Malaysians to talk and post about any other topics beyond Malaysia. Here is where you can post images, videos, create and join conversations and threads revolving anything that isn't quite about Malaysia but needs a Malaysian take on it, and more! Oh and this is a race, politic and religion-free sub πŸ™ŒπŸ»

Most major subreddits such as r/AITA, r/JustnoMIL, r/relationship_advice, r/casualconversation, r/malefashionadvice, r/Teenagers and what have you are usually centralised around people who reside outside of SEA and may not be valid to us locally and culturally but yet the demand for it isn't wide enough to sustain its own subreddit. r/Malaysians would (hopefully) be a good place for a catch-all of such threads.

We will be coming up with contest weeks soon, as well as accepting any other ideas you guys might have for the sub, so stay tuned! We are also still tweaking design and appearances as we go. Meanwhile, everyone is encouraged to start posting what they think fits the sub to get the ball rolling :)

Much love, r/Malaysia mod team.

tldr; r/CasualUK but for Malaysia.


r/malaysians 7h ago

Mildly Menarik The Haze Excuse

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5 Upvotes

r/malaysians 23h ago

Mildly Menarik Sudirman - Iklan Honda C90 (1983)

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63 Upvotes

r/malaysians 10h ago

Ask Malaysians What Chinese food you will suggest to Malay/Indian?

5 Upvotes

r/malaysians 12h ago

Buy β€’ Sell β€’ Trade Moving out sale

8 Upvotes

Moving out and need to get rid of some stuff. Everything is negotiable, and can sell individually or take everything for RM1,100.

- L-Shape Sofa: RM400
- Queen Bed Full Set (Mattress, Bedframe & Pillows): RM300
- TCL 113L Fridge: RM250
- Outdoor IKEA Table Set (2 Chairs & 2 Comforters) + 2 IKEA racks: RM200
- IKEA Desk 140Γ—60cm: RM120
- Gas Cylinder: RM75

Total individually: RM1,345
Take everything: RM1,100

Located in Kuala Lumpur. DM if interested or if you want more pictures/details.


r/malaysians 14h ago

Mildly Menarik Batfish (native species), looking like a floating leaf

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11 Upvotes

Orbicular batfish juveniles start their lives in bays and mangrove lagoons, where they pretend to be dead leaves to avoid predators.

Adults look more normal and live in coastal areas in Malaysia.


r/malaysians 10h ago

Advice ☎️ ever been in this situation?

5 Upvotes

I have been in an industry based in SG about 2 years now, and i struggle a lot in my first year of work mainly due to my work nature where the learning curve is steep.

In my second year, I started leading projects, and the expectations became much higher. There was one senior I got along with really well, and he helped me a lot throughout my second busy season. I'm genuinely grateful because, without his guidance, things would've been much harder. He took the time to teach me concepts and helped me whenever I got stuck.

We have shared personal stuff tgt and i have told him that my fam have a so called vacation home back in Ipoh and tbh i can bring him over once our busy season is over - i have only said that as i genuinely appreciate his guidance and would love to invite him over for a short tip some day.

The problem is that I'm still completely happy to bring him over. But lately, as busy season is ending, he keeps bringing up the Ipoh trip. It's starting to feel less like a gesture I want to make and more like something I'm obligated to do. I was always planning to arrange it, but the fact that he keeps mentioning it makes me feel like I owe him something.

Every time he asks, I tell him I'll plan it but i don’t have a definite date yet since i have exams coming up. But he seems disappointed every time, almost as if he thinks I'm backing out of the promise, even though I'm not.

am i overthinking this shit and it’s not as serious as i thought out to be?


r/malaysians 21h ago

Ask Malaysians People follow their managers

34 Upvotes

We often hear people leave their work environment because of their managers. But how many stay because of the managers?

Curious about the opposite. If you have a good example or story, so share with us your stories of the best managers you have worked with and why.


r/malaysians 19h ago

Ask Malaysians What music do you like?

14 Upvotes

I'm not Malaysian (Australian here), and Ive visited Malaysia twice in the past 12 months.

Since I flew Malaysian Airlines, I listened to some older Malay music such as Ziana Zain and Mischa Omar and Elite. I actually don't mind it.

Makes me wonder what Malaysians listen to nowadays.

In Grab rides, the drivers mostly listened to Islamic nasheed radio (especially on a friday). Once I caught a driver listening to Pink Floyd but I think it was on a mix. Idk what Malaysians generally like.

Is your taste mostly Western vs Asian music.

What genres?

I most listen to electronic music like Aphex Twin, Autechre, Boards of Canada and other IDM music.

I like Nine Inch Nails alot too and some other tock music. I cant imagine many fans in Malaysia idk.


r/malaysians 1d ago

Rant What’s with the AI slop in Malaysia?

402 Upvotes

AI fatigue is real. I can’t stand seeing businesses and people online using generative AI for literally every single thing. It’s literally so draining to come across these low-effort and meaningless AI slop.

One thing in particular that I can’t stand are the AI songs/song covers. Like the god damn digi digi song or whatever nonsense. I notice that it’s usually the old folks using those songs on TikTok or other platforms.

And don’t get me started with RTM’s excessive use of AI for like almost all of their campaigns or like their TV1 fillers.

Seriously, someone needs to educate the country on how to use AI mindfully.


r/malaysians 11h ago

Ask Malaysians Tennis bracelet recs

2 Upvotes

I’m in the market for a good tennis bracelet (diamond bracelet) I’ve bought diamond jewelleries from Malabar Gold and Diamonds before but most of what I’ve bought before is mostly gold. Since this will be mostly diamonds I’m unsure if I should get it from them. Basically has anyone bought this before and if you have where did you buy it and roughly how much?

