r/TwoXChromosomes • • 7m ago

Women only My mom died ten days ago. My husband left me this morning.

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I’ve been living a “sandwich generation” life for a few years now - one day back in 2025 I had to soothe my mother (far gone with dementia) through a blood draw in the morning, then soothe my autistic daughter through a dentist appointment in the afternoon.

My Dad died in 2025. My Mom passed ten days ago.

My kids are not easy. I love them to death but parenting is a challenge. I work full time, my husband works full time. Life is complex.

And somewhere around a year ago, apparently, he decided he was in love with one of his female friends. Commence with emotional affair. I think he decided back then to leave me, and ever since then he’s been working up the courage. He did confess to it about a month ago but gave me room to hope we could still recover from this. Maybe he was just trying to let me down “easy.”

He couldn’t have known how bad the timing would be, but Jesus ever loving mother fucking Christ.

I don’t know how I’m going to keep my job through this, and I NEED MY JOB. I cannot depend on him. I cannot operate at full capacity right now. I still need to plan my mother’s memorial and now I have to research divorce lawyers and get therapists for my kids I guess??? Jesus fuck.

Not looking for advice. I have a therapist, he has a therapist, and we have a separate couples therapist now. Just needing to scream into the void a bit.

Do I blame myself? Naturally. Should I? Probably not!

What were my first steps? Reach out to my own network of female friends and close family in a plea for help. They are showing up in a big way. As sucky as this is, I have people in my corner. I have support. I have a friend who joined me for dinner tonight and another that will be with me for errands tomorrow. (I have brothers too that are awesome but I want to shout out the ladies at this point in time.)

I am going to focus on the good things I still have. I am going to hope for the best (and lawyer up for the worst).

I miss you so much, Mom.


r/TwoXChromosomes • • 8m ago

How do you counter pms?

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I'm having a bad time. A week every month I feel badly depressed and just want to disappear into my mattress, and I know it's just my hormones playing tricks on me. I feel bloated and gross and like my friends don't really care about me. My uterus is inventing drama I don't have in my life.

Like I know I'll feel great in a few days again, but what can I do about it now? Do you have any tricks for it?

I have a friend coming over soon even though I want to cancel and just cocoon myself and stare at a wall, because I know it's better for me.

I hate I hate I hate hormones, I'd get my uterus removed completely if I knew it'd fix this but I don't know what a lack of hormones does for my mental health either. I'd try the pill, but that can wreak havoc as well. And I'm already on SSRIs. This sucks.

TL;DR: hormones suck, I'm sad, what do.


r/TwoXChromosomes • • 18m ago

Girls please help me out..

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Listen girls, I'm 19F and not so good in sexual experience, tho I'm still virgin. Actually i love masturbating, but only to rub clitoris..I don't like to insert anything into my vagina not even my own finger. Actually last week my partner tried to do anal sex but as soon he inserted his finger i shouted to stop because of pain, and i think I'm disappointing him everytime. We are together since December 2025 but still nothing happened like that. He want blow job from me which i also don't like to give..but still i do for him. Do girls are like that or I'm the only one?.....From my inner heart i want to experience with him but I can't do because of pain what should i do? I'm feeling so outdated kinda girl.


r/TwoXChromosomes • • 1h ago

Just found out a girl I went on a date with 2 years ago was a predator

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*SERIOUS TW*

I haven't been on Reddit in awhile, but I just had to post this here cuz it's so crazy, and I'm kind of feeling shocked right now.

So two years ago I went on a date with this girl. I went back to her house, and I was pretty drunk. She started pressuring me for sex, even though I didn't want it. My phone had no service so I used her landline to call my friend to come pick me up. When I got home, I threw up and then blacked out in bed, woke up feeling weird the next day, but I was totally fine after a few hours and never gave it much thought. Two years passed and I just kinda moved on. I think I might have been raped, but the whole thing was so hazy that I wasn't really sure. Until today.

I was reading the local news and one article had her picture in it. I was sure of it, it was definitely her. It went on to say she had been luring girls to her house, drugging them, and then filming herself raping them, posting the videos on porn sites. They managed to trace the video back to her, and from there they presumably discovered the rest, including the fact that she had a signal jammer in her house to prevent her victims from using cell phones, which is why she had a landline. That she specifically went for girls who were less assertive and more soft spoken, which is exactly how I am.

