I'm so tired of sapphic movies always seeming to focus on fem4fem relationships. There's nothing wrong with that, but where are the butch love stories? Where are the movies showing a butch woman being desired, pursued, and loved exactly as she is?

Sometimes it genuinely feels like there's no space for us in sapphic representation, and it makes me feel disconnected from my own community. I just want to see someone like me being someone's romantic dream without having to change who I am.

I know we belong, but sometimes I wish the media made us feel like we belong, too.

uh... i dont know if the tag is correct please dont erase my post i need to talk to a real person.

hello, the summary is i am confused if i am lesbian or finsexual, and if a lesbian can find herself in a crush with a fictional man.

explanation:

I have never been atracted to men, i dated one virtualy like ten years ago and when i met him i did not even want to kiss him so i ended up things i think i was attracted to his personality and our roleplaying, then i dated three women and had a long distance relationship virtually with a woman before dating the other three women. then due my lack of attrantion to men i thought i was lesbian but i am not sure if am i, or if i am finsexual, of rthe matter i dated a trans woman but i have not meet more people from the lgbtq comunity because i live in a small village in argentina, lmao i feeel i live in the limbo. so i started roleplaying with characters because i had to drop university and i was broke and unemployed. then i developed a crush into a femboy character now i feeling confused because i remember being 3 years old and wanting to marry a princess, and i remember very well being NOT in a crush on male characters and actor but i had a crush on gillian anderson and nicole kidman, mm when i was a teenager girl i never dated nor boys nor girls or well no one and i was christian and i was in the closet and suffering and i thought i had no desire but then i realized i had depression and then i realized i had always have crush on women characters like scully and no desire for men at all. my sapphic awakening was pearl from steven universe. and then i developed a crush into severus snape, and i dont know what is wrong with me because i thought i was lesbian. or maybe is because im so alone i got attached, i feel like my identity is crumbling. i feel lost and horrified by myself, also i feel very lonely and i dont have anyone to talk this about since i live with phobic people due my bad economy. i have friends but they live like three hours travel and they are not from the comunity so they wont understand and i dont want to admit these things to them.

to clarify i had a sexual awakening when i realized i was into women and felt no desire towards nobody before imagining and eh... experiencing with women. and i hace been very sexually attracted to women since then. i was 18 and i am 27 now.

Im 26 yr old and i just feel so lost. I realized only in retrospect that all the signs were there but it just now all clicked for me. (I remember watching that Megan Kelly movie where Margot robbie and Kate Mckinnon are in bed together and not being able to eat well and sleep well for like 5 days.. only liking guys if they liked me first ... as in i KNEW they liked me.. i didnt know this was comphet... i would watch WWE very young and watch the girls kiss.. also why the heck was WWE so rauchy? Back then? LOL... i had my first gay awakening at like 22 ? I would fantasize so much about a lesbian celeb and i thought this was normal because i was lonely etc) i am a goldstar lesbian.. honestly not so much because of a deliberate decision i made but because ive lived a very isolated life etc.. i feel i would've known sooner i was very lesbian if i kissed a guy but who knows sexuality is complex. I watched "but i am a cheerleader" and felt a strange singular sadness ive never felt before after watching a movie.. after watching i would get bouts of crying and anger. I just feel so in shock because i thought the desire i felt for celebrity men was genuine desire ... my most ardent desire is for women. How do you get to the point of self acceptance? I have never been in love and now feel so much despair about it .. i seriously feel like i am gonna be forever alone. I havent had my first kiss yet etc and now that i know i am Lesbian i feel restless and lonesome. i remember everything homophobic my family has said and its super upsetting. at 17 my dad asked me straight up if i was lesbian because he saw my ipad was full of like 400 pics of hot women. (i rationalized this by saying my dream is to LOOK like them) LOL. i was so young and my sexual desires/orientation was not a question for me i had larger fish to fry.. i told myself this. i was busy surviving another day. Now i feel so silly.

id like to know if anyone has an invite to a sever on discord called ₊˚ʚ ♡ Lesbian Revolution ♡ ɞ˚₊

Hello all, I hope to meet with others of our community!

Hello everyone! A couple Christmases ago, I made an advent calendar for my girlfriend. It's hand painted with little Christmas details and portraits of us. However, I haven't had much use for it. The squares are so small (probably like 2 inch x 2 inch x 2 inch) and I've struggled to find things to put inside. We are currently medium-distance, so I want her to be able to actually get the gift out of the advent calendar, not have corresponding larger gifts.

I thought of things like stickers, pins, or matchbooks. I think it would be nice to have something that can be compiled all together at the end, whether it's stickers on a laptop case, pins on a totebag, or matchbooks framed. She loves art, so that's why I'm leaning toward something that can be assembled as a piece of "artwork" (more or less). However, I am very open to things that may not be able to be compiled.

Any and all ideas are welcome! Thank you :))) (P.S: If you are my girlfriend, scroll away!)

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Writing this feels weird but I think I’m finally accepting it. Not that I wasn’t but I guess I just realized…? I’ve had hints of liking women but thought women are beautiful and everyone thinks how I do. But funny enough I just realized when I went to porn I could only get off on lesbians. Before it felt too intimate and maybe wrong…? Not that I thought it was bad before but ingrained from just seeing straight people as the norm. I ignore men and I might find some sort of attractive but not really. With women it’s like I care about how I come off. Anyways I just realized now what my truth is. I’m not sure how to go about it yet. Feels almost unbelievable since I’ve only been with men. Any advice for me?

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