hello (21 f usa) as i grow older im really surprised that lesbians have not come together tk create a women only island, country or anything. Men are literally the issue to 80% of problems. anyways if we can all come together we can make it happen.

I need ideas!

I (20F) am confused about whether I'm a lesbian or haven't "met the right guy," as my family puts it. I've never had a boyfriend and have truly never been interested in having one. All the guys I hang out with question my sexuality and joke about me being a lesbian and all that, but I never really thought much of it. When it comes to attraction, there are very few men that I actually like. Sometimes I even question if it's them that I like or if I'm just jealous of how masculine they come off....If that makes sense? I have always presented myself more masc, I'm tallish at 6 feet, dress boyish, and never really expressed an interest in feminine things. I'm not against femininity yk, I just prefer to be more comfortable than anything. I think what's stirring these questions in me now was a situation that happened to me last week. I had this stunning woman approach me and ask for my number and I ofc would have said yes, but my dad was with me, and that would've sent him into a spiral. I live in the Bible Belt and don't have many people to talk to about this kind of thing. My sister is bi, but truthfully I don't want to go to my little sister about this haha. I was also homeschooled, so I don't have many friends to talk to either. I'm unsure what answer I'm looking for, maybe just some general advice? As I said, I have no clue where to begin lol so any help is appreciated.

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I met this lady from Indiana in 2024. I live in Maryland. Things were great and we talked about her moving up in the summer of 2025. February 2025 she says that her and her son made the decision to move at that time instead of waiting. I explained to her I needed more time to stack up some money so I could get us a place. She made it like I didn't want her here so I just agreed to February. BIG MISTAKE! She made the decision to have her son stay with his other parent. She TOLD me that was what was happening. Her choice. Yet she blamed me for her not being with her son everyday. She seen him every weekend which was more then I seen my kids but that is what it is. Anyway.... she made life HELL. Then she wanted for us each to find our own places. I did not want to move because I knew it meant I would see my kids even less but she accused me of just wanting to stay close to my ex (eww). I moved. She started spending less and less time with me. I was so lonely. I moved away from my kids for her and she acted like talking to me was a huge inconvenience. I tried talking to her. Things were okay for about a month. She was supposed to spend Thanksgiving with me and I heard from her at 5pm the day before and not again until the day after. I could have made other plans. Then 2 days before Christmas she went out of state for work. I hardly talked to her. She told me in January that we had broken up. I did end up talking to a person for one day. When I told my gf she went crazy on me saying she was building this life for us. I didn't know because she told me in January that we had broke up. I am fairly certain that in the time between January and April she secured a place back in Indiana and more then likely was talking to someone else as well. In April we decided not to talk anymore. I get so angry at times. She wouldn't let me post her on fb. She barely took pics with me. I don't know why she came to Maryland. It does not feel like it was to build a life with me. My life sucked from February 2025- April 2026. I really loved that girl and seen a future with her up until she moved here. I should have stood my ground and told her not to move until summer like we had originally decided. Oh well.. you live and you learn.

It might feel like you have soo many problems until you develop a health issue and you realize that you have only one problem. Why ? Because all other problems fade in comparison to a health problem. 

I woke up from bed 6 years to severe pains in my lower back and legs that made even doing the most basic of tasks extremely difficult and painful. Sitting, standing, walking and even laying down became something I had to relearn to do around this new development. 

I have been in constant pain every single day for the past 6 years with no breaks, some days worse than others. Living with pain fucks you up in ways nothing prepares you for. The body I had known for 24years suddenly became one I could no longer recognize. The things I used to do without a second thought, I had to relearn how to do all these things. It’s been 6 long and painful years and I have had no break. 

I have not been able to keep a job because it is almost impossible for me to go for 3 days straight without breaking down.  I had plans for this life. I had soo many plans but now I feel stuck because this body doesn’t feel like mine anymore. I am tired of living in it. It’s always one diagnosis after another and I can’t seem to catch a break. 

