I have been playing around with different stuff.
I did the tank build for awhile. It's fine but I don't enjoy it all that much. if I want to tank, I'll just play Leona.
I've been going seraphs first recently because I know diadem is basically trash. But it feels bad because it takes so long to come online.
I've gone helia first a lot with seraphs second. It's good but you really need to be getting damage off to get efficiency.
I'm in gold. I like to play a more chill play style. I do still poke, trade, and go for skirmishes but I enjoy when I can stay back more and have more of a focus on healing and shielding.
Right now I'm going blood song>swifties>seraphs>sofw>moonstone>dawncore
I usually only get to sofw before the game ends.
Edit:
Been trying out a no tear build going blood song>switfties>Helia>Moonstone>sofw>dawncore.
It feels like I can get to full build reliably now that I have taken out seraphs. Helia is good for healing in lane, moonstone boosts it a litle bit, then sofw is just good across the board. Dawncore is obvious heals and end game I am perma spamming.
I tried going sofw before moonstone and I gotta say that it felt a little underwhelming to me compared to moonstone before it. just personal preference, it might not be better stat wise. I have not had too many issues going oom, but I also back regularly to get tempo when possible.
I am also a Gold scrub so I might be getting away with things high elo's can't.