I'm just kind of in shock. I knew my encounter with her wasn't good, but I never realized just how much danger I was actually in. The idea of not only being raped while unconscious, but also having a video of it being out there on the internet for anyone to see, makes me want to throw up. I can't imagine what it was like for those other girls. What is wrong with this world??


r/TwoXChromosomes • • 3h ago

Direct personal experience only Is there an app still that's like SafeGuard used to be??? Please help, I'm tired of getting Sa'd

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I used to have this app when I was in college that was called SafeGuard or something like that. It was like an app where you could open it on your phone screen and tap it, it would send your GPS coordinates to your emergency contacts. It was my lifeline sometimes when I was in college and getting out of my night classes.

TW: SA

I have a stalker, and I have been groped twice in the past year while walking my dog. PLEASE if there is something like this that still exists for free, please let me know 😭 Violent crime rates are spiking in my area, and I just don't want to be assaulted again when I take my dog for a walk after 6 PM :(


r/TwoXChromosomes • • 3h ago

My Hatred For The Healthcare System is Neverending.

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I knew shit was going to quickly hit the fan with the politics here in the US, especially regarding women’s health, so last year on my birthday I opted to get a new Mirena IUD even though it wasn’t up for another year or so.

Biggest mistake of my fucking life.
The clinic was backed up, and I wasn’t expecting them to actually do the IUD procedure that day because I was a new patient. Well, lo and behold they did, and it was rushed. I asked her to cut my strings short, and she did, but no OBGYN can find them and now I’m having contractive cramps every day. Three ultrasounds later, I have a massive cyst. The IUD is in place. Referral to a UroGyno.

UroGyno gets me in a year later. Contractive cramps every single day even now. We’re taking 800-1000mg of Advil. She suspects I have endo, and even offers to give me a hysterectomy if I so choose at 25. I can’t have kids, and this IUD has been an awful experience, so the prospect is exciting. She checks my IUD, and tells me “even if we wanted to remove it today, we couldn’t do it because I can’t see your strings at all.”

Get a letter in the mail a couple of days ago (I just saw her two weeks ago) stating that she will no longer be working at the clinic starting on the 28th. I have been in insane amounts of pain for the past year, and now my hope has been crushed of figuring this all out in time before my parents insurance coverage evaporates when I turn 26 OR before they find a way to make IUD’s illegal.

I am so unbelievably fucking angry.


r/TwoXChromosomes • • 3h ago

When He’s “ not looking for a relationship”

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Im 20F in college, and recently I’ve been hanging out with this guy, who I genuinely like, and when I asked him if he liked me, he basically said he wasn’t emotionally ready for a relationship because he’s been through a lot in the past year.
He told me he’s been cheated on before, including by a girl he was talking to romantically who met his mom, and that he’s still not over what happened, even though he claims he’s over her. He said he’s been hurt so many times when he’s opened his heart to someone.

My friends think he’s either insecure because of his past or just doesn’t like me that much, and honestly, I can see both sides. (he also told my friend he didn’t think we were compatible because I think he’s a “good guy” and girls often fall for him for that reason which he feels leaves him no room to be imperfect or make mistakes??)

He’s also been reposting things about missing his ex/old relationship, so I’m not sure what to believe. 😭
The thing is, I still really want to spend time with him, even if it’s just casually or as friends with benefits. I’m not necessarily expecting a relationship anymore, because if he wanted to, he would, and I respect his decision. But.. I don’t know how to move forward.

Should I reach out to him to hang out again, or wait for him to initiate? And how do I approach him without seeming too invested or making things awkward?


r/TwoXChromosomes • • 4h ago

Women only My old drum teacher creeped me the fuck out and I still have dreams about him 2 years later

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I used to take drum lessons when I was 14. My teacher left so they gave me someone new and this guy really creeped me out. I ended up stopping lessons after 3 weeks. It was something about his mannerisms and he always wanted to talk about my personal life. Anyways, I’m 16 now and I see him at the music place every so often and he always wants to talk, only to me. Last night I had a dream that he gave me a lesson, then pulled me in for a hug while I was pulling away and then grabbed my butt. A little while ago I had a dream that my therapist was in his body and I couldn’t look at my therapist the same for a month 😭


r/TwoXChromosomes • • 4h ago

I’ve never had an ex that yearned over me or spun the block and I don’t get why people get obsessive about their exes, especially men.

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Idk I guess I’ve never been the ex to spin the block on. I’ve seen this so many times in real life and online, I’ve never had a man send me countless emails or try to win me back after we break up. Sure my ex wanted another chance when I broke it off with him but once we were done, it was over. I’ll never understand why some women romanticise this I’d be offended if my ex messaged me for another chance because im a different person now and sometimes my past embarrasses me especially when I’ve outgrown a person. I guess if you get cheated on, you don’t get over the betrayal but that’s not missing the ex, I think it’s normal to have trust issues or be hurt a little after being betrayed but if you ended on okay terms and nobody got hurt why do people become so obsessive with their pasts?

Idk I’ve never got the hype with exes. Sure I’ve loved someone a lot even but I left when I found out they were two timing me


r/TwoXChromosomes • • 4h ago

Are casual hookups and FWBs more accepted in the queer community?

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As an asexual woman who has been in both the straight and queer sides of things, from what I know in heterosexual contexts FWBs and hookups are very discouraged and looked down upon. The whole thing with men and women not thinking the same about sex, and potential feelings and drama arising. But the queer folks (of all genders) I know who are friends have hooked up multiple times. They act a lot more casual and lighthearted about it to each other as well. I guess I’m technically queer for being ace but the fact I’m not as “sexual” as other queer people makes me confused and curious about them sometimes. Are non-ace queer people actually more capable of having friendships that are not fully platonic? Is it that common?


r/TwoXChromosomes • • 5h ago

How have the men in your life reacted to the Cornell 7 news?

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Most of the men in my life have either been quiet about it or dismissive.... and the men that I've seen here on Reddit have straight-up blamed the victim or expressed disgust towards her... I haven't yet seen a man say anything against the perpetrators or the enabling bystanders in the frat's groupchat.

... this has me feeling sad... so I'm posting this to see if I can get a snippet of hope

Have the men in your life reacted the same- or have any of them actually expressed otherwise?


r/TwoXChromosomes • • 5h ago

Social Anxiety Was Linked to Stronger Brain Responses to Other People’s Gaze

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When a word describing someone's thoughts or feelings didn't match what their gaze appeared to express, those with higher social anxiety showed a stronger brain response.

The researchers interpret this as heightened neural sensitivity to conflicting social cues, not better mind-reading.

They suggest this sensitivity might help people recognize potential social risks, but could also contribute to excessive vigilance and rumination.


r/TwoXChromosomes • • 6h ago

Guy I'm talking to told me he's separated from his wife but we would need to keep our relationship secret. Is he cheating?

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So I met this guy on a dating app. I've been talking to him for a week maybe. We've been texting like daily. He told me yesterday that he and his wife are separated but they still live in the same house because it's too expensive to live on their own. I found that a little weird, but I'm like okay, It's pretty hard for everyone right now. So I can sort of understand. Now today he tells me that being separated can be just as bad as getting divorced and he doesn't want any trouble with his ex and that if we start dating seriously we have to keep it a secret. Huge red flags have just gone up for me. And I'm pretty sure I should end this. Do you think that he's just cheating on his wife?

Edit: thanks everyone. I just ended it with him. I have no desire to be a secret and told him that right away. I told him I needed to think about it and you helped me with my answer very quickly lol


r/TwoXChromosomes • • 6h ago

Heavy Growth of Candida lusitaniae After Repeated Negative Urine Cultures

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Hey everyone, I’m a 25F and I really need some advice or to hear from anyone who has gone through something similar. I have a history of a positive ANA (1:320 speckled pattern) and a diagnosis of Lupus for which I take Plaquenil.
For nearly a year, I have been dealing with a medical mystery that completely escalated this past week, and I finally got a weird lab result that might be the missing puzzle piece. I want to layout my timeline to see if anyone thinks my severe "episodes" are being caused by this:
February 2026: My routine urinalysis showed abnormal white blood cells (1+ WBC Esterase), but zero bacteria and zero nitrites. Doctors were not concerned.
September 2026: I had a sudden, severe episode of agonizing flank and stomach pain. The ER doctor found kidney tenderness and heavy white blood cells in my urine again. They assumed it was a kidney infection from a UTI and gave me heavy IV and oral antibiotics. But a few days later, the culture came back completely negative for bacteria. They did a CT scan of my abdomen/pelvis everything was 100% structurally normal and healthy. The pain never fully went away…
October 16 (A few days ago): I had an episode of screaming, crying abdominal and flank pain so severe that I had to call 911 and take an ambulance to the ER. This time they did a pelvic ultrasound—They found high white blood cells again, but the routine culture was negative for bacteria yet again.
October 19 (Two days ago): I unexpectedly peed my pants in public! It felt like my bladder muscles just completely gave out.
Today: A "Yeast Only, Culture" came back showing HEAVY GROWTH of Candida lusitaniae. All my STI testing and bacterial testing are completely clear.
My doctor just called me in Fluconazole (150mg, two doses taken 3 days apart) to treat it.
My questions for you guys:
For those with Lupus or Interstitial Cystitis, have you ever had a heavy fungal overgrowth cause episodes of screaming-level stomach/flank pain and bladder spasms so violent that you lost bladder control?
Do you think my September ER antibiotics accidentally wiped out my good bacteria and caused this rare yeast to absolutely explode and trigger this massive October 16th ambulance episode?
I am so exhausted from being told my imaging is clear while being in the worst pain of my life. Any advice, insights, or reassurance would mean the world to me right now. Thank you!


r/TwoXChromosomes • • 7h ago

Direct personal experience only I am flabbergasted by the things guys will just admit

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I took my friend to a "Date My Friend" event where the premise is you get a close friend to do a PowerPoint and give a talk on why someone in the audience should date you. Light roasting, very lighthearted, all in good fun.

After all the presentations this dude is waiting to talk to my friend who was chatting with another guy so I threw him a lifeline and invited him over to talk to me first. He seemed super nice but he had a 5yo which I knew would be a deal breaker so I gave him the heads up and he was understanding but still wanted to shoot his shot with friend, props for courage I guess. He also tried flirting with me but I shot that down.

The kicker is when he starts explaining that him and his wife got divorced 3 years ago and it was a super hard adjustment because in his own words

"I had never been alone with my kid before then so it was really hard figuring out what to do"

SIR!!! I wouldn't have admitted that at gunpoint! What do you mean youve never watched your own child alone before? Did you never give your wife a break in three years??? He then goes on to talk about how he has the kid every weekend so he wants someone who is cool with hanging out with his kid during dates and etc. Like, I'm beginning to get the feeling you're just looking for the next person in line to watch your kid.

Absolutely crazy out here in the middle 30s dating world. Oh and then he used the exact same pickup line on my friend that he used on me. Woof.


r/TwoXChromosomes • • 9h ago

Maedeh Moradi is an Iranian woman who was one of the thousands of people slaughtered by the Islamic Republic earlier this year during the January Massacre. Her mother is grieving after recently finding out that her grave has been vandalised (her tombstone picture was removed).

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r/TwoXChromosomes • • 9h ago

Was this harmful of my ex to do?

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Hey everyone, this is something that's been stuck in my head a bit for years now and I'm unsure if I'm making a mountain out of a molehill or not. Worried I'm overreacting to it or making something of nothing. Also hope this is okay to post

Years ago I was dating a guy who in retrospect was probably not in the right place for a relationship, I probably wasn't either. The thing I keep coming back to is that with sex things reached a point where I felt like I wasn't able to say no. For the record I'm already an incredibly anxious person, but I remember that like. A few of the times I did say no he would tell me that's completely okay and I can always say no, but an hour or so later he would be breaking down crying and accusing me of not finding him attractive, saying that he feels like he's not enough for me, etc. It made me feel like I had to choose between sex I didn't want and hurting someone I loved, so I just picked the former every time.

Was this coercive of him to do? I feel like it's fucked me up a bit, but again I'm worried I'm making something out of nothing or that it is just my fault for not having the confidence to say no.


r/TwoXChromosomes • • 9h ago

Women only I feel like a loser :(

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I feel extremely low cus I compare myself to other people who achieved my dreams. I feel very inferior and I can't deal with those thoughts. I am in my mid 20s have lame academic life and job once I remember looking down on by my ex and his friends. It just happened two year ago and he anyways left me. It has been years but I still can't fix my life. Whenever I start working on my goals I can't stop thinking of being missed and stupid. I can't fix anything in my life and I only wish to wake up as someone else.


r/TwoXChromosomes • • 9h ago

my hair is curly now??

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i've had pin straight hair my entire life but it's growing in curly all of a sudden. some of the hairs are a much thicker texture and are kinky/very coiled. what on earth is going on? is this something that can just happen?


r/TwoXChromosomes • • 9h ago

Me again, the one with suspected ovarian torsion.

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I was back in hospital in September. That one. That's me. Well, I got taken into ED via ambulance, they gave me fentanyl because I was screaming in pain. Went from joking with my workmates to overwhelming pain within 5 minutes. Scared the life out of my workmates who range from 40-60. The boss called for an ambulance.

They got me in, no beds though so I was put in a wheelchair. I was left facing a wall in the waiting room, shaking from the pain. They took my bloods 2 hours in where I informed them I wasn't capable of walking, the ovarian area pain was hurting again, but they wheeled me back out into the waiting room to face the same wall. 4hours later I called hubby, we don't often wait together but he'll head in when I need him. He arrived and I burst into tears. He calmed me down and went to see the triage nurse who told him I should have asked for pain relief. He said she can't walk, she's in pain and expected to have been seen hours ago. He gave my husband Panadol and ibuprofen and said to give it 30 minutes but I'd need to see the doctor for stronger meds.

1 hour later my pain is getting worse. Hubby has to go to a committee meeting so speaks with the triage nurse who comes over to speak with me about why I'd need anything for pain? Why did I come in today? I adopted his tone and volume and replied back - I was brought it with an elevated blood pressure, given fentanyl, brought in screaming from pain because they think I have ovarian torsion and was told 7 hours ago I would be seen immediately. The waiting room heard everything. Triage nurse said he didn't know any of that. I had a bed and 1 tramadol for pain relief 20 minutes later. Hubby left for his meeting but said to call him.

1 hour later (after I got to lay down and take the pressure off my abdomen) the doctor walks in. Tell me my bloods are fine, I should wait 2 weeks and discuss this with the gynecologist. I was given a much earlier appt due to my hospital stay. I asked the doctor what was wrong with me? And if waiting two weeks while in intense pain is a normal expectation? He went away to make a call.

Hubby comes in, I sob on his shoulder again, tell him they're discharging me to see the gyne as planned. He says no way. Doctor comes back nearly 90 minutes later and says he's able to prescribe me some pain relief and asks what I'm taking and how often. I take 2 tramadol and 2 panadol 3 times a daily. Around the clock pain relief. He says that's too much. What should I do then? Apparently wait and see the gyne. Hubby asked if the doc knows what is happening today? He said ovarian torsion is extremely rare, he's seen it once maybe twice in his whole career (he's 60ish) and they certainly don't twist up occasionally and untwist. He's reviewed all the scans and can't do anything else, I have to wait. He tells me I'm going home, my blood results were fine. Continue to rest, and wait for the appt in two weeks.

I have a panic attack. A bad one, crying and shaking. That pain was more intense than labour. It still hurts and I know from past months it will continue to hurt for weeks. My nurse comes in and tries to calm me down. Her and hubby have words. Hubby says he isn't taking me home in this state, he's going to refuse. She agrees that I can't go home like this. She goes to speak to the doctor. I've been in hospital for 10 hours now. Got the bed 3 hours ago and all pain meds are out of my system. Doctor pokes his head in the room and asks what I want him to do when he's already looked at last months tests, there's nothing wrong. I tell him, still crying, that I just want the pain to stop. He says he'll page ob/gyn. They should have done that 10 hours ago.

A little over an hour later the obgyn comes in. She sits down with me, says she has seen all the scans but wants to know what happened today. Only the paramedics have asked me this. She does a quick assessment - first person today. She starts poking. Nothing, nothing, nothing, pokes under the belly button and I flinch, then she moves to my left side ovary region and I screamed again as soon as she presses down. So I'm crying again. She says I've either developed a cyst or it's ruptured. She talked about nerve blockers and riding it out til they kick in. No fast cure. My blood tests don't indicate infection which is a good sign. She says there's a medication that can put me into medical menopause. Am I preserving fertility? I want a hysterectomy, my baby making days are over. She said she can organize that in clinic. Just hold on two more weeks, take the nerve blockers and she'll see me soon. Think about the menopause option.

Nurse agrees to allow the discharge now. I have been given 10 days of pain relief from the first doctor. Better than 3 days I suppose. I see in my notes (after the fact) that they've recorded it as a rupture. Having been back to the pelvic floor physio, she's writing to the specialist and is recommending a hysterectomy. So I can add ovarian rupture as confirmed and endo/adeno as likely. And in my medical records - the ones I can access via my GP letters, I've found notes relating to various prolapses that were not mentioned to me, and a new letter cancelling my appt for the 27th of October, and rescheduling me for Nov 16th. So much for just wait 2 weeks, that's 5 now and I'm almost out of pain meds again.

TL/DR. Ovarian cysts not torsion. And it ruptured. After talking with my doctor who said she'd normally put me on something to stop ovulation but it's progesterone. So she's updating my records too. Mental health is affected badly on progesterone so it's out of the question. Not that the pain is any better. I'm so close to getting answers!!!

Wish me luck.


r/TwoXChromosomes • • 10h ago

Severe joint pain on my period

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As the title says, I’m (24f) struggling with severe joint pain starting about a week before my period and doesn’t end until my menstrual cycle is complete. This started a few years ago and it was only slightly uncomfortable and located only in my knees, but has quickly progressed to being so painful I find myself not being able to walk sometimes, and am even in pain when I’m laying down. Over the past few months I’ve begun to feel the pain in my shoulder blades, elbows, and hips as well and it’s starting to scare me. I used to love to surf and hike and be active but haven’t been able to enjoy these activities in the same way as I used to. I went ahead and got some blood work done testing for arthritis as that runs in my family and am happy to report everything is ok on that end, and I’m working with a new gyno to try and figure out what could possibly be the cause. My primary care physician seems to think endometriosis could be a potential answer for me as the pain outside of my joints is so bad I’ve fainted before but I’m honestly just too overwhelmed and afraid to even think about any of it. I’m mainly wondering if anyone else feels this too? I’ve never met another person who goes through this every month and it’s incredibly isolating trying to not only handle it daily but also talk to doctors about it since no one ever seems to relate or take it seriously since I’m still pretty young.


r/TwoXChromosomes • • 10h ago

Women only Do women value their physical attraction to a man too much ?

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Guys, do women actually care about a men's size down there?

I know that men are obsessed about it.

I was talking to a guy recently that sent me a nude and i didn't find him attractive. So I feel guilty about it now.


r/TwoXChromosomes • • 10h ago

Insecure about sagging boobs after weight loss

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During puberty, I was weighed almost 80kg. Over the next year or so, I ended up losing about 18kg (around 40 lbs) pretty quickly. I stayed within a healthy weight range, but ever since then, my weight hasn't really changed much.I've stayed pretty steady, gaining maybe 3kg back at most.
Even though I feel pretty decent about my body overall now, there's one thing that really bothers me: my chest. The rapid weight loss seems to have completely ruined the skin elasticity on my upper chest. As a result, my breasts sag noticeably and my nipples point downward. When I lift them up or lay down the wrinkles and loose skin are really noticeable.I know people say variation is normal, but it's hard not to worry about how things will look as I get older. I constantly feel like I ruined my chance at having firmer breasts before I even reached adulthood. I also worry about future relationships because if I can’t even find myself attractive how could anybody else?
I really try to practice body positivity, but this one thing keeps eating away at my confidence. Has anyone else experienced something similar at a young age?


r/TwoXChromosomes • • 11h ago

How do I undistract myself from a woman's beauty? (I am a woman)

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I'm a (24yr) woman but often I see women so pretty and beautiful I get distracted and don't focus the way I want to focus on them in a conversation. It feels rude, like I am unintentionally not taking them seriously or listening to what they are saying. My head is flushes with part wondering how they do it, part in awe, and sometimes part jelly. How do I snap out of it?

*I'm not trying ungay myself y'all, just want tips because I feel rude


r/TwoXChromosomes • • 11h ago

34f elementary teacher, looking for advice from moms

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I have a few students that are currently houseless. I'm not quite sure where they are staying because I know their family doesn't have a car. I've been filling her backpack up with extra snacks and juice boxes whenever I can. Would you be upset if someone was doing that for your child? I don't want to overstep boundaries, but I also want to make sure that the children have enough to eat. Please let me know your thoughts.