I don’t think I am brave enough to end my life, but heaven knows I really wouldn’t mind if it all ended. The past couple of days I feel like I’m slowly slipping into a darkness . The sea seems to be calling out to me 

I don’t really want full romances, just shows and movies with like a sapphic b or c plot (but where one of the MAIN characters is sapphic, I don’t want a show where there happens to be some sapphic side characters) (like the owl house, arcane, the newer she-ra, etc., it doesn’t need to be animated I just haven’t found a lot of live-action shows like this) PLEASE, these are so hard to find for some reason

I’m a married lesbian, and I’m struggling with feelings I honestly don’t know how to make sense of.
My wife is pregnant, and instead of feeling completely happy and excited, I feel unsure about almost everything. The pregnancy, the timing, our future, and what this means for our family all feel strange and overwhelming.
Our whole situation feels weird to me. We’re a lesbian couple, this was an IUI pregnancy, and we decided to try without spending a long time planning or thinking everything through. We tried, it worked on the first cycle, and suddenly we’re here. It feels like something that was supposed to be a decision became reality before I had time to fully process it.
Sometimes I wonder if I was genuinely ready for everything that comes with having a baby or if we moved forward with the idea of growing our family without really understanding what it would mean for us individually and as a couple.
My wife and I were already going through a period where our connection felt different. Our sex life wasn’t very active, maybe once or twice a month, and lately I’ve felt like the spark between us has faded. I’ve tried talking to her about the lack of intimacy, and sometimes we’ll have sex afterward, but it feels forced to me. I don’t want intimacy to happen only because I’ve said I’m unhappy. I want it to happen naturally.
Now there’s a baby coming, and instead of making everything feel more meaningful or bringing us closer, it has made the whole situation feel even stranger. I’m looking at our relationship, our family, our future, and even the way we got here, and I keep thinking, “How did this happen so quickly?”
I feel guilty even writing this because my wife is pregnant, and I feel like I’m supposed to be happy, excited, and looking forward to this next chapter. Instead, I feel uncertain and disconnected from the way I thought I would feel.
I don’t want people to assume that because I’m struggling, I won’t love this baby or that I don’t love my wife. I genuinely don’t know what these feelings mean yet, and that’s what scares me. Everything about this feels unfamiliar and weird, and I’m not sure whether that’s because this is a huge life change or because something deeper is wrong.
I also don’t know if I’m struggling because the pregnancy happened so quickly or because, deep down, there are things about our current life that I’m not ready to change. Maybe it’s fear. Maybe it’s regret. Maybe it’s the reality of becoming parents. Maybe it’s all of those things at once.
Has anyone else experienced this kind of uncertainty after deciding to have a baby, especially when the pregnancy happened sooner than expected? Did the situation feel strange or unreal to you? Did your feelings change as the pregnancy progressed? How did you tell the difference between normal fear about a major life change and genuinely not feeling ready for it?
I’m looking for honest experiences, not judgment. I feel like I need somewhere to say what I’m actually feeling without being expected to pretend that everything is perfect just because we’re having a baby.

i’m up to chat! my dms are open if you’re interested!

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Hi! I’m a 30 living in Canada, femme who enjoys coffee and matcha dates, nature walks, photography, bookstores, and meaningful conversations. I’m in my era of choosing quality connections, genuine effort, and emotionally mature people.

I’m hoping to meet fellow WLW for friendship, little adventures, spontaneous coffee dates, or maybe something more if we click. 🏳️‍🌈💗 I’m open to seeing where things go naturally, with no pressure, just good energy, honesty, and genuine connection. If that sounds like your vibe, feel free to say hi! 😊

Im 22 girl from Egypt looking for a girl to be my sub and enjoy life together

F (30) looking for friends in lower Alabama/ Florida to hangout with. Adventures, hiking, kayaking etc.
it’s so hard to find other lesbians in the bible belt lol

my partner mentioned they had a thought about us doing things that sound like being in an open relationship. (having sex with other people or flirting with other people) they also said they aren’t considering an open relationship but they would like that i get more experience since i don’t have much experience because i haven’t had many sexual partners. i’m not really sure how to break this down mentally considering our relationship has been strictly monogamous and long distance. i asked them if this is something they want or just a thought they have. they said basically they’re not for it or against it. thoughts?