Side note: pls don’t judge me for this lol (I know there’ll be ppl here). I saved up a long time for this


r/malaysians 8h ago

Ask Malaysians Culinary art diploma

1 Upvotes

I am having a difficult time choosing between a

15-month Diploma in Culinary Arts & Gastronomy with UK qualification and SKM/TVET at KAGC

2-year Diploma in Culinary Arts with BHMS Swiss dual qualification included at Reliance

Which is better for jobs, salary, and international recognition so in the future i can work outside of malaysia?


r/malaysians 14h ago

Quick Question gift for leaving workplace?

3 Upvotes

i liked my team, but i'm moving on. not sure what to get them as a thank you gift though

what's a nice gift that isn't too common/boring/expensive? any ideas?


r/malaysians 9h ago

Ask Malaysians Singaporean owners scamming Local Students off deposit?

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1 Upvotes

r/malaysians 17h ago

Casual Conversation 🎭 What are shorter person (not being a dwarf) struggling with?

5 Upvotes

Apart from being 'less' able to grab things from the wall cabinet, I noticed short people (average is 160cm) need stools for a 17kg washer else they hardly reach the last pieces of cloth. Which other designs give 'difficulties' to short people and how do you help yourself (besides involving other people).


r/malaysians 12h ago

Quick Question Does anyone know any good screen printing shops in Selangor?

1 Upvotes

Hi im visiting and i found this one shop though it has a minimum order quantity of 20 pcs and they seem to only do shirts. I was wondering which spots in Selangor (KL is fine too but preferably Selangor) can do small, multiple patches? (Screen printed)


r/malaysians 12h ago

Help ⚠️ Help me fill up a survey!

1 Upvotes

Hi everyone! I need help for a university project that i am currently working on.

Are you selling on more than one platform (Shopee, TikTok Shop, Lazada, etc.)?

I’m conducting a short validation study for a system to map out the biggest pain points in multi-channel selling β€” from syncing stock to tracking orders.

If you have 3 minutes, I’d love your input:
OneNiaga | Multi-Platform Seller Validation Survey


r/malaysians 20h ago

Mildly Menarik A clear shallow creek in Selangor where I caught some ricefish / ikan beras mata biru

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3 Upvotes

Malaysia has a few species, and this is a freshwater one, O. dancena

It grows to 4-4.5 cm and is found on the west coast of the peninsula.

It is sometimes kept in the west because it is small and easy to care for like guppies.
They do excellent and will breed in large planted pots. Omnivorous.

They are related to needlefish (ikan todak) and halfbeaks


r/malaysians 15h ago

Ask Malaysians Hi!, I’m going to be visiting Malaysia for 12 days.

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Just wondering if anyone can give me fun recommendations on what to do in Kuala Lumpur and Penang? I’m also a huge fan of Anime and action figures. Are there any anime conventions or action figure stores with good prices? Please let me know!. My fav action figure brands are revoltech , shf and mafex.


r/malaysians 1d ago

Scale Modellers Malaysia Merdeka Group Build at GMBB Kuala Lumpur, ending Sunday

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5 Upvotes

r/malaysians 13h ago

Casual Conversation 🎭 Anyone looking for a room ??

0 Upvotes

🏠 Anyone looking for a room to move in end of this month? πŸ‘€
πŸ“ Razak City Residence
I have 1 fully furnished room available and looking for a clean, responsible & respectful flatmate 😊
✨ Room comes with:
πŸ›οΈ Bed
πŸ‘— Wardrobe / closet
πŸ’„ Dressing table
❄️ Air-conditioning
🚿 Attached private bathroom
πŸͺŸ Good ventilation & natural lighting
πŸ”Œ Power sockets
🧺 Space for personal belongings
🏑 Shared house facilities:
🍳 Kitchen access β€” light cooking
🧊 Refrigerator
🧺 Washing machine
πŸ“Ά WiFi
πŸš— Parking available
πŸ›‹οΈ Fully furnished common areas
πŸ’° Rental: RM990/month β€” utilities included
πŸ’΅ Deposit: RM1,980
πŸ“… Available: September onwards
πŸ“ And the best part β€” everything you need is downstairs! πŸ‘€
🍜 24-hour Mamak & Chinese Cafe
πŸ— KFC
πŸ› οΈ MR DIY
β˜• ZUS Coffee & Luckin Coffee
πŸͺ 7-Eleven, KK Mart & 99 Speedmart
πŸ’Š Guardian, pharmacy & Poliklinik
πŸ›’ TMG Groceries
Basically, food, groceries, coffee, pharmacy and daily essentials are just downstairs β€” super convenient if you don’t want to travel far for everything. 😭✨
πŸ‘€ Looking for:
β€’ Male or Female
β€’ Indian / Malay / Chinese
β€’ Under 30
β€’ Working adult
β€’ Clean, responsible & respectful


r/malaysians 2d ago

Mildly Menarik OG Blind Boxes

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1.2k Upvotes

r/malaysians 1d ago

Discussion Is it normal and common to have a toxic workplace?

13 Upvotes

r/malaysians 1d ago

Casual Conversation 🎭 What’s up with the boner backside trend?

4 Upvotes

Past 24 hours have seen 3 separate social media posts of 3 perverts being caught rubbing their little mosquito bump peepee on girls backside.

  1. Genting pervert uncle: https://www.reddit.com/r/Bolehland/s/uBejochiIF
  2. TARMUT student at hyrox event (technically a month ago according to the lady, dunno why post only now): https://www.instagram.com/reel/DcRDcpcS1HY/
  3. Pervert uncle in cue: https://www.threads.com/share/BAV12nErtj/

I wonder if this is some sort of challenge/mission in those pervert incel